what would you do if you were in my situation???

[nirdle_phogi]

---

unsa diay inyo religion mrs? huna hunaa na lang inyong pamilya, madugay mo magka-uyon ra man tali mo..

[pigrah]

i think u should just do the right way..
i dunno ha ky wa man jud ko ka try ani na situation but u should really really really think about the consequences.
try and stay away from this guy u like and stop encouraging ur feelings.
Give ur marriage a chance since its still new.
Maybe in the end u will learn to love ur husband.

[flanker]

resign nlang oi... para mapug-ngan na imong tama sis..

learn to love your husband...

[katmendz11]

before unta ka makapasal, u try to reflect kung happy baka sa imo sudlan...
yeah its really hard to get out but naa naman na, do things nga maka strong sa inyo relationship...
not on the things nga maka samot ug pawala ug gana sa imo partner...

i totally agree with you..marriage is a lifetime commitment so if dli unta ka sure before wla na lng unta ka pakasal, dli bya imo papa mkig ipon sa guy, ikaw bya..

forget about your ofismate infatuation ra na, you should do things to make ur husbnad happy and to make your love for him develop

[Wenxp7]

hi guys!!!!

i am now married but im not happy bec. na force ra ko nga mag pakasal.ani nga guy bec. of religion where not catholic man then kung dili ko mag pakasal mabutang sa peligro ang katudanan akung papa wala pame gi panganak naa nana iyang katugdanan sa simbahan.then karon im in love my officemate his nice gentle man super dooper intelligent,responsible then stable na..i dnt know f he loves me too basta whenever his around im happy then his good sad sa akoa then i have this instinct nga he feels the same way too but lagi nag pugong lang sya bec. sa akung situation na married na then naa nasd bb...what would you do if you were in my situation..then will still choose you own happiness than the happiness of you father..huhuhhuh

para nku sis ky choose ur heart...how married's life if were not happy for it...but be sure jd nga gtarong pd ka ana nga guy...ky for sure sis bnuangan rka anah...ok rna if minyo pd nah xa ky aron fair ramu...

[cheesiee]

ate, we don't hold the answer to your situation. because no matter pila mu advice nimo.. the decision must only be done by you. ok?

pero, if i was in your shoes, i would stick to where i am now and live each day being with my kids. You can be not happy with your husband pero na.a mo baby. that's happiness right there.. you jst don't feel contented because you are not physically attracted to your husband which i think happens for a lot of cases .. hindi lng ikaw.
regarding your officemate.. feel whatever you want to feel towards him just don't be taken by your emotions lang. it might get fishy and can turn to something bad.

[dindinisms]

I think the best that you can do is stay away from the officemate and work on your marriage.