Yes and
No,
"good and bad are just words" =
I agree
These are just words because in reality it is the way we perceive things/situations that makes it the way it is, meaning you cannot simply just put it in to words
"good" or
"bad" because your defintiion of good might be the exact opposite for someone else.
" it is not like, to be good so life will be.. or vice versa" =
I disagree
Life situations becomes good if you want to see it that way and vise versa.....In my own humble opinion, it is in the way we perceive things that makes it so...
Examples:
1. A man just lost his right leg because of a vehicular accident... He can either be miserable his entire life
Or he can say and smile to his own self that he is still lucky enough that he only lost his right leg and not both legs.
2. A man just received a phone call at work that his house was on fire and is almost completely consumed....He can either feel sorry for his loss for the rest of his life
Or he can shorten the length of his sorrow by thinking that he is
not that unlucky because at least he and his family was not inside that burning house.
(only his in-laws
) hahaha just kidding.
3. An able bodied Filipino citizen was born of poor family, have no proper educational attainment and can't find a stable job....He can either feel down for the rest of his life
Or he can say to himself that
"hey at least I still have an able body to do menial works even if it is low paying".
TS...These are just exaggerated examples, I hope you understand what I'm trying to point out here......It is not that I have already perfected this kind of technique
(I am still struggling to apply it in my own daily life experiences).....This was shared to me by a friend a long time ago to take away my bitterness in life....And believe me,
it really helps