Do i have the ryt magselos over her past?

[eXpLoDe]

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bisan friends nalang mo pero less communication...

correct... coz past is past... limited na lang iyong relationship.

[catheeyen25]

goodluck on this TS...u can do it...fighting! hehehehe!

[rheo08]

nope u dont have the right, u we're not part of her life in the past, so focus on what u have now and work it out.. ^_^

[dearlabe]

TS if she said that they are waaaaaaay over with the supposedly "ex" bf then you should believe her. Your love should be enough to trust her honesty, otherwise your nonsense jealousy becomes so off that it signals a warning of your insecurity.

Don't let these things get in your relationship because it is such waste of time and emotion. She loves you man kaha and you love her? Then trust her. Insecurity is irritating, just my few cents.

[nissanpatrol]

dapat unta ing-ana diba...tsk tsk tsk...bisan friends nalang mo pero less communication...


asa naman si TS, unsa namay balita ani?

i am just around sis.. digesting the responses here. thanks to all.

TS if she said that they are waaaaaaay over with the supposedly "ex" bf then you should believe her. Your love should be enough to trust her honesty, otherwise your nonsense jealousy becomes so off that it signals a warning of your insecurity.

Don't let these things get in your relationship because it is such waste of time and emotion. She loves you man kaha and you love her? Then trust her. Insecurity is irritating, just my few cents.

it is not an issue of believing her for honestly i do.

it is not an issue of trust for honestly i trust her.

i believe and i trust, BUT, the guy is so free to communicate and apparently does not respect the fact that he is an ex.. or perhaps he never accepted being an ex. the fact that my girl accepts these communication, is honestly, whether i have the right or not is HURTING!

these calls and texts, often made in the middle of the night, were obviously not about politics nor global warming noh? hows the weather down in cebu, is it cold? perhaps i could down from toledo and find some warmth? hmmmm

my girl loves me, no doubt about that.

i am hurt, no doubt about that too.

[nissanpatrol]

nope u dont have the right, u we're not part of her life in the past, so focus on what u have now and work it out.. ^_^

the guy belongs to her past all right. what hurts and the topic of my thread is the fact that the guy continues to make contact with her in the present. that hurts like acid on the face!

[nissanpatrol]

so what are u gonna do about it? and more importantly, until when ka magpas-an ana nga burden?

-- sis keen ni bro

sis keen, love kaau nako ang ako girl.. as in i can not go on without her. im afraid ill be hurting till there are no more tears to shed...

[nissanpatrol]

believe she's hiding something..dili lang mo admit. sorry TS..hope sayup ko.
in the first place why mo take paman cya sa calls sa iya ex... "sa iya celfon late at nyts" hala noh ka choi.

i am no forrest gump but just the same, i am a simple man too. mao ra gyud na ako gipangayo niya, stop taking those calls and texts. but she refuses to do so. why? wala gyud ko kasabot, and that causes the pain and hurts.

how hard can it be telling the guy to stop calling?

[nissanpatrol]

yup, i agree with you sis.. kana palang na constant commu then late at night. wala man nay respeto nang iyang ex.. sagpa jud kaau na nimo TS, murag clang duha ni sagpa nimo. iyang ex way respect nimo as her bf (ni allow ra sad sa imong gf) then imong gf way respect sad nimo or atu ibutang na insensitive ra cya bae pa unta.

dili man daw constant, but i do not know the frequency neither. and she does not tell me unless i inquire of my girl. like DADT..dont ask dont tell policy.

but it is a revealed fact that the guy is still in communication since the supposed breakup in 2006 till now.

i am not sure i understand what does getting over someone mean anymore

[nissanpatrol]

kung willing cya mo give-up nmo, that will only mean na panakip butas ra jud diay ka, nag hope pa jud diay cya na magkabalik cla sa iya x, or nagbalik na jud cla, dli lng ka pranka imo girl sa imo, who knows nalouy na lang na cya nmo ron ug set-up lang nila na situation pra mapul-an ka nya balik na dayon cla officially.

it would crush my world to know she is willing to give up on me! and during some of the fights, i sometimes feel that she is...