You're in Love with Your BEST FRIEND!

[dessay]

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oh my gosh..this topic reminds me of the movie "Love Actually"...one character fell in love with his bestfriend's wife...the only way to hide his feelings for her is to act unfriendly. Then there's this scene where the girl went to his place to get a copy of her wedding video which he took from his own video-cam.
When the girl saw the video she found out that everything in it is focused only to her...

then she said "it's all of me?but..but...you hate me?"... i forgot kung unsa tung iyang tubag...basta he went out...

As I watched the movie,gahilak jud ko ug ayo...murag sad naka feel ko sa iyang pain...naks...Char kaayoo...hahahhaha


Basta all I can say, loving in silence is even worst than being rejected by someone.

[blade101]

korek ka dyan ma'am dessay!

loving in silence is really not an advisable thing to do. the words" are you a man or a mouse?" come into mind. If you love someone, do not be afraid to show it, rather take the risk and find out how that person feels about you or better yet do something so you can win the affections of your heart's desire. if the love is reciprocated fine. if not, at least you can say in the end that you tried instead of doing nothing at all

[gareb]

sh*tzzz... and what if only rejection is not necessarily JUST the only liability granted that the fateful step is taken...

[jeanne_ml]

there is always a risk in every thing that we do, no matter how cautious we may be...

but these risks should not keep us from being honest to our selves and to the ones we love.

[grlnxtdor16]

that sucks!!!!

you have to express what you feel..
wat if diay both of u share the same feelings mu huwat pa diay mu nga mawala nang feeling nga its gonna be too late


ang pagbasul naa jud sa ulahi!

[zer0_cooL]

maka-relate man sad ko...

pro sad to say miski my fwends gave the title na daring and vocal pro i cant let him know na naa ko malisya nya hehehe (a.k.a. na crush ko nya) kay dli man pwede... bawal man kay naa man cya gf and i cant tell him kay i might ruin their relationship huhuhu

[carlisle gwapa]

mag sakit ra imong heart if u love in silence why dont u express what u feel for her/him at least he would be aware wala bitaw mawala nmo.at least honest ka

[undercover_lover]

what if ilaga diay to imo gi love... naa jud mawala nimo ana.....

[glimpse]

If you are on this situation? Wat you gonna do?

GIRL = let's call her Jen
GUY = let's call him Migs


ONE NiGHT: they were talking on the phone about the perennial topic of getting-to-know-each-other-better-and-better pairs, LOVE LIFE. Migs was using the cordless one. Suddenly,brown out. So he texted Jen this: (not in the abbreviated form)

"Hey sorry! Nagbrown out here. Sayang,
I really wanted to talk to you pa. You're
really a breath of fresh air you know that?
Nga pala. Thanx for being you. La lang.
You're something I need to make me whole.
Corny, pero totoo. Haay,mis you na agad!
I'll see you tom. Love kita, friend ko...=( "

Jen: (puzzled) why kya may sad face? Pero kilig ako! hehehe. Kaso, bad mag-assume. Sad kya siya dahil friends lang kami? Or sad lang talaga siya today?

Kilig-ed to the max, Jen saved that message sa phone nya. And she was left thinking whether what she feels is reciprocated or not.


TWO YEARS LATER: sobrang close pa rin sila...THE MESSAGE WAS STILL ON HER PHONE. They went out a couple of times, calling their date "company dates" whenever they make kwento to people to avoid awkwardness.


LAST DAY OF CLASSES BEFORE SUMMER THAT SCHOOL YR.
LOCATION: Sunken garden, UP Diliman campus
SETTING: sunset, ganda (daw) ng clouds, perfect setting sa mga mag-aaminan.

MIGS: Jen, I have to tell you something.

JEN: (thinking: THIS IS IT!) Yeah?

MIGS: Uh..(fidgets) you know how close we are? I just wanna thank you. Sobrang angel kita. You know that nman right?

JEN: (thinking: AAHHH! Kilig!) Corny! hehe. Pero yeah, you know din nman na you're my angel right?

MIGS: (blushing) uhh..yeah. (fidgets again) can we hug?

JEN: (blushing, feeling awkward) o, why? You have a problem ba?

MIGS: (hugging her) No naman. Just happy.

- - finished na yung hug - -

JEN: aww..me too. Feels right to be with you now.

MIGS: likewise (biglang tumulo ang tears of joy) Kainis, I'm getting emotional again. Sorry.(wipes tears)

JEN and MIGS: (sabay) May- -

JEN: You first.

MIGS: uhh...hehe..teka. Hirap sabihin. Borrow nlang ng phone.

JEN: (Surprised, panicked) h-hah? w-wait lang.

Since naka-save pa yung message ni Migs above (FOR 2 FRIGGIN' YEARS) and walang confirmed mutual understanding, Jen erased it para Migs wouldn't know...but it was hard for her to erase the prized and oldest text message na yun sa phone niya.

MIGS: (typed something sa cellphone) Uhh..here. Thanks for being supportive ha?

JEN: (read the message) Aww. Omigosh. Heh. Really?

MIGS: yeah. you ok?

JEN: (nods, crying) can I just hug you?

MIGS: (hugs her) Why are you crying? Mad ka ba? Ayaw mo ba?

JEN: la lang. I'm just happy...really, I am.

MIGS: Aww...love mo ko talaga! Tama talaga timpla natin! I'm happy too. Nasabi ko na ba na mahal kita? (to the nape and back ang smile)

JEN: (crying pa rin) Ngayon lang Migs...ngayon lang.


--> you know what Migs wrote? eto (not in the abbreviated form):

"May girlfriend na ko. SHE'S a BREATH OF FRESH AIR,
you'd like her. Sori I didn't tell you about her. You'll
understand dba angel? Kaw pa, love mo ko eh,
hehehe. First time ko lang sasabihin ito. I was in
love with you for the past 2 years. Pero alam ko, it
can never be. I value our friendship so much, I
couldn'e risk losing you kahit mahal kita. i love you
bestfriend..."


...ouch. Sakita ah... huhuhuhu!!!

[monrose29]

hayyyyyyyyyyyyy tset... tulo ako luha og sip-on.. why.. this could be happen....