Magpakasal mi or stay as we are bisag naa na mi baby?

[ricardo042386]

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IMPortante diha kay basta single lang ang laki. naa namoy baby, so dapat jud mo magpakasal..para dunay grasya sa ginoo..and importante kay dunay pag-tinabangay og pagsinabtanay.

[skyangel]

pakasal mo ui

[leo_trams]

Hala oi, kalain pud nimo manulti oi. I don't think the TS deserves such a comment as this. It's not that the TS doesn't want to get married at all. She's obviously considering one kay otherwise dli unta sya magpost ani . Her concern lang is on its practicality -considering sa future of her child vs. the jobless father. Ayaw pud intawn ug label dayong nga "palami ra ang gusto" sa TS kay I don't think she is like that. Besides, who are we to judge? She obviously needs our kind advice, not such an affront like yours, on this serious matter coz as most and as society would dictate- marriage is forever.

hehehe..so, unsa may diay imo gusto mahitabo gyud? magpakasal sila o stay as is?
naglibog na hinuon ug samut ang TS.


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[magpul]

I have alive in partner and we have abb.until now im not yet ready na mgpakasal mi,25 nko my husband is 31 pro dli pa juh ko gnahan mgpakasal cge na convince ya mga relatives and family pro dli jud ko kay wla stable work akng bana,ako re japon mg antos in the near future.

if dili gyud siya maka kita og stable na work foreever then dili gyud nimo siya pakaslan? is that what you are planning? Para nako kung marriage ang storyahan Sis better focus if he is the man for you? If you love each other then no matter what dapat pakaslan na nimo pero planohe og ayo... But if mo decide gyud ka na dili then hatagan gyud nimo og sincere na explanation iya family kay basi lainon og sabot...

[orochimaru700]

it's better gyud nga mag settle down mo para wla nay gubot in the future!

[McCutiee]

If dili paka ready ayaw. kay kung imo pugson, kamo duha ang mamoblema in the long run. and madamay pa ang bata. ngano man diay kung naa mo anak. as long inyo responsibility sa bata dili mawala and dili mo gakulang og hatag og love and attention sa iya. mas lisud nang mag minyo mo tapos mag gubot ra dayon mo. ayaw pa pugos sudlan ang usa ka butang na ikaw mismo kahibao na di paka ready. kaluoy sa bata kung iya dak-an kay gubot. di man gyud na mawala ang basol2x.

niya regarding sad sa financial... stand on your own. make a goood future for you and your baby.

[messy_babycate]

aYAW LANG Usa sis. You yourself ang niingon dili pa ka ready... basin if inyo pugson kay madala ra mo sa sulsul sa uban kamo ra gihapon mamroblema in the future. maipit na nuon ang baby if magkagubot mo if ever it won't work out...

[messy_babycate]

it's better gyud nga mag settle down mo para wla nay gubot in the future!

to settle down doesn't guarantee that there will be no "gubot" in the future bro... naa man jud nang gubot minyo man or dili (char! coming from a 20 yrs. old)

if magpakasal then maggubot:

pros: you will try to work it out for the sake of the child and because it is too complicated to let it end because you are already binded by the law and the church

cons: if you've done everything and it won't make things any better, the separation process is very difficult and not to mention costly and the child might experience trauma because the law would have to set visitation rights as well as income support.

[McCutiee]

to settle down doesn't guarantee that there will be no "gubot" in the future bro... naa man jud nang gubot minyo man or dili (char! coming from a 20 yrs. old)

if magpakasal then maggubot:

pros: you will try to work it out for the sake of the child and because it is too complicated to let it end because you are already binded by the law and the church

cons: if you've done everything and it won't make things any better, the separation process is very difficult and not to mention costly and the child might experience trauma because the law would have to set visitation rights as well as income support.

agree ko... when my parents got anulled. grabe ka gubot everyone was always asking us about sako mama sako so ayaw gyud ipugos.and naa pay mga gkan sa lawyers na tao na mangutana namo. traumatizing gyud. bahalag mag cge sila sulsul... ikaw man ang mag minyo dili sila.

[bosin]

if dle pa kaya sis ayaw lang sa cguro basis dle ka abot ang budget nya db? kay ganahan bya me na kme mu gasto pud sa kasal