is she really worth it?

[skullyboy]

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DILI...pangeta nalang ug lain oi..yabag man ng bayhana...

mao jud lagi.. doble-kara kaayo sya.. mubuhat lang sya ug butang kung naa sya makuha nga benefit.

makakita rka bro... good 4 u ky wla pamoy anak... ikyas nlng jud anang klaseha sa pagka babaye.trust me once gani dli mu work out cla sa iya new guys karon mubalik na nmo ky mag claim og benefits..hehe.. ayw na dawata bro mentras wla pa ma disgrasya

mao jud bro, 5x na sya ni beg sa akoa nga makigbalik sya nako, as in kulang nalang muluhod sya nako, pero kutob ra sya sa mga promise walay lihok bisan unsa.

she's a b***ch bro... kasuway nko ana nga klase..ikaw pakasad.on pero g enjoy na diay sa lain.

exactly bro.. gapaugat sya bulong ug butang para ako ang mugawas nga sad-an dili sya.. unya while she was doing that, gakuyog2 ug gatext2 na diay sya ato nga guy.. iya pa jud i deny nga friends ra jud kuno sila, unya ang guy karon ga cge tawag2 niya ug long-distance (naa sa UK ang guy karon) unya mao na ang walay malice? hay buhay basta lagi naa gitago, paugat jud palusot

for me ..i dont agree wih her really..

i am a jealous kind of person as well, same situation that i always keep on asking my bf if love bako niya or his first one, of course he said he loves me kay ako ge pili niya when i saw pictures from past its a big deal for me.then doubt gehapon akong ge lubong sa ako mind kay tungod sa jealous. until na worst amo relationship kami duha nasakitan kay i dont talk to him. then later on i realized that the most important is NOW not the Past, because past should be past. we will never be happy if naa lang ta sa past ga huna2x dili ta maka move on and it is true.

it was not your fault, you've been doing your best for her as a realy boyfriend as you try to save the relatonship. it was her big mistake to take you for granted so you dont deserve her.you can find better girl than her dont take it seriously if you sense the person who dont show sencerity to you at all. move on and be strong.. Prayers will help you to recover. i've been from painful experienced in my life ever & i end up crying many times..!! just me who stand up and make up my life where i find my self happiness. So again just be strong and move on..make your life worth it.. someone deserve you not Her..

thank you sis sa advice.. agree jud ko true love is all about unconditional acceptance.. but too late na, dili nako kahulat nga mu mature pa sya.. i have to move on

[skullyboy]

ang akoa lang jud sayop after sa among break-up is that i said unsavory words/remarks to her tungod ra pud sa akong kalagot sa iyang pag atras-abante sa akoa, and na drag nako iyang family into our conflict.. which is not really good for me to do, but in hindsight i can't blame myself man pud because i was literally FOOLED by her.. i did those things just out of sheer frustration ug kalagot sa iyang pagbinastos nako.

pero kana tanan, wala ra na kung ikumpara sa iyang pagsige sulti bad words ug pag threaten sa akoa whenever mag-away mi tungod sa iya pagselos.. 2 years kapin nako na gi antos nga abuse

i never thought inana sya ka immature jud.. she is intelligent and accomplished sa academics, pero mao pud lagi if there is no heart, useless pud ang brain diba? i might as well be with someone nga average in intellect basta dili lang ko i abuse emotionally ug verbally. basta i treat lang ko the way i deserve to be treated

[xtianubec]

saludo ko nimo bai! panagsa rang lalaki na muhilak ug babay...

move on, ayaw cgeg dwell ana imong past(imong X)
time will come na mabalik ra pud na niya ang luha

sa giingon pa sa mga istoryans diri
pangita ug lain total single paman ka...
kita ra lagi ka ana puhon.
mao rana TS.

[rexter]

mao jud lagi.. doble-kara kaayo sya.. mubuhat lang sya ug butang kung naa sya makuha nga benefit.



mao jud bro, 5x na sya ni beg sa akoa nga makigbalik sya nako, as in kulang nalang muluhod sya nako, pero kutob ra sya sa mga promise walay lihok bisan unsa.



exactly bro.. gapaugat sya bulong ug butang para ako ang mugawas nga sad-an dili sya.. unya while she was doing that, gakuyog2 ug gatext2 na diay sya ato nga guy.. iya pa jud i deny nga friends ra jud kuno sila, unya ang guy karon ga cge tawag2 niya ug long-distance (naa sa UK ang guy karon) unya mao na ang walay malice? hay buhay basta lagi naa gitago, paugat jud palusot



thank you sis sa advice.. agree jud ko true love is all about unconditional acceptance.. but too late na, dili nako kahulat nga mu mature pa sya.. i have to move on

almost the same ta situation bai i think mas lisod gani akoa ky sagol pa death threat and scandals, she contacted all my friends and told degrading stories bout me.. and it's not easy to move on ky naa nami anak and i'm so in love with my daughter

[DMBreathn]

bottom line is .. LESSON LEARNED. Barog, pamap-ha then move on.

[alekssandr]

dili na cya worth it bai.. pangitag lain then be honest lang jud.. if love jud ka sa girl kay musabot na siya, bisan unsa pa imung past..

[skullyboy]

saludo ko nimo bai! panagsa rang lalaki na muhilak ug babay...

move on, ayaw cgeg dwell ana imong past(imong X)
time will come na mabalik ra pud na niya ang luha

sa giingon pa sa mga istoryans diri
pangita ug lain total single paman ka...
kita ra lagi ka ana puhon.
mao rana TS.

mao jud bai puhon.. ang gaba dili magsaba.. thanks sa advice

almost the same ta situation bai i think mas lisod gani akoa ky sagol pa death threat and scandals, she contacted all my friends and told degrading stories bout me.. and it's not easy to move on ky naa nami anak and i'm so in love with my daughter

ah grabe pud diay imoha situation bai.. ako im sure she is telling lies and fabricated stories na to her friends and family karon, sa iyaha pang batasan nga selfish ra kaayo, para lang mugawas nga sya ang injured party kuno.. wala gani niya sultii sila sa tinuod jud (a sign nga she is not ready to sacrifice anything for me).. thanks sa imong mga tambag bai

bottom line is .. LESSON LEARNED. Barog, pamap-ha then move on.

im hurt pero gasugod nako bangon from this nightmare bro.. thanks sa inyong mga advice diri kay makatabang jud pag motivate sa akoa. wala man gud ko masultian karon.. pero kato sya im sure pa sweet2 nato karon sa iyang guy over the phone, hehehe

dili na cya worth it bai.. pangitag lain then be honest lang jud.. if love jud ka sa girl kay musabot na siya, bisan unsa pa imung past..

yup this is a valuable lesson jud bai nga dapat musulti nalang jud ko sa tanan about sa past nako whenever im asked.. thanks

[icon_king]

she damn not worth it bro i tell you. there are plenty of girls out there. selos pa gani nga uyab pamu, unsa nalang kaha ug maminyo mo, sit-sitan raka uli raka diretso. although naa kay sayop nga wla ka mu sulti sa tinuod sa iyaha. kay nothing will go wrong if you tell her everthing. at least ikaw you have a peace of mind sa imu self ug wala kay guilt gi tago. Pero everything has a purpose, God is good. he knows whats best for you. Its not the end of the world. someday youll laugh it out. believe me

[Cory1986]

OT: couple of sentences nga nabasa nako, sus, mura jd ug ako but as i read deeper, murag grabeh ra au xa TS wui.
EXTREME selosa! grabeh! pastilan jd!

ayaw na baliki TS wui, laina sad ana nia wui. insecure man au xa TS. basin nag cge sad ka ug hisgot sa imong ex? or basin mas gwapa imong ex kaysa sa iyaha and wa sad nimo gi pa feel nga gwapa xa?

At least TS, ikaw naka una nia. bayad na sa papakasakit nia nimo

[skullyboy]

OT: couple of sentences nga nabasa nako, sus, mura jd ug ako but as i read deeper, murag grabeh ra au xa TS wui.
EXTREME selosa! grabeh! pastilan jd!

ayaw na baliki TS wui, laina sad ana nia wui. insecure man au xa TS. basin nag cge sad ka ug hisgot sa imong ex? or basin mas gwapa imong ex kaysa sa iyaha and wa sad nimo gi pa feel nga gwapa xa?

At least TS, ikaw naka una nia. bayad na sa papakasakit nia nimo

dili jud ko mu volunteer ug mention about my ex sa iya, not unless mag ask sya.. but the problem is, halos kada adlaw sya mag ask nako about my ex, to the point nga irritating na kaayo.. ug maayo ra unta kung inosente nga pag ask, nga mangaway ra ba bisan unsa nindot pa imong itubag

yes she is really insecure.. everyday i say tons of compliments to her, like how pretty and sexy she is, unya tubagon lang ko niya ug "nah kamaot nako", "nah katambok nako" hay nako matablaw ka ug build-up sa iya confidence pero wa epek bisan unsa.. thanks sa advice sis

she damn not worth it bro i tell you. there are plenty of girls out there. selos pa gani nga uyab pamu, unsa nalang kaha ug maminyo mo, sit-sitan raka uli raka diretso. although naa kay sayop nga wla ka mu sulti sa tinuod sa iyaha. kay nothing will go wrong if you tell her everthing. at least ikaw you have a peace of mind sa imu self ug wala kay guilt gi tago. Pero everything has a purpose, God is good. he knows whats best for you. Its not the end of the world. someday youll laugh it out. believe me

mao lagi bro, good thing naka ikyas ko mintras sayo pa.. battered bf jud ko sa iya sa tanan.. although maybe wala niya gituyo nga i under ko niya, nevertheless she was doing it unconsciously via sa iyang pagselos ug grabe nga to the point nga mukurog nako niya

thanks sa advice