Pls help!bad rumor:my bf brought a woman on their house?? How true! Omg!

[emailroy2002]

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you should give your benefit of the doubt to your boyfriend...

but you trusted someone who has not educated themselves and has a tag of being a gossip girl.

u know gossip girls want your life to be destroyed by just making gossip i'ts their so called hobby, destroying others peoples lives.



so, next time hear no evil, see no evil, talk no evil...

[iAmback]

Correct jud ka BRO... if we try to think, kon ikaw mismo naa sa side sa aq bf.. then someone has allege you to a certain act.. like nakit-an daw ka naay lain girl... etc.. and ikaw mismo imo self for example lang na dili sya tnuod, do u think malipay ka maminaw?? nganong mokatawa man gyud. dba? do u think na na nindot na sya paminawn? the person could either be HURT, SHOCKED, DSSAPONTED, or SURPRISED... pero yes naa juy tawo na mokatawa because of the rumor if dli tnuod... SO very well said jud na nmo bro nah dli jud tanang tawo mokatawa and dli sad tanan masuko... lain2x jud... lahi2x bya ta nnyo... pero sa aq nahibawan kay usually jud ang reaction ana kay masuko.

sis gi base ni nako akong tubag sa behavioral pattern sa mga lalaki. dili ni absolute pero

80% ragud. basin diay na belong cxa sa 20%. lol

if dugay nana nagsugod ang smoke, meaning there's a truth behind it. BLIND ka sa love.
if ikaw na ang naa sa imo avatar, i think mangita gyud tog sexy (sorry)

[iAmback]

by the way, kanang pag duda nimo normal rana..mao nai gitawag ug woman's instinct
and taas pud nag percentage na tinuod. but remember there is a hair thin line between
a woman's instinct and paranoia.

[Quaker]

i think rumor ra jud na sis. salig lng gud sa amoa mga lalake. f wala kai pagkulang sa iyaha den dili ka maguol na mag binuang cya. this is just a basis of what i would do ha, im not sayaing tanan lalake. more on 50% sa lalake ningana.

[sHenZee03]

It is useless to worry about something that either didn't happen or won't happen unless you have everything you have to prove that it will. Stop worrying Sis. He needs his space. He will come back.

The reason why he got hurt may be based on how you approached him with the information you wanted to clarify with him. If you sounded like you believed the rumor, and accused him right then and there, then that may be the reason why he got mad at you for trusting those gossip mongers instead of trusting him.

Just think of why the relationship between you guys existed in the first place and how it lasted up until today. That should give you more than one reason to understand rather than to judge him.

Gossip mongers are bad people and the people who believe in them are even worse.

[sushikandi]

TS, the ONLY people that is involved in your relationship is YOU and HIM. So if there is a problem, you address to him directly rather than doubting and playing scenarios in your head. I believe what the other person above me commented about woman's intuition. He shouldn't have shouted at you. Or maybe you had the wrong approach. This instance TS, is just one of those trials you two are going to have. So brace yourself the worst has yet to come, it a matter of how you handle it. Love love love!

[thinkspace]

kung sa sitwasyon sa imong bf sis syempre masuko jud ko. ikaw pa ba kaha buhat2x tan ug istorya kung dili tinood. ug usa pa ngano man pud dad-on ang babaye sa ilang balay nga atbang ra man jud kaayo mo ug pinuy anan. wala na nag binuang imong uyab sis oi! naglagot ra na sa nag himo sa storya. kung mangbabaye man gani cya check-in nalang cla motel safe pa. kaysa dad-on sa ilaha. ako pa nmo sis dili ka pataka paminaw sa ubang tawo labina sa mga chismosa kay maayo kaayo na cla mo himo2x ug storya daghang kulang daghan sayop.

[cheesiee]

Actually sis, dli nq gnaahan mo talk anang aq mga chismosa na nebors kay naglagot nko ana nla ever since pa. mga bastos mangud.. basin ako ray mauwawan bah.. hadlok pd q kay dli bya q scandolosa coz naa koy modo and naakoy grado.. unlike them... then kon aq sila atakon pod,maholog sad na na affected q sis dba.. what if dli diay na true or nsaup lang sila. abi nla na ang girl gkan sa house aq bf.. etc.. na malik mata lng nla or etc.. wata kabalo. coz i have said sis na dli detailed sa pagka talk sa akoa amiga sad gud. mao sad na ang blema... lainan q motagad ana nla kay wala nami nagtagad ana sis gud taud2x na.. dli q ganahan.. lod-an q nla... yah sis. sak2 ka i need to chill and cheer up.. i need to be strong.. kayanin jud ni nq.. pero sakit pod bya na apektohan jud q oi.

awh sis, stop crying na.. .. i really feel for you. im not knwing first hand what you're going through but if maka help jd, if nagduda na ka sa imong bf. i would suggest, ipa investigate nimo. i mean if malaman niya imo xia ipainvestigate.. dako syang issue about trust. but if mo work xia pra mukalma lng imong paminaw, why not diba.. pwd ra man pd kung ikaw so that ikaw mismo ull know what's going on. seriously, if things seems to be alright , after mag talk na mo. and he still acts the same towards you, i don't think you should worry .

[cheesiee]

to thinkspace: a girl can't help to confront iyang bf and daghan jd xia questions. i know a guy would get mad for such accusations. but the thing is wala kabalo ang girl if tinood ba or not. and she wants to know.. why can't he just say "NO" and not be so defensive about it.??

[uchiha84]

well. dapat naka mag pa niwang para dili ka ma pulihan