Walay dadaanay ug uyab.....what's the point

[nijazared]

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unya unsa naman ni TS? nagkatalk namo imo uyab?

nakabantay ko sa uban nga posts, some of us here don't really know how much a man can treasure a girl to keep her away from temptations. the TS is a man who just wants to keep her girl from making any mistakes as much as he could...

[beyee]

I feel your sentiments bro... even more kay babaye mi...
but don't you think dako na ang gf nya to decide on her own?
bsag uyab sila, dili tanan higayon na cge sila uban...

naa na sa character sa tawo if padala sya sa tintal kung wala
iya uyab... if mao nalang jud na inyo huna hunaon sa inyo gfs
aw mora ra pod mo nagbutang og tae sa iya ulo kay ing-ana inyo
pagkaila sa iya k sure jud mo na magflirt siya sa party without
him...

tsk tsk...

[nijazared]

there is very big difference in an all girl's night out and a party at a officemate's house where no partners are allowed (in a guy's perspective, this is a GO sign that is the chance to make a move). no matter how mature a girl can be, without the right influences she would still be prone to mistakes and everyone makes mistakes because everyone is human.
If you were in the TS shoes, your bf asked you the same thing- a party at an officemate's house, no partners allowed, and you hardly even know his girl officemates...wouldn't you think twice?

[W.Axl Rose]

brader ingna imo uyab.....................estoryaheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee ee! LOLS

[beyee]

If you were in the TS shoes, your bf asked you the same thing- a party at an officemate's house, no partners allowed, and you hardly even know his girl officemates...wouldn't you think twice?

Initially, I'd be wondering why but I'd give him my full trust, that's just how I am.
Personally, I don't wanna tag along with his own parties coz I want him to have his
own life outside our relationship. Unless he invites me, then fine by me. Besides, i maybe
his gf but i don't have the right to dictate as to which parties he goes to or not. If I do
then i'm simply insulting his intelligence and fidelity as a partner.

In a given mature relationship, you give yourselves room to mingle with other peeps
to grow. You don't have to be told to straighten your acts once you're with other
peeps IF you're really committed to your partner. It's just common decency.

[xinevirtucio]

pwede ingnon nimo imo gf...


go out..just don't let me catch you on top of your male friend....or him on top of you...


tsk...10 years and no trust..just because of one act that somehow deviates from the typical....


attraction is always present.....naa rana sa babay if iyang i-nurture ang attraction....

i concur with beyee....di naman na bata imo gf na imo higtan and diktaran kung asa...

[nijazared]

If you were in the TS shoes, your bf asked you the same thing- a party at an officemate's house, no partners allowed, and you hardly even know his girl officemates...wouldn't you think twice?

Initially, I'd be wondering why but I'd give him my full trust, that's just how I am.
Personally, I don't wanna tag along with his own parties coz I want him to have his
own life outside our relationship. Unless he invites me, then fine by me. Besides, i maybe
his gf but i don't have the right to dictate as to which parties he goes to or not. If I do
then i'm simply insulting his intelligence and fidelity as a partner.

In a given mature relationship, you give yourselves room to mingle with other peeps
to grow. You don't have to be told to straighten your acts once you're with other
peeps IF you're really committed to your partner. It's just common decency.

I can see where you would stand and the way you think is admirable...but as you said, "personally" means in your own way of thinking and you being a girl. The TS may not think like you but think more like a guy would when a guy is helplessly in love. IMO, you are correct in how a mature relationship works but wouldn't it be better if we try to keep ourselves from temptations rather than go into them? IMO, a mature person in a relationship would know how to keep himself/herself from making stupid mistakes by putting themselves in a low-risk situation. IMO, my GF going to a house party with guys I hardly know and also knowing that there would be booze flowing-it's naturally a no-no for me.

[krone]

In the first place di jud mo kabasol ngano ing.ana si T.S.. Let's say instinct is instinct pero no matter how will you say "TRUST" and "TRUST" and "TRUST" make sure the reason is valid why she has the need to go and how he can assure that she will not do anything stupid.

I'm not saying I'm with T.S side, but balance the situation out. Syempre, makugang jud na si T.S na nganong ing.ani man since? "for a change??".

On the girl side if she is sincere pud, she should give assurance to her BF na it's purely party ra jud, wa man kaha'y dad.anay unless lang if two of these factors exists. (1. naay officemate nakagusto niya and found that the event is the perfect time or 2. Naa siya'y "naganahan" with her officemates).

Bisan, unsa.on pa og bali2 ang situation and no matter how will you say na give her freedom blah.. blah..blah.. mau man jud ng naa tay idea gamay "WHY?"

[walker]

i concur with nijazared.

girls can not..and perhaps will never understand how a guy who is very much in love will feel in this situation like the TS is presenting here.

this is a close call and a tight rope walk for a very tempting affair.

if i am the guy office mate who may have some vested interest with the gf, of course i will plan everything including not allowing the bf to come on the pretext of a girls night out in my own home.

the gf here simply throws out the window a ten year relationship for a night of biga. what a way to celebrate sinulog.

[nijazared]

In the first place di jud mo kabasol ngano ing.ana si T.S.. Let's say instinct is instinct pero no matter how will you say "TRUST" and "TRUST" and "TRUST" make sure the reason is valid why she has the need to go and how he can assure that she will not do anything stupid.

I'm not saying I'm with T.S side, but balance the situation out. Syempre, makugang jud na si T.S na nganong ing.ani man since? "for a change??".

On the girl side if she is sincere pud, she should give assurance to her BF na it's purely party ra jud, wa man kaha'y dad.anay unless lang if two of these factors exists. (1. naay officemate nakagusto niya and found that the event is the perfect time or 2. Naa siya'y "naganahan" with her officemates).

Bisan, unsa.on pa og bali2 ang situation and no matter how will you say na give her freedom blah.. blah..blah.. mau man jud ng naa tay idea gamay "WHY?"

those two factors, unfortunately, will all depend on the girl, if ever those two factors are present, di sad siguro musulti ang girl sa TS.

sakto sad ka muingon nga naa jud na ang "why" question.

si TS na mag decide...a lot of arguments can be made on what is the right or wrong decision but it all boils down to the TS judgements...there will be two outcomes:
1) GF is able/unable to give assurance, goes to the party and nothing happens, then life goes on.
2) GF is able/unable to give assurance, goes to the party, something happens, but still life goes on.

Ingon ana lang jud ang life.