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[jugs_06]

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^^that's exactly what you have and what you should do.. don't get stuck within your own parameters.. go out.. explore.. but be careful..

[titaniumbox]

yupzz!!! its always a risk in getting into a relationship,,there's no assurance that things would always go your way.. just have to seize the moment and cherish the wonderful memories together..siggghhhh..

[clive]

pretty difficult gyud na imo situation pre... ive met a lot of peeps kay mindanao man ko work nga parehas ug situation nmo..

lisod na sya especially TNT p gyud mo.. what would be the reaction of both families kung mahibaw.an? ang nahitabo sa akong friends nagbuwag nalng cla or risk nga ma alienate sila sa ilang isig ka pamilya... lisod man gud ni kontrahun ang family gud..

pero if open minded inyong mga pamilya... then why mag TNT... lisod gyud kaayu na..

hope ma settle nmo na.. hay gugma... gud luck pre.. and i mean it..

ok ra sa akong family side sa iyaha lang side ang dli kabalo..... anyway thnx au bai....

[mhai...07]

hey guys,need advice here!!!!

its like,i have this chatmate,his name is ric ..weve known each other before but since its not everyday i open up ym and its not everytime i open it hes online..it was last friday wen we chatted back..i did forgot the details of him and he too did..so we started from the very start..we get to know each other and that
i knew he has sumthing in common with my father..i was amazed by his words..he did gave me back my faith ,faith to believe in myself and to believe that GOD is still there inspite the problems where i did came up loosing up everything.. everytime i open up my ym and see him online makes my heart jump totally high... ..its not that im loving him as sumone special but im loving him lyk i did with my father.. :mrgreen:..the problem is i did turn him down.. we just chat now and ended up evrything..i was mad wen he told she has a gf here in the philippines,im mad cos she never told me that..i did ask him if he has one and she totally say NO kc work muna daw aatupagin nya...d pa me convinced so i joke him up to get married he was luaghing and saying panu nga raw eh gf ala xa..he was seruious i know,but it was just this morning that he told me he has sumone special left in the philippines,without a second thought i was rude to him and did say f*** OFF to him which has really hurt him...i dnt love him thats why im mad but the point is he never tried telling me the truth,its like he never trust me at all..i just feel so unfair since i did tell him everyhting about me,ganun ka laki trust ko sa kanya...but he failed me....


u think i shud say sorry to him cos of the word i say??
u think its ryt for me to make my first move??
i admit hes a big loss to me cos has been a big part of me...wat shud i do??pls help..

[nhoj]

Mayb you should just try to apologize and befriend him again, explain why you said the F word...just kidd around, saying for instance that you're trying to test your friendship with him by getting him mad and the like...act as if it doesnt matter to you..u nver know, mayb his also testing you, trying to see if you get jealous if he sed that he has a gf..trust me, im a guy...if i want to know if the girl like me..i'll try to test her, and one way is letting her get jealous...just my 2 cent

[mhai...07]

thnx for the advice but i dnt think so its his way i was just like his daughter mn gd..
no less no more

but ill try..

[mhai...07]

ok ra sa akong family side sa iyaha lang side ang dli kabalo..... anyway thnx au bai....

naa ko friend tol na rehas nmu og situation..
rehas pud nn.u duha puro dili gusto mu.convert..TNT pud cla..
kami ra iya friends ang nkhibaw og friends sa laki(iya bf)...
at the age of 21 and 22 they have plans na in settling down kaso how??
dugay na pud bya cla,pero na huna.hunaan sa ako friend na useless ra mn daw tanan
kung tagsa2 cla og religion mahati pud ila mga anak kay isig angkonay ra mn nya pud ang mahitabo...so wat they did..nagbuwag cla to give time for their selves kung kaya ba jud nila without each other...it did work bya..nagbalik ra jud cla and my friend did sacrifice she converted to christian,though ang ending was gitakwil xa sa iya family..she does not mind nmn pud kay one great love will pass only once and if u just let it pass ur way it will never come again..la pud nadugay nadawat ra pud ako friend sa iya family...the good thing is my friends family nag paconvert nlng pud para to avoid conflict sa ilang grandchildren..

kaw tol nara nah nmu..if the both of u cant let go of each other then one must take the risk...kinahanglan tol its a willful risk ha para lai basulay..

[captpoloy]

wow thats very rude...
think you need to say sorry.
explain mo lang na you felt being bad on what you just knew.
thats why those rude words came out of your mouth.

[mhai...07]

@captpoloy:

too bad but i was really rud e..i duno how to start up mn gani..
ni how to end my speech for him was really questionable pa jd..

[rumsfield]

wako sabot imo xa gi busted in the first place? i assumed yor nt in pinas ryt now, am i ryt? if dat guy naa diri sa pinas ayaw nalang paghamdom kay daghan gwafa diri sa cbu hehehehe....beliv me....