Can't understand my mom :(

[riansuzini]

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Hi guys,

I really have a problem with my mom. Ever since nagka buwag sila sa akong dad tungod sa conflict last March 2010, grabe na sya ka over-reacting sa mga situations. Lately lang, nagka tinubagay ming duha tungod sa issue nga dili na daw ko mo kuyog nya ug simba. Nganu daw magpa lahi ko ug oras or dili jud ko mosimba (btw, dili diay mi catholic ug religion)...

I told her nga all I want is freedom. Lahi man gud sa among simbahan guys kay dili man gud pwede makipag relationship sa dili same ug religion (which is ironic kay daghan man nuong girls sa among church nga naminyo sa laing religion instead same sa amoa - kana gani gi ingon nila nga pag did-an ka, mo rebelde na nuon ka)...

Moabot na jud sa ponto nga mag think sya'g layas. Di nako kasabot sa akong mama guys. I told her "please give me freedom to decide ma, for God's sake I'm not 10 years old - I'm 24!"... I don't wanna hurt her pero sya man grabe kaayo mo react...

[Muerte]

mam, tubayi lang imo mom. ayaw lang kaayo ug react basin unsa pa imo masulti sa iya. give her time kay basin stressed out lang na siya. maybe the separation between your mom and your dad had a big effect on her. remember dili pa kaayo dugay nga naseparate sila so basin she just wants to see more of you. she just wants to be near you as much as possible. she does not want to lose you as well.

[riansuzini]

bro, i understand that man.. i am always there for her.. and it's not as if wala ko ni simba kuyog nya since ato nga issue.. i did! sometimes lang ba dili nako "feel".. and lain baya moadto kung pinugos ka di ba? and with regard sa ilang pag buwag, all i know now is secretly sila nagkita..

[Muerte]

did you try talking to her? kanang relax lang nga istorya?

[riansuzini]

i tried to bro, just lately lang jud..pero she keeps on insisting nga DILI! dapat DILI ni nimo buhaton.. DILI ko mosugot nga adto ka.. then if mo rason ko, ala na daw ko respect dayun..

[Muerte]

ayaw na lang tubaga kaayo uy. magtuo na gyud na siya nga wala naay respeto sa iya. kung mangutana siya ngano dili na kaayo ka mutubag ingna na lang nga lainon niya pagsabot bisan unsa pa imong isulti.

[z3robeLow]

yes, she may be over reacting at times, but can you blame her?
mao nay ripple effect sa nahitabo sa personal life sa imong mama..
i guess you'll just have to support her more in her trying times..
and hopefully, she will see that you are indeed fully capable of being left alone (to decide for yourself).

just think of it na you're all that she has for now.. and who knows.. time might come na
you might need her too.. and that she's all you've got. (family will always be family)
cheer up..

[riansuzini]

so it means ako ang sayop?

[Muerte]

mao na na ron, mam. tungod kay ni-give in ka dili pasabot nga sayop ka. pride will never solve anything. huna-hunaa lang kung unsay pwede makasolbad sa inyong problema.

[cjmagowan]

sabot nlng mo... kuyogan nmo cyag simba pero tugtan sad ka nya kng unsa imo gusto buhaton after..