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[skOOkUMcHUck]

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i know lots of people tried this nah..

i mean ur bf/gf mo change bah...

what i'm trying to say is that...


dibah first ninyo kaila.. sus devoted kaau iyang life nimo..
but then after how many months.. mo kalit lang ug change or something...
as in we all notice it right?

A :arrow: is it because, girls changed too? (sobra na ka selosa or for some reason)
B :arrow: or is it because na pul-an nah?
C :arrow: or maybe it's just the way it is? (and deal with it!)


i just want to know what is the main reason why people change their attitude towards their bf/gf..
if u have some experienced y...
please don't be shy to post it..
it can help bunch of people who has the same problem as mine.. thank you...

[thisbe.ara]

maybe it's because u were caught up in the first few meetings then na-rush bitaw and somehow the familiarity seems to fade away... the magic of the first meeting fades...
my thoughts lang, the strongest relationships can bear changes..maski pa nga naay nausab, they embrace these changes...changes can tell you that your relationship is growing...dili ra caught up in the magic of getting to knw each other...so i thnk the best way is to talk it out with him.... if you can surpass this inspite and despite of the changes, then you better not let go of him, girl...wish this helped..

[tracktrix]

the only constant thing in this world is change... If people don't change, people wont grow... Sometimes, (speciallly in a relationship) somethings happen the way we want it to be.. but there are also times that it happens exactly the other way around... sometimes, changes in a relationship happens beacause, it might have elevated it's level to a higher degree of relationship like, being engaged, or married, or having eloped and etc...

however, to give you the real answers to ur questions about y ur lover changed, is to ask him straight to the point. i bet your man would give a sincere answer about it.. but if he wont give out an honest answer, you might try to dig a lil deeper..

[diva]

Change? Or maybe you just see him more clearly now as your relationship goes further. Maybe he also notice something about you that he did not notice before and also said you change. I think in every relationship there is this experience. Maybe because you get used to each others company and the natural attitude of the person comes out....that's why we said that you've changed.

[alwina]

the only constant thing in this world is "change"

[skOOkUMcHUck]

@tracktrix: u got a point there bro!

so changes/changing is a good thing to each one of us?

[twalalyn]

we are always changing and change leads us to a person that we will become...i think change is good it doesn't matter if im so down ryt now or im so happy because this change will teach you something bout yourself...we change for a reason because we are constantly trying to find what makes us happy and no one wants to have a boring lyf...ryt?

[tracktrix]

@tracktrix: u got a point there bro!

so changes/changing is a good thing to each one of us?

i think not all changes bring about good things... some people find change distructive but others consider it as blessings. but of course, case to case basis jud ang most...

[[DSX]]

that's the way the cookie crumbles.
as to how you react on the changes depends entirely on you. you can make that change put to good use or the opposite.

[kiat_kaau_kusion_beh:-)]

@ dsx: i agree with that.

it really depends on how you react on a certain situations and that you can always have a choice for good and not good.