Originally Posted by
SeductiveMe
guys, i'm really confused this time. i have a boyfriend for two years already, pero long distance me. since sa pagkauyab namo twice a year gyud me magkita niya. akong problema kay wala ko kabalo kung inlove ba gyud nako ang guy or lahi lang iyang tuyo nako? this year pag bday nako niuli gyud sya pero dili gyud ko satisfied kay dili man sya whole day naa nako. i'm not sure kung possessive lang ko sa time niya, basta para nako tagsa ra gud me magkita so dapat unta quality time iyang e spend sa akoa, correct me if i'm wrong. i admit bogo ko when it comes to relationship, pero stick to one gyud ko and i always put my heart gyud sa tanan nakong buhaton para sa akong bf. before man gud akong ex kung asa sya updated gyud ko sa iyang mga activities. kani ron akong present though mosulti sya ahead kung unsay iyang mga lakaw pero on the day sa iyang lakaw dili nako makadungog from him, in short dili sya mo update nako sa actual panghitabo. ambot oi galibog ko, naanad man gud ko sa akong ex nga e update gyud ko from time to time. do you think in love ni nako akong present bf?
If updates lang imong gipangita.. then.. it isn't the basis kung inlove cya nimo or dili... try kuno to figure out kung unsa jud iyang gi uli? the main reason y ni anha cya.. tungod nimo? so.. naa nay effort.. dili man pud nato cya mapugos nga mo stay nimo for the whole day nga maka uli cya kay sa iyang life.. d man lang ikaw ang involve.. naa man cyay family.. naa pud cyay friends....
so.. sis.. ikasulte lang nako.. yaw lang lisod lisora ang unsay naa nimo karon.. be contented lang sa for now... and if you really want to satisfy your confusions right now.. the best thing for you to do is open it with him.. ask him his reasons.. let him tell you why.. let him give his side.. be open to him and tell him honestly what you've felt that day..
Never compare your past relationship sa imong present.. naay ubang lalaki laayan og ingon ana ... dili cla nahan e compare.. sis.. ikaw ra jud makasulte ana.. if naay effort imong uyab.. love jud ka ana.. though.. wala lang ta kabalo unsa kadak-a iyang gugma pra dha nimo... basin karon nga time.. mas dako lang cguro imong gugma kaysa niya... yaw lang sa liboga imong utok karon gud... ask him.. communication is very essential tool in a relationship.. honesty also would help you....
talk to him.. yaw kaulaw.. relasyon mana ninyo.. if you feel uncomfortable with some things.. let him know.. it's either mo adjust cya .. or mo go astray.. in that way you'll know a little bit more of how he feels towards you..
I hope I did helped..