unsa imong buhaton kunbg imong mama ug papa naay mga kabit

[skyangel]

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pakungon silang duha...

[messy_babycate]

i'm a little relieved kay dili ra diay ako ang naay in-ani nga situation.

My dad is in Guam and though wala pa namu siya na-confront we know naa siya's laing family didto. When he went home last 2007 I saw pictures of his kabit sa iyang malita. Actually is was a negative then ako gipadevelop. I kept it for almost 3 years para dili makita sa ako mom. Whenever we call him, naay mga kids nga magsyagit2x sa background and there was one time naa siya'y kaaway nga girl. Bisan ako gitagoan ang pix, the time came nga akong gi-confront akong mom kay asta siya naa man pud kabit here (though nag-una man sad gud siya).

I was in grade 4 when gitug-anan mi sa among mom about sa iyang kabit. We heard it not from other people but straight from her. Gusto gud sa ako mom siya mismo ang musulti namo sa akong younger sis kay mas malain mi if sa laing taw. Imagine, grade 4 ko..I don't even know what romantic love really means. Wala mi ka-react sa ako sis ato nga time kay musugot ra man mi tagaan kwarta sa guy. (bata man gud, dako na kaayo ang 100 pesos para namo)

But it came to a point that I can't take what was happening. That time, I was in highschool and I felt like rebelling kay wala nay sense ang akong family. Nagyabag ko (laag2x, uyab2x and inom - pero dagko gihapon ako grades huh!) kay mao nalang ako outlet para ma-divert ang pain and disappointment nga akong na-feel.

But after falling inlove nakasabot ko sa akong parents nga sometimes we might fall out of love and find a new love. Ang sayop nila kay when na-sense nila nga wala nay love and nagkakalabuan na, wala sila nagtalk to nourish what they have and make it healthy again just like how it used to be.

Now, daghan mo-ask nako why okay ra ko sa set-up sa ako family kay magpadala man gihapon money ako dad gud.. i just answer them..

"you can't say you've been inlove when you can't understand how complex love is. Sometimes, you know it is wrong but you can't stop it or atleast find it too hard to stop yourself. Young as I am, I have fallen inlove deeply already and I know how it feels. I understand how my parents feel."

I am unhappy with what my family had ended up with, but then again, I saw how happy my parents are now. I made it known to them that I am here for them just like how they were beside me when I committed irreversible mistakes. They haven't forsaken me but instead supported me bisag I know it is hard for them to accept that their baby became a mom at a very young age..and so I am giving them back what they had given me.

IF you love your parents you would try your best to understand them. Unsaon ta man nga old people wants to be loved just like the way they were when they were young.

Lesson learned: Mamiga jud na ang taw bisan ug tiguwang na. Or ma-inlove jud bah.

[|nts|k]

ummpf! masuko pero wa man tay mahimu..bisan unsaon natog bali2x mama og papa nako xa..dawaton nah lang nako..ing-ana man jud ang life usahay..sometimes life is unfair ^^

[1Hit1Kiss]

aw.... mao nay gi.ingon na "Bye Everyone"... wala nakoy paki ninyo... hahahah sure ka?!

[moklo]

Ok rman na,... d man na mo matter nko ingon ana kay ako man life ang mportante. Pabalik namn na sila ako paingon pa.

[clark]

Kung chix ang kavet ni erpat, ako ilugon....kids, don't try this at home

[picols 101]

okay ra, pasagdii lang, kay kini ra bang gugma ug imoha hinoon pugngan mosamot kanindot... mosi-aw hinoon, hehehe.... ilaha man nang kalipay, so at least both parties ang involved.... basta ang mga anak ug ugaling unsay mga umaabot nga mga panghitabo, andama lang sad inyoha kaugalingon nga naa ra pud mo sa kiliran sa inyohang ginikanan.... kay kinahanglan sad na sila sa suporta sa ilahang mga anak....

[tessF]

lisod sad ni nga situation.. sila jud 2 naay kabet? mag buwag nalng kaha jud na sila kay wa nay au cge puyo sa isa ka balay nga naa man 3rd party. looy mga anak ani libog kinsay paminawon

[bosin]

na mag pray nalang gyud ta ana bro, .ila man gud nang g.tuyo

[Tre]

aw dagko naman mi thats their life.......