Why Do Nice Guys Finish Last With Women?
Are women LYING when they claim to want a nice guy as a boyfriend, instead of a bad boy, jerk or sleazy guy?
When asked what she wants in a man, a woman will usually say something like, “I just want a nice guy ...someone who cares and who listens” but the SAME women will then do the OPPOSITE and date a bad boy, a jerk...or a guy who doesn't treat her well.
What is going on there?! Are women lying when they claim to want a 'nice' guy? Not at all. You see, when a woman says, "I just want a nice guy" she really does mean it. However, most guys confuse being a 'nice guy' with being really, really nice to a woman...and that's where the problems begin and why most nice guys finish last with women.
When a woman refers to a nice guy she is NOT referring to the type of 'nice guy' who:
* Is nervous around women.
* Is shy in social situations.
* Is intimidated by women and feels like he needs to impress them.
* Doesn't know what to say to women (usually linked into trying to impress women).
* Is too nice to women, like he would be to his grandmother.
* Calls women too often, not allowing them to miss him.
* Tells women that he has 'feelings' for them too early.
* Behaves submissively or weakly around women.
* Tends to accepts a woman's demands, just so she will spend time with him or continue talking to him.
* Becomes a 'doormat' for women and puts his own needs aside.
* Listens to all of woman's problems and discusses them in the same way her girlfriends would.
* Gives away his power to women, and allows women to become the 'boss'.
* Asks a woman what she wants to do, instead of being a man and taking the lead on dates and in relationships.
When used in combination, the behaviors and actions listed above will absolutely DESTROY the attraction a woman feels for you. Ultimately, it goes against everything that women are naturally attracted to in a man.
Now that we have talked about what women DON'T want in a nice guy, what DO they want? A woman's version of a nice guy is a man who:
* Is a good guy, but is not a pushover or doormat for women or people to walk all over.
* Is confident around women.
* Is confident around other guys.
* Is charming.
* Knows how to behave like a 'challenge'.
* Takes on the masculine role in an interaction, on a date or in a relationship.
* Respects women and enjoys their company, but also gives plenty of time and attention to his life and
what he's achieving/trying to achieve.
* Uses humor in a confident, attractive way.
* Confidently makes conversation in an interesting way with women.
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Why Do Nice Guys Finish Last With Women?
Aww ana diay na.? Now I know why most nice guys finish last when it comes to women. Hehehe.. 
Why do nice guys finish last? Hehehe..
Originally Posted by cptn_star
+1 ko ani bai...we don't need to pretend to be somebody else
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