LOVE PROBLEMS ( post em all here ) READ FIRST POST...

[diem]

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@mhai_7, nagalit ka kasi nagsinualing siya sa iyo. Nagalit ka kasi feeling mo nabastos ka.. kaya binastos mo rin siya. Words can be very hurtful and often it will take more than just a simple "sorry". Kung nagsisisi ka talaga sa ginawa mo at ayaw mo mawala ang pagkakaibigan niyo, ito lang ang maipapayo ko sa iyo... bigyan mo ng panahon para mahilom at malimutan ang sugat na dulot sa sinabi mo.. bigyan mo ng isang buwan kaya. While you give it time, you have to write a letter, a sincere letter sharing your regret and your hope to mend the friendship. You have his email address? Or kaya his home address? Then ipadala mo pagkatapos ng isang buwan.

Sa totoo lang, relationships are delicate things. Some are stronger than most, like family ties where blood is bond. Kaya ang mga friendships mas delikado... one wrong move or a malicious word can end it.. once broken can never be fully mended... I should know.. I've been through that before.

Change is constant in life. One true measure of change is that people come, people go in your life. No one will ever stay with you.

[JSL]

no problem

[meOwkyU]

hi! long time no post...i juz wanted to hear ur opinion on this

i have this guy friend who is very kind, intelligent (congrats to him for passing the board exam!), friendly, and caring...i thought he had the almost perfect and complete life until he told me about how much he hates LOVE...he believes Hate is a stronger thing than love, love does not exist, and he can live a happy life without a beloved someone (im talking bout a future gf or wife perhaps).....he even swore to me that he will never ever fall totally in luv with any girl (i juz want to clarify that i dont have any feelings for him watsoever)....

u might think that this is stupid but, i really dont want him to be overshadowed by his dark past (geez, i cant believe he's suffering the whole time)...an experience he had with an ex-love...

i want to help him,....i dont want to hear him talking like that...id like to help him open his heart...i attempted to do so but i failed...wat should i do i dont want to giv up on him this early.....he needs to move on....id like to see him move on...

[diem]

@meowkyu, you are a person with good intentions but the thing about good intentions is that they are often misguided.

Can I ask a question, is your friend visibly suffering? Is he cursing the world? Is he becoming bitter and antisocial? It he benting out his hate against people? Against women? Against you? Is he causing others suffering? Does he look down, always scowling or frowning?

If the majority of these questions are answered by No, then I think that you should just leave him alone. As you posted, he's been wounded and need time to heal. And his convictions are just a manner for him in dealing with his hurt. Give him time, give him space, give him the friendship that does not judge nor condemns. BE a friend who accepts the person who he is now. Give him time, give him space.

You tried to help him but don't you think you could better help him by leaving your friend be? Its his life, his choice, his and as long as he not doing any harm to himself and to others then let him live his life as he wills. Our lives are our own, to use or waste as we choose. If we care to, no one can try to change our minds or our hearts but ourselves... Let him have his life, you have yours to consider too.

It's not the end of a person's life to choose not to love. Many people have chosen the blessedness of singlehood and focus their energies in achieving tasks and things. Perhaps for your friend, having just passed his board exam, he's just clarifying his priorities (however twisted a way) and having a relationship is definitely not his immediate priority.

Your friend sounds like a passionate young man with goals. He may have suffered the bitter defeat of an unrequited romance but I get the impression that he's got a good head on his shoulders and will turn his passions into more fruitful and profitable pursuits. He might make himself someone successful one day. Though his heart may be closed, it is only closed for Now. Who knows, five years, ten years, tomorrow... as nature will, as God will decree.. his heart may be open for love, sure and ready.

As a friend, you should only hope and pray, and be ready to help him if he asks for it. You are not his mother, nor a blood relative so don't be overly too concerned... because those who are too concerned about others may tend to forget themselves and that is not the way to live. Or to love.

[titaniumbox]

tell first your bf about your current situation..let him know that he's the father of the baby.. talk it over with him seriously and whatever the outcome maybe. just accept it even if its not on your favor. babies are blessings,so be a responsible mom..take responsibility over your actions.. juggle both being a mom and a student..in time you'll pull this one with the help of your loved ones,family and friends..

[jaeihj]

love doesnt give problems...

[ronna]

love doesnt give problems...

but gives heartaches hehehe

that lead to problems. wahehehe

[sheka]

that lead to problems. wahehehe

nya ma out of direction ang life

[alainphillip]

how to get back with ur exgf nga naa nay uyab? plus iya uyab kay ex rapud


help........ crazy stuff love can do........

[n`gel]

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