still good?

[Leith Dhiren]

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me and my partner is having a problem..since naka barkada sya sa iyang workmate nga happy go lucky ang wosh..like this time xa ang nag work..ako wala..pero padung pa maka work...in my experience..inig human nila ug duty mo kuyog xa sa iyang mga workmate laag...or bsag dili mag laag..magkuyog ug uli mag gasto2x jud ug plete para magkuyog lang..nya 1 sa iyang workmate..naibog nya..she tells me..bsag ni ana ang guy nga d nya padaunon kay maka guba ug relationship..pero pirmi sila magkuyog...like mura sila mag barkada..and then 1 time..nag lie xa nako..ana xa ni uli sya sa balay pero wala d i kay tua sa iyang workmates nag tagay...nya g ingnan ko nya na "gusto ko mag happy happy" to reward myself...pero kuyog sa iyang mga new friends...not with me...usahay d pa mauli d nxt day nah...I feel like trash..naka ask gud ko nya "What change?"
nya kng ka txt nya iyang so called super friends..kng mo ana ko pabasaha ko sa msg..i erase gni daun..lets put na nag jelly ko...pero feel nako ako pagka jelly kay healthy man coz i dont want to end up nothing...d baya kalikayan bsag ni ana ang guy nah d xa padaun pero halus everyday sila magkuyog...ako partner pa mo pukaw nya kng naay shift..miscallan pa ang fon para maka mata...ana gni mga storyans..

unsay ika sulti ninyo sa situation?

[emailroy2002]

Murag naa something going on ana partner nimo bai, better fix it before its too late.

[kelv]

murag naa gyud reason bro na mag selos ka...sa akong nabasa, wala nka nya hatagi ug importansya ky ddto na cya mokuyog pirme sa iyang workmates. okay ra unta kung panalagsa kuyog cya nimo ug panalagsa kuyog sa iyang workmates....ipakita nya bro na wa nka kaangay sa iyang gibuhat.

[Leith Dhiren]

ako naman g sulti nya...usahay gni kanang mag lalis mi..ako xa ingnon..kung imong mga super friends gani ang mo request! HALA! adto daun! etc. mga 3 weeks na cguro mi hanging mga bro..last last week kay nakg cool off xa..basta feel gni nako..wasted ko..like karon party nila...nag ask ko asa ka uli sa bhaus? or balay? ana xa balay pero unsa wala gni ka txt bsag unsa bsag inform nalang humana ba ang party pila pa ka miscall akong buhaton pra mo txt..ni txt pd..pero asa? nag disco dw sila kay g libre sa ilang boss..pero ulahi na ni txt kng wala nako cgeg follow up..

[kelv]

pasagdie nah cya bro. ky kung mg cge kag gukod nya, mag cge ra pd nah cya ug palayo nimo...siya ra nay una mocommunicate nimo kung mamiss ka nya. kung dli gani cya mo comunicate nimo, pasagdie na lng. maayo nalng nkahibaw ka sa iyang batasan. cguro wala na pd nah cyay love nimo. bati pd kaayo kung magkadayon mo kung ikaw na lng ang nkagusto nya. di ba? sa karon pa lng, e prepare na nah imong self. tan-aw nko padung na nah way ayo inyo relationship.

[J ª n J ª n 9]

TS, naluoy ko nimu...honestly your situation things are really going down to drain.. Just brace yourself for the thruth. If she really needs time apart try giving her the space.. I always believe that communication is the key to a healthy relationship but if the case is like that then I dont think you should keep texting her or making a follow up on her moves when she doesnt even bother to care. Once your partner starts to hide something from you then there is another story behind that. I guess by the time she realizes she loves you deeply then in no time she will be running back to you. stop chasing after her since the more you do then the more the gap grows. let her be if its what makes her happy. silly as it sounds but she might be searching for something that she havent found in you thats why she is doing things unknowingly.

[aozora]

^^ agree ko ni Janjan9 above.

and keep your sanity bro. most of all start respecting yourself! here's a good news for you: dli lang cya ang babae sa kalibutan. i guess you know what i mean.

[Leith Dhiren]

thank you sa advice mga storyans...

[jomzkie23]

bro... pray lang... murag di raba ko nahan pud if ing-ana ang attitude sa akong uyab puhon... nothin to hide jud dapat..

[Leith Dhiren]

lagi bro...dont expect this will happen..