On Hurting Someone with mere Words!

[kimleeKINO_choi]

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words can hurt like hell. better to turn away than speak spitefully coz uttered words cannot be taken back. no amount of sorry will take away the pain inflicted on the receiver's emotional being.

sakit au na.. awts jud.

ang words ang lisod bawi-on jud brod.

[keen]

ang words ang lisod bawi-on jud brod.

lageh jud sis.. ikaw, nakasulay na ka ug pasakit thru words? wat imo gibuhat para makabawi ka?

[kimleeKINO_choi]

lageh jud sis.. ikaw, nakasulay na ka ug pasakit thru words? wat imo gibuhat para makabawi ka?

O wui..kdghan najud...ikw diay wla pa?

[keen]

O wui..kdghan najud...ikw diay wla pa?

kasulay sad labi na ug mahilisan na jud sa kandila hehehehe... pero ngutngot kaayo sa konsensya ighuman oi.

[kimleeKINO_choi]

kasulay sad labi na ug mahilisan na jud sa kandila hehehehe... pero ngutngot kaayo sa konsensya ighuman oi.

lisod jud kung ang konsensya na manage sa soul nato..hehe mao na kat-on ug think bfore u speak.

[keen]

korek korek.. labi na katong abtik ug mga dila

[beyee]

I totally agree on this one.

All the while we thought that physical blow is the worst kind of violence that we inflict on other people but it isn't.

Scars may heal in time but not emotional scars caused by verbal battery...

Stuffs we utter and the curse we throw at peeps are just a few of the things we can't take back. And worst the emotional repercussions afterwards is irreversible. Leaving our "victims" hurt and even worse, traumatized by our repulsive words that we utter.

I dunno with words that they tend to be so powerful and has such strong effect on people...

Could it be that our minds are programmed to remember more on the bad stuffs rather than good ones? Because no matter how much we try to forget the past but still those hurtful words would seem to haunt us for ages.

That's why personally, when I am so pissed off with someone, I tend to walk away or keep mum. I let my anger simmer down and rather give him/her the silent treatment because the last thing I want to do is to give the person a tongue-lashing and boy, that could really get ugly.

So be careful what you utter when you're mad coz it can break one's soul in the end.

[abrielle]

I for one, grabe maka storya pag suko ko...
i am still working on this..

I need to gauge myself if i am still mad, because if i am then i have to keep my mouth shut or hurt the one i love.

[pinkcount3ss]

I can relate..ok ra nako harsh words kung suko ang isa ka taw, alangan man pud magpa sweet sweet kung suko db... ang di nako nahan kay kanang mag sinuplado btaw..kanang naa lang topic nya iyahang mga words kay arranged differently as supposed kung ako nag sulti ato mas ok cguro ang dating..they might not just notice it pero ana jud sila sulti... pero nagka talk na mi ana sa akong uyab.. mas ok na mi run.. at least mas careful na sya sa iyang words..maayo na lang kay na open nako anang topic nya kay sakit naman gud nya di man ko ka react automatically kung mag ing ato sya kay di man ko nahan away mi.. mahadlok man sad ko kay basin kung react ko about ato samot na sya sulti ug sakit... maayo na alng sad kay willing pud sya na ma ok mi ug mag work out jud among rel.. pero di sya bad as a person ha... the way she speaks lang grabe ka straight forward...