A Nagger in the family?

[sheka]

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* Could it be that she is having a difficult time at work mao na intawn ikaw og iyang bf and mapahimungtan sa iyang frustrations og uban pa? am not trying to justify your sisters behavior ha, kay medyo di jed maayo iyang sige og nag nimo og sa iya bf. siguro mas maayo nga atong e evaluate and e determine kung unsa ang root cause aning iyang behavior karon.

before naa siya sakit basta something sa head, i can remember before na butangan siya ug mga wires kana gani mura mag line2x, nya before when she was young pa sad, sapoton gyud siya, mag wild gyud as in wild to the point na gi tang tang gyud namo tanan glass things sa house and plates kay anytime man mag wild then iyaha gyud buk.on tanan mga glass na makit.an usahay sad she would lock herself sa room, i dont know i cant tell much coz i was younger mao d kaau ko kahinumdum

[sheeshcute]

dont think im being biased ha, i also admit na sometimes clumsy lang gyud ko and also untidy sa things, yes she is always like that. like before pduong ko school gibutang ra nko akong bag sa table kay nag kuha kog ID, then pag lingi nako balik naa na sa akong bed ang bag, considering kuhaon ra gud kay mulakaw, she wants to keep everything in order. ang issue lang gyud namo prmi d siya ganahn naa things mgkalat s bhawz even books lang.... or any stuffs, maski coins dont put it anywhere, ambot nalang gyud, before i admit untidy sad gyud ko but naka adjust nako iyang style but d madaa oi usahay sobra na gyud,

* You are a good sister kay na feel nako nga gi defend nimo imong Ate! *hug* maybe your Ate is a super neat freak lang gyud.

[sheeshcute]

before naa siya sakit basta something sa head, i can remember before na butangan siya ug mga wires kana gani mura mag line2x, nya before when she was young pa sad, sapoton gyud siya, mag wild gyud as in wild to the point na gi tang tang gyud namo tanan glass things sa house and plates kay anytime man mag wild then iyaha gyud buk.on tanan mga glass na makit.an usahay sad she would lock herself sa room, i dont know i cant tell much coz i was younger mao d kaau ko kahinumdum

* Wa ko na surprise when you told me that she was suffering from some sort of "sakit" when she was younger. Naluoy ko sa imong Sister. Naluoy sad ko nimo kay I feel nga stressful sad kaayo ni nga situation for you, plus you live on the same house gud.
Maybe the nagging and being a neat freak are just symptoms of an even bigger problem that you ( and your parents) need to address. Have you told your parents about your Ate's tendencies? Does she still throw things pa ba or di na?katong mga gipanghimo niya when she was younger ginahimo pa ba niya karon?

[sheka]

no but dali lang ma provoke... kana ang rage s iyang anger paspas gyud. though ang iyaha lang mouth lang gamit pahungaw sa kalagot. sometimes maglibog rako coz kana lang gud experssion na ingnan nimo amaw. to think exprssion ra baya gyud na. grabe na daun abot among sturya oi. naa pay mas mean sa school or when ur with friends. as in normal lang gud joke2x ming duhaa. nya na agitate daun.

[sheeshcute]

no but dali lang ma provoke... kana ang rage s iyang anger paspas gyud. though ang iyaha lang mouth lang gamit pahungaw sa kalagot. sometimes maglibog rako coz kana lang gud experssion na ingnan nimo amaw. to think exprssion ra baya gyud na. grabe na daun abot among sturya oi. naa pay mas mean sa school or when ur with friends. as in normal lang gud joke2x ming duhaa. nya na agitate daun.

* At least ipagawas niya through nagging iyang kalagot and dili siya mangdapat og manghagis. Pero kuyawa baya sad kung mo abot ang time nga mag throw things and she gets really physical. Naa ba anger management classes dinha sa inyo? kay murag mo recommend ko ana for your sis.

[sheka]

ang akoa lang mismo if siya musugot...

[sheeshcute]

ang akoa lang mismo if siya musugot...

* Yes, good point. As i have mentioned sa akong previous post, the desire to change should come from her. Cause I doubt if pressuring her to enroll in an Anger Management Class or see a therapist would work. She might get irked and go into a rampage or something. Basi mo samot hinuon. Continue lang to pray for your Ate. Hopefully a time will come nga ma realize niya and ma acknowledge niya iyang mga issues and then she can address each of them.

[sheka]

all she thinks na she is right man... so lisud gyud mausab..... maski unsaon nimo ug reason out she believes ug unsa iyang gituohan. thats why i often tell her nganu ask pa ka in the end d ghapon maminaw. whats the use dba.

[wak_wak]

naa man gud issues imo sis nya anha nya sa nagging ipagawas.. like what you said earlier "clean freak" kaau sya.. mo adjust na lng jud ka sa pagka clean freak nya f d ka gusto mag nag sya..

basn kamo sa iya bf iya mapagawsan sa iya mga kalagot sa work kay she knows makasabot mo f sa ofis sya mag nag 4 sure maglagot iya ofismates nya mau sa inyo na lng sya mag ngn ana kay kahibaw man sya na after da nagging love man g.hapon nmo sya ambot lng sa iya bf..

cguro mas maau f mo relax sa na imo sis, mo leave sya from work nya mag enjoy sya.. basn stressed ra kaau na sya.. mas maau sad na kasturyahon nmo imo sis about anang nagging nya.. ask her unsa man d.i. nabuhat nmo na pirmi man sya mag nag nmo.. ask her too kng unsay angay nmo buhaton para d sya mag nag nmo.. lain man sad gud kaau.. magsuon mo nya d mo magkasinabot, nagpuyo pa jud mo sa usa ka balay..

[Veya]

my father is a NAGGER dyud...kung dugay ko uli mas daghan yawyaw kaysa akong bana...Good thing dili nagger akong bana..heheheeh mas yawyawan pako but Ive learned to listen to my husband first kay you will never know if he has a good reason or not.