Merged: Selos or Jealousy in Relationships

[jeppoy]

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not really...jealousy only shows that we are humans...but it is not directly proportional to not trusting your partner....lambing lang kng baga..but not to the point of being jealous at something nga wlay value...

[kulapo]

hi there. jealousy is basically selfishness clothed in insecurity (or vice versa). when your partner starts getting jealous, that means it's time to take off your cloth


regards

[sandzky_21]

not really...jealousy only shows that we are humans...but it is not directly proportional to not trusting your partner....lambing lang kng baga..but not to the point of being jealous at something nga wlay value...

i wont oppose to your statement.. jealousy for me means that specific someone meant to you a lot.
and that you dont want him/her to shift his/her attention to someone else especially you are with him/her.

[sandzky_21]

jealousy means your suspecting your partner of doing something bad but it doesnt mean that its to the extreme level.. again, its just showing that you dont want to lose your partner in anyway or another.
right?

[pnk_shadows]

jealousy stems from different causes. lack of trust is just one thing. another cud be insecurity. it cud also be projection (jealous person cud actually be d one doing some monkey biz) and there's jealousy born out of paranoia--the person is just so afraid to lose you that he/she develops irrational fear just to solicit constant assurance from you for commitment..and then there is also lack of trust---something that you urself could have caused..

[SmartGal]

When someone gets jealous, it doesn't necessarily mean to say the person lacks of trust. For me, Jealousy is a normal feeling for someone who is dear to you. It is an indicator that you are important for each other. BUT, it should be within normal range..not to the extent where your love relationship will be at stake.

[diva]

It depends on the extent of jealousness. But usually it's just a sign that you love the person.

[elgie]

i THINK so!!!!but also mag depnd sad ni sometimes sa SITUATION.

[jonz]

it is not primarily no trust... or lack of trust..... pwde pd ng lambing ra... wna have attention...... and it could be insecurity to oneself. comparing onself to another and its a no no.... and should be avoided.... pg kuyog mo then feel this way.... the reason mentioned above could be possible.. pro pg lagyo... pwde pd kulangan ug trust..... but its case to case basis

[monrose29]

natural jud na ma selos ang tawo oy..... it dsnt mean nga abi nag selos ka kulang ka og trust niya.....
you cant blame anybody sa in ana nga feelings kay normal jud na sa usa ka tawo...

abnormal ang tawo nga deli maka feel og jelousy...... .....