If sobra ra pud ka buotan kay prone to be taken advantaged. You have to draw the line when ka mag minaldita o mag binuotan.
If sobra ra pud ka buotan kay prone to be taken advantaged. You have to draw the line when ka mag minaldita o mag binuotan.
Sobra kabuotan na uyab kay murag walay lami ba, walay spice dali ra mapul-an ang pares, mas nice if naay angas gamay ba arun kurat2x sad gamay... usa pasad sa karong panahon? i doubt if napay sobra ka buotan run na tawo... naa nay bati which is either gi tago-an lang kay hadlok ma discourage ang pares or kulang sa confidence para ipakita ang iyang real self...
hmmm... there are so many lines which struck me and made me reassess how being too nice can be my own downfall...
"boring... easily be taken advantage of... no challenge... afraid to discourage the partner.. no spice at all..."
Oh my! No wonder my ex left coz I was all these... I always give him freedom -- no qualms, no demands -- if he did something wrong, smile lang ko and say, "it's ok.. don't do it next time." Prolly, he got tired of it. He used to get mad at me for "not nagging his head off" and I thought it was so absurd coz ka hassle ana, mo nag ka. hahayysss...
I just don't want to get mad or feel my ire man gud coz I can be really extreme. I used to get mad when I was still lil' and it got so ugly and I don't want it to happen again. But now from your responses, I get it. Bati pod diay...
Okies... I'll practice to be not "all too-goody/too nicey"
Thanx guys for all your honest answers
"People who love to eat are always the BEST people."
Julia Child
boring kaayo kung buutan and perfect imo partner. walay challenge
Buotan = PREDICTABLE, easy to be taken advantage,
Dont nag, just fight back...
dont forgive all the time... let them earn your trust...
show them that your a good person and not someone to mess with...
show them that you are worth the effort
mao hinoon na ako gipangita kanang babaye nga buotan........................kay conservative man ko
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