Letting Go of the One you Love

[butterflyzia]

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hmmm i should say i'll think about it.. after all he left me for a stupid reason and now he wants me back..... Make Up Your Mind Damit!!

[giver_bert]

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[nikki]

his loss. im the best he'll ever have

[SweetCatEyes]

coz its easier to let go if you dont see him and remember how good it was bein around him.

[KaTzKi]

maybe the "no contact" agreement is the only way na ma OK silang duha.. so i wud suggest that.. it did work for me~

[haudia]

better, pero if you gone in the places youve been, hilak na sad ka, huhuhuhu

[n0stALg|a]

i guess its easier to deal w/ the breakup when you have no contact w/ your ex.. but for me it took me 2 yrs juz to get him off my system... and i thought that i over him.. pero pagbalik namo storya.. i realized the pain's still there.. and i realized that i still love him in a way... i know im in the losin end.. and it sucks feelin this way about him after everythin that he did to me..

[haudia]

thats true, in my case, i see him everyday coz wer n same place, still hurts, the problem is we dont talk, he's afraid, coz it involves family, y do many people sucks?

[love_struck]

just wanted to know how you people will see this situation.. i got a lady friend. she broke up with her bf months ago telling him that things just didnt work out. the guy hasnt contacted her and she also didnt. a few instances where they would accidentally met, would they talk about things and go stroling.. then one time the guy asked for another chance when they were able to met again, to start over and make things right this time. my friend refused,wanted not to have commitment. and the guy explained his fault etc etc etc... after that incident, my friend started hating him. shes doin everythin to avoid him, even if he hasnt been in touch with her for weeks even for friendships sake.she has bin avoiding something,at least as i have known,that isnt there... i tried to ask her 'why r u doin this', she said 'coz i hated him......

i just wanted to know how do u understand my friend here. coz i definetely dont understand myself. i just let her be and didnt bother,but i know this aint right....its just unfair.im just glad i was not the guy...

thanks...

[haudia]

@love_struck

first, dont try to understand woman coz u cant.

i think your friend thinks that hes too late to realize his mistake, mostly man just think theyre wrong after the damage has been done. y u think its unfair?y?u been w/ their relationship?u knew there ups & downs?

if u didnt c that youre not that guy, i would think it was U.