unsay ika suggest ninyo guys kung you are in a LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP?!

[monrayz69]

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hmmmn!! ang ako lng jd ikasulti aning LDR!! kinanhanglan naay trust jd!! and dapat faithfull ang both parties!! lisud kaau kun walay salig mka cause ug walay hinungdan nga away!!

[rom69erz]

I have also a friend who was into this relationship. The guy was working in a bank while his gf was working abroad. They only spent 1 year as a couple then the girl left abroad. For six years LDR, their relationship become strong than ever. The guy still even using snail mail, electronic mail as long as SMS and YM as well. They manage their LDR for 6 years. But now no more, because the got married a year ago. This time, LDR is not so difficult if both parties have respect and trust to each other. There is nothing impossible nowadays if we talk about communication. Just remember 3 things: communicate, trust and respect. Spend more time in communication since among the 3, it's the very important.

[teddyboy]

its about trust

[kurdapia.nikki]

CONSTANT COMMUNICATION.
It's the only way to nurture distant relationships.
I suggest both of you should e-mail each other everyday.
Bisag offline messages would do. As long as constant lang jud.

I had an LDR before. It didn't work because we were too young to handle things.
I am too selosa to hold on. Hehe.
And yeah, prayers, faith, and patience. Main ingredients jud ni sa LDR.

And also, both of should be consistent with all your decisions and actions.
If ang usa mu-laylow, it would give doubts to the other.
Both of you shouldn't give each other reasons of not making it thru.
Dapat strong mo duha and it's only between the both of you that would make your relationship work.

God bless you both with your endeavors for your relationship.
I wish you all the best together

[blu bizcuitz]

keep the communication alive...mao ra jud na inyong chance...to not miss each other...

[classicrock]

kas ug kwarta ang long distance relationship ky cge ramog long distance call.. hehe.

[krazymanyou]

its pretty darn challenging

[monrayz69]

trust faithfullness and constant and stable communication on both parties and understanding!! i have tried it and it lasted 4 yrs.

[blu bizcuitz]

Communication is the key to all.

[francixearl]

I have a cousin. LDR sila sa iyang uyab, 4 years pud ang ilang LDR. A lot of people told her nga di kuno jud mag work, lisud kuno jud. I'm not one of those people though, because I believe na kun love jud nimo, makaya jud ang tanan bisag ang distance. And yeah, they had constant communication, as in.. ka-witness jud ko. Maluoy nalang gud ko nila mag-tan aw usahay kay anhan ra intawn sila mag-sturyahanay through chat and webcam. And yeah, I could see that they're in love with each other.

So, nalampus nila ang ilang LDR kay ang guy nipauli na sa pinas pag 2005, (niadto ra siya didto para sa iyang studies.) Then last 2008, their love story ended. Yep, after almost 8 years, nagbuwag sila. A lot of people were shocked of course apil nako. Wa man jud mi mag-expect nga magbuwag pa sila. Abi namo'g sila na jud. But yeah, they broke up! Ako, wa nako pangutana akong cousin kun nganong nagbuwag sila, respeto lang pud ko. Kay secretive man pud kaayo siya. Hangtod karon wa jud ko kahibaw kung nganong nag buwag sila, wa jud nako siya pangutan.a labi na karon nga naka-move on na siya, she has a new boyfriend already.

Daghan ko'g question sa akong kaugalingon. Siguro nagbuwag sila kay tungod pirmi na sila magkita, unlike before nga naay distance between them. Kay lahi man gud kun layo mo kay murag pirmi ka mingawon, as the saying goes.."Absence makes the heart grow fonder" it's true. So yeah.. naa jud huge possibility nga mo work na inyong relationship.. cause you will always miss each other. Haha! Anha na nato mahibaw-an kun unsa ba jud na inyong nafeel kun magkuyog na jud mo.

hala ka, kasayang sad ani sa ilang relationship oi. pero grabeh ug determination, 8 years. its like spending almost half of your life na. thanks sa pag share bro.