Security before Marriage?

**exceed** · 08-11-2006, 05:59 PM

How do you assess the idea, when your bf/gf ask for a home before marriage?

**tolstoi** · 08-11-2006, 06:20 PM

hmmm..might as well change your wedding vows if that's the case =)

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In the presence of God, our family and friends,
and for as long as you got a house

I offer you my solemn vow to be your faithful partner in sickness and in health,
in good times and in bad, and in joy as well as in sorrow.
I promise to love you unconditionally, to support you in your goals,
to honor and respect you, to laugh with you and cry with you,
and to cherish you for as long as we both shall live.

**klavel** · 08-11-2006, 06:43 PM

i think it's practical to plan ahead if ever you both are really on the way of getting married and having a house prior to it..hmmm, well if you can afford it, then why not??...but anyways, marriage is based on LOVE, so the lovers' nest would have to be worried later..you can always stick to an apartment.

**d`monyita** · 08-11-2006, 06:46 PM

hay naku....i have seen this many many times....people plan for the WEDDING more than they plan for the MARRIAGE.

in marriage counselling dapat tanunging kung THE SAME ba ang inyong FINANCIAL plans....kay mao ra ba gyud ni ang source of the biggest fights....i would say 90% of the fights between husband and wife.

my point is....maybe NOT having a house before the marriage...but you two should discuss about buying one after the wedding...when to buy one...so on and so forth....

**chadix24_7** · 08-11-2006, 10:54 PM

mind over heart jud na.

dili palabi sa gibati kay kanang love-love inig minyo magkadugay kung wala na moy makaon diha magsugod na inyong away.

it's better to invest jud sa future.

**Streetcar** · 08-12-2006, 05:07 AM

Security before Marriage? what's that? not in my books.

Love me for what i am for simply being me...no conditions.

**gagay** · 08-12-2006, 05:18 AM

wa gyud ko kasapot sa tino-od lang...i guess when you love somebody, you have to accept for who he/she is..

**Streetcar** · 08-12-2006, 05:25 AM

Kanang security after marriage na na siya...you work on common goals and building your dreams together as time goes by. Not before kay morag conditional na man hinoon.

**gagay** · 08-12-2006, 05:26 AM

mao gyud, karon sabot nako

**boxingfan529** · 08-12-2006, 07:31 AM

i agree that security should be after marriage.

marriage should be founded by love and trust. though maau pud na kung naay balay imong maasawa pero bonus na lng na sya.

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