Ngano mas pinangga sa ako mama ako maguwang?

[DocLove]

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i suod imo mama bro murag tanaw nako dili mo close, the more dili ka ma close niya kung imo i think nga kwarta ra iya tuyo nimo, walaa ang kwarta sa imo huna huna kay mao na dili maka close ninyo. ikaw nalang mo adjust kay ikaw man i think ang educated. sabta nalang, maayo ana mag talk mo duha pranka sa imo igsuon regarding sa imo plan sa yuta ug unsa inyo ma sturyaan kamo duha mo open sa imo mama ana.

Girl po ang thread setter. Thank you.

[Airlineboi1981]

It reminds me of my situation way back a long time ago, w/ my twin sissy. My mum pampered her as in spoilt her so much with expenssive clothes and etccc.... she used to drop her subjects and get drunk the whole time and when my mum found out, we thought she is gonnastop doing what she was doing yet instead, to our dismay..instead of cutting her extravagance she is pampering her more but with me (not to brag) i get good marks at school and sometimes i get recognition but none of them days that i can remember that my mum step a foot during my recognition day. She was nowhere to be found with those special events of my life for all she cares about is my sister.

It hurts alot to think about it that i even questioned myself many times why the treatment isnt fair. I get upset and devastated that i always make a way out of my friends. As i finished uni, i move out straight away (cant stand a nerve being with the same roof with my sister, so done with her childish b*llshit)... got a good job and my family's business got broke (mum couldn't afford to spoil my sister anymore)....

but with all those times, i've learnt one thing.. IGNORING is the best way. Everytime i see my mum buying things for her, i just pretended i didnt see anything that way i dont get hurt 'till i got used to it and my mum realized that due to my cold treatment towards her. I just always say YES the whole time as if i was paying attention to what she was saying.

NOW, i've got everything that a person of my age would be satisfied but im not, cause I can see that my mum loves my sister more than me and that terribly hurts.

I've got a good life and my sister is still depending with my mum (and her baby out of wedlock). Mum even does the "motherly"job for her baby cause shes always out dating.

For you...I know its gonna be hard but just try to do your best to excel on some things. Someday your mum is gonna see her mistakes and the things she've missed. Never ruin yourself just to get your mums attention cause that will never happen. She instead will hate you. Just do your best, learn to ignore for the meantime, the more that you ignore her...the quicker she sees her faults. goodluck

how sad to hear this story.... as if my heart was stub with a sharp knife 100 times. cgi lang in time comes, god will provide a perfect answer to all your questions and he will enlighten the heart and mind of your mom for her to realize that she made a biggest mistakes in her life

[Airlineboi1981]

I am basing this answer on what i observe in our society since then. infact i had a debate with our neighborhood about this matter. majority of the information that i gathered from them which is uncontrolable situation that our parents or mother or either father has a favorite child. it is very impossible that parents will treat their children equally. but if incase that there are parents who treat their children equally than i congratulate them for being a good parents.

[ohohoy]

TS sila ang walay katungod sa yuta kay prendado mana sa imo, naa lang silay katungod kung ilaha nang lukaton, maayo gani kay naa na sa imo na prenda kay kung didto pa sa bangko nah dako na kana ug interest then kung dli malukat nah ma remate pa gyud na sa bangko.. imoha pa nang gipa buhatan ug terms and conditionss kung pananglit dili malukat ani nga petsa remate nah..

[cywizard]

naa na pud na sa imu mama ang prob... la na diay ka lain mastorya dha? like sa imu papa, imu na idiscuss...

[yvonne6]

kahinumdom mo sa story sa prodigal son? ang mas palangga kay ang pasaway. mother naman sad ko, honestly, dili ko kasulti nga naa koy pinalabi sa akong mga anak. although, murag natural raman siguro nga murag baby jud ang youngest but doesnt mean siya ang favorite. wala koy favorite kung buot huna hunaon kay akong mga anak nagikan nako tanan, fair ra sila. although naa jud nang mas pasaway na anak but then, kinsa pa man diay ang mosabot anang bataa? ang ginikanan ra jud esp ang inahan. ayaw na lang kaau pansina ts, there will come a time makita ra sa imong mom ang imong kaayo. kill her with your kindness, that if u can