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[Gwynhuever]

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1 - i don't believe in confronting the other woman...the issue is between me and my husband....regardless kinsa iyang kulukadidang....between namong duha ang problema...so i would confront my husband and leave the other party out of it...

2 - mo deny jud of course...kay dakong gubot kon mo angkon...so dapat sure jud ko sa issue and dili lang duda2

[digitalsuperman]

ilisi ug Tide.

[m_grace]

hehehe.. murag madrehunon man ka makadag tambag.. murag ikaw na lang cguro papulihon ug madre para niya hahaha joke!!

mao lagi unta pero unsaon man nana man koy mission sa life, ang pag take care sa akng tres marias..

[sleepingbeauty]

the problem with confrontation regarding this problem is the husband's job is at stake. Madaut ang dungog sa husband much more sa girl. I know this is rampant nowadays cause most often than not more time is spent in the office than at home...there is no office policy regarding relationships like this in private offices...Naa sa public office...its happening in private offices. Poor wife..Unsaon mani atong adultery nga balaod pabor man sa mga lalaki. Kay naghimo ani nga balaod lalaki man. Imagine you can only sue your husband if you catch him in bed and that thing is always done in private...Mao mugara gyud ang magbuhat ani nga butang.

[sleepingbeauty]

or blame everything sa girl:::

losyang naka
wa naka time nako
binuang sad ka
tambok naka
puol na kay ka!

true gyud na. Mao dayon basolon ang asawa nga ila man binuhatan. anyway, wala man sala ang asawa. kung naay tulubagon ana ang nagbuhat ug dautan. it wil destroy their reputation, mao ang wife gihapon ang winner.

[sheeshcute]

* Confrontation seems to have a negative connotation. Murag ang huna huna-on dayon kung makadungog og makabasa sa term nga CONFRONTATION is murag scene sa movie nga magsininggitay, maglayug og gubot gyud- "ESKANDALO 101". That's not how I would want to handle things. Tarong nga pakig istorya sa other girl. Makigstorya ko niya, di sa ilang office kungdi sa gawas like say a restaurant, in a public place. Maayo na nga kahibalo ang other woman that I am aware of what's happening. It takes two to tango, so silang duha gyud akong istoryahon (not at the same time). Kung di nako storyahan ang girl basi mo gara unya and she might think that everythin is cool. Or my husband might make the girl believe nga clueless ko. Again, i will only resort to such actions kung naa koy valid proof and evidence sa ilang "affair".

[sleepingbeauty]

I have a story related to this thread unya tinuod gyud ni kaau because the wife told me the story.She knew her husband is having an affair but she was discreet about it. when her husband was going on a trip to Manila, she bought a ticket on the same flight. she disguised herself by putting on a hat and shades unya gipaputol nia ia buhok to look like a tomboy...since it was allowed to bring an umbrella inside a plane she brought one unya kanang gahi gyud kaau. when it was boarding time, she boarded late so that she will not be seen...Pagsulod sa plane, she saw her husband with the girl tapad gyud...Murag nag black out daw cya, iya gipuspusan ug maau ang babae. there was commotion in the planeunya nagkadugo ang face sa girl mao gipanaug sila tulo unya giinvestigate basta na delay ang flight...Murag sa sine. Usahay dili gyud nimo mapugngan gyud ang gibati sa asawa but it was so embarrassing to the three of them. Pero the airport official was so impressed with the wife for catching them together in the plane....hahaha

[sheeshcute]

I have a story related to this thread unya tinuod gyud ni kaau because the wife told me the story.She knew her husband is having an affair but she was discreet about it. when her husband was going on a trip to Manila, she bought a ticket on the same flight. she disguised herself by putting on a hat and shades unya gipaputol nia ia buhok to look like a tomboy...since it was allowed to bring an umbrella inside a plane she brought one unya kanang gahi gyud kaau. when it was boarding time, she boarded late so that she will not be seen...Pagsulod sa plane, she saw her husband with the girl tapad gyud...Murag nag black out daw cya, iya gipuspusan ug maau ang babae. there was commotion in the planeunya nagkadugo ang face sa girl mao gipanaug sila tulo unya giinvestigate basta na delay ang flight...Murag sa sine. Usahay dili gyud nimo mapugngan gyud ang gibati sa asawa but it was so embarrassing to the three of them. Pero the airport official was so impressed with the wife for catching them together in the plane....hahaha

* OT: ATTAGIRL! katilaw! naa gyud duguan! hats off to your friend (wife of the cheating husband)! Isuga oi. She must have seen red gyud. Adrenaline surge! Nitagam ang husband?

[sleepingbeauty]

* OT: ATTAGIRL! katilaw! naa gyud duguan! hats off to your friend (wife of the cheating husband)! Isuga oi. She must have seen red gyud. Adrenaline surge! Nitagam ang husband?

I think so kay they are back in each other's arms. Murag na forgive man sa wife ang husband. Imagine sad nga almost 25 years na sila married...Hay ambot what drives men crazy to do this to their wife even nga dugay na ilang relationship. sometimes sad fault gyud sa other women. If u knw nga committed na ang guy y force into a relationship that is wrong in the first place? ..Kay kani mga lalaki magpakalaki man gyud...

[MyMaria]

Innocent until proven guilty.

And then the girl (officemate) will be dead meat. Husband gets kicked out.

Both should rot in hell.