What would you do if the one you love has someone else?

[MyMaria]

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found this in my archives and thought i'd share this here too:

moving on...

What do you do when the person you love doesn't love you anymore? How can you be "just friends" when in your heart you've already lived a dozen lifetimes with this person? After his or her being your everyday, how will you wake up to today? How do you move on after loving with your whole heart... and giving your all?

Though I cannot speak for everyone, I can speak for myself, and what I would do... what I have done... is move on... facing each morning... painfully... but with my head held high... because I know that I did give my all and I did love with my whole heart.

The guy I love... loves another. Now what could be more painful than that? And yet, on the day he told me that friends is all we could be, he said I surprised him with my kindness and understanding. Instead of the anger he was expecting and ready for... I found it in me to smile and say everything would be okay. Because in truth, I knew it would.

I have always believed (and always will) that love is pure and true... and that everyone has someone... two people meant to be together for the rest of their lives. And this is why I give all that I have. Even though friends often tell me to be careful because I might just as easily get hurt, I still give my everything, telling them that it is the only way I can know if it will work out or not. And after having given my all, if and when the relationship doesn't work, at least I am comforted by knowing that I couldn't have done anything better. I live my life with no regrets... and the only way for me to do that is by not holding back... so as to avoid the "what-ifs" that plague many of my friends' thoughts.

I would be lying if I say it doesn't hurt. The truth is... tears cleanse the wounds on my heart every night before I go to sleep... bittersweet memories bring not laughter, but pain... and the feeling of being alone gnaws at my consciousness, just waiting for me to break down.

But I will not break down. Because I know that he is happy. And because I still love him. That has not changed... because I loved him not knowing whether he loved me back or not. I may have lost him... and us... but I will not lose me.

I am here... and I move on...

[*Guu*]

maghikog cguro. hehe just kidding.

i'm experiencing dz as of the moment. this guy is flirting with me, i dunno exactly if he's just bein friendly or exceeding to that. basta i could conclude na naga flirt xa nako, but then he's already taken. when we talked bout his girl, he seemed like escaping from the topic. i dunno. he almost got my nerves. and i'm started to fall. (my gulay). pero i'm tryin to get away from him now. ignoring his calls, emails.. whatever kilig factors that may brought. i sometimes hated myself of getting in. what can i do? Emotions are so addictive. but i've leanrned that... it's a matter of controlling, overthinking what future lies.

i shouldn't be the "antagonist" in the story. i'll be risking my reputation then. rather move on.. a lot out there.. waiting.

[kiwiboy]

talk it over...
ask her what makes her do that....
contemplate on what things might have gone wrong....
if evrything is said and done....
decide wether to leave her or not according to what you percieve...

[marix24_7]

nahitabo najud ni nako b4, ala jud ko choice but to move on.
as n grabeh jud ko ka desperada cge lang ko hilak ug cge kaon...

pro now im happy w/d my life nah coz i found da ryt man for me

[kinumot]

sweet!

[weeeeee]

tiunan ug pusil silang duha. ipag halok dayn tunga sa dalan. para romantic. i bunal dayn ang pusil sa ulo sa laki. kulatahon ug au. kung mahimo patyun. ang ako dayn partner kay mangayo ko ug panglast. panglast nga jrj.

[lhykah]

mag walkout jed ang show...

[rudjard]

biyaan...she dont deserve it and i dont deserve to be fooled around
daghan mas deserving so why stay.... peace!

[gelo]

we all know it hurts pero mas mahurt tayo kng pinipilit pa taung mahalin kahit di na tau ang mahal..ryt? wala na tayong magagawa nandon na un...makonsesya na lang xa.....face the truth......

[wicked_b]

half-crazy..
asking: y dli man ka.loyal nko?!