palihug, TAMBAGI ko... tabang intawn

[jOwEy cEe]

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mao lagi unta oi... valentines na unta, karn pa jud mi grabeh nagka-lalis.

[jOwEy cEe]

Ing-ana sad ko.. ganahan na ako parents mag abroad na as a nurse daun naa ko call center na landing...But for me you have to do what you love, after all life is short its like a coin. You can spend it any way you wish, but you only spend it once. So Break the rules sometimes, Forgive quickly,Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably, And never regret anything that made you smile. Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did. So throw off
the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.

If d naka happy living with your mom. Talk to her nga mag kaugalingon naka.. anyway mabuhi naman kha ka.. D mana magoul imo papa.. ma proud noun na madugay kong maka stand naka on your own... basta yaw lang pag pabadlong... heheh

--agree kaayo ko ana. i always believe dat life is too short to waste the opportunities of doing somethng that u rly love. bt m d kind of person man sad gd na doesnt want to dsappoint esp my parents. dats y i am full of guilt everytime i do thngs i want but forgettng my responsibility to them.

[Monmyhand]

you focus on yourself instead of your mama's demands.

somewhere down the road.. you will look back.. and realize your mama.. is simply..the one who brought you to this life.

[jOwEy cEe]

as much as i rly want to... i dont really hate my mother, i do love her and i am very thankful of her. it is just d fact dat she is wanting too mch from me wch is an exact opposite of what i want from me.

[cjmagowan]

@cjmagowan: i agree. dats y sometimes i envy d western culture. dey let der kids do what dey want n not asking 4 anythng n return bcz dey hav already saved up for retirement. oh well. ana btaw one time akong mama na basin daw magminyo nko den ako na daw cla kalimtan. hay... even that she controls. wch is y i am so hopeless.

ahhh... bacn pud tungod ky dha pka sa estar sa inyo bacn mao na...

her haus... her rules.

storyai nlng jud na ninyo.. kanang bugnaw mong duha sa imong mama ug ulo.. basta make her realize not just understand.

by the time wla nka dha magsaka sa inyo.. mingawon nana imo mama nmo.

d man kha ka niya dapatan TS? kng musupak ka sa iya gusto muunsa man imo mama?

[jOwEy cEe]

cjmagowan: naa man gani ko samad sako agtang run ky iya ko ghapak sa ulo ug para-kaot hani. kanang kawayan nga gporma. sala pd guro nko kay n.saka man sad akong tingog. na-init npd ko bah kay amgcge xa pa-dungog2x. ang gsupakan rman jud nko na big deal au pra nya kay wala lagi daw koy gbuhat pra mo-larga. nya sapoton man jd ko kng mo-ingn cya na maypa ang ubang anak. sakit kaau na paminawn nko.

[Undone23]

--agree kaayo ko ana. i always believe dat life is too short to waste the opportunities of doing somethng that u rly love. bt m d kind of person man sad gd na doesnt want to dsappoint esp my parents. dats y i am full of guilt everytime i do thngs i want but forgettng my responsibility to them.

The first step to getting the things you want out of life is this: Decide what you want. So unsa man jud imo gust in life kanang disappointment sa imo parents at first normal rana pero mawala rana overtime.. basta sakto lang imo pag communicate.. dili ipa agi ug syagit2 ug kasuko...

Your life is merely a gift, it is just as easily returned as it is given, so don’t take it for granted and don’t let anyone touch it cause just remember its got your name on it and no anyone else’s. so take control of your life.

[jOwEy cEe]

@Undone23: thanks! i'll keep that in mind....

[ravits]

payter kaykag mama

[camzywinsy]

TS, ing-ana jud akong mama. Mag-away sila sa akong papa kay ako papa man mu-defend nako. Ingon gani siya na kung magbuwag sila, ako jud ang sala. Mao na sugod ato, di na ko mu-share sa ako papa sa akong kasakit sa akong mama kay uoy ko sa akong papa. Iya pa jud ko ingnan nga anak ra ko, siya ang mama.

Siya pud nagbuot sa akong kurso, asa ko skwela. Ang nakalahi lang nato, di man siya kahilabot nako sa ako work. Di siya magyawyaw na wa ko nag abroad as nurse. Nag-storya man gud mi sa una ug heart to heart na mahuman lang daw ko ug skwela, di na ko niya hilabtan.

So my advice is, storya mo sa imong mama. Ask her nanu iya ka palargahon na di man ka nahan mag abroad. Try asking her if your happiness matters to her. Coz if it does matter to her, she will stop nagging at you. Let her know na di ka malipay mu-abroad and na you are not ready to leave home.

Ayaw pag hisgut ug layas2x kay it's the same feeling bitaw of going abroad. Abi nako di ka ganahan mularga? nya mulayas na nuon ka? Bisag unsa ka kalagot, don't give her more reasons to nag at you. Keep your cool and stay away from arguments na muabot ug shinagitay. You are right, she's your mom and she deserves your respect bisag ing-ana siya.