When your spouse tells you that you're free to make love with another...

[dearlabe]

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and you found someone you love and make love. Basically in legal terms it is cheating but at the heart and emotional level,is it still? What is your stand?

[randymunz]

butangi pagkalisod aning kalakiha.

[anjerika]

is your question - is it still cheating when it is allowed or permitted by the spouse?

[dearlabe]

Let's hear from the others then sir

[dearlabe]

is your question - is it still cheating when it is allowed or permitted by the spouse?

Yes sis. When love is no longer there and you have come to such an agreement. What do you think?

[butong101]

Yes sis. When love is no longer there and you have come to such an agreement. What do you think?

this is basically the reason why i am pro-divorce..
its a given fact that romantic relationship wont last long..
so, y should we forever bind ourselves in marriage if love and fidelity isn't there anymore..

[organizedchaos]

it can be just a bait for something... an alibi.. you are about to get screwed big time!

[KASAAC]

if both of you agreed to that then i don't think "making love" to someone else is cheating, well technically it is but if there's a permission from your spouse then that's another story...

[Blackjellybean27]

When i said that to my ex hubby what i really meant was: would you go and make love with someone else if i gave you the permission to...
and so he went out with someone else, and so i was hurt like hell.. and so that was one of the most stupid things i said.. :P

i wanted to test his faithfulness to me, main reason why i said that.

but let's get back to your question, it's not cheating for me. after all he gave you "the go signal", although it could be a bait...

[ozracing]

a threesome would be nice as long as it is consensual