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[thinkspace]

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bro, give her another chance as a friend but remind her that the love you once had was already vanished. being friend again with her is a great thing but being in love again with her is a different story (you'll trap in the loop).

[yam123]

dawata bro nya buntisi dayun para sure na imo na gyud cya hehehhehee

[rAiNe_]

maybe she needs a friend right now.. kahibaw man xa nga mo help ka niya sa iya naagi karon kay friend gud mo...

[aozora]

First of all, you have to realize that you've been rejected by her months ago. What more do you want?

Don't you know that When a girl (with low self esteem) experience a break up or rejection, what cures her is attention. Luckily she has you posing as a friend and at the same time lover, a perfect source of what she needs.

You've been doing fine lately without her but what you're doing now (communicating) with her will be your latest end.

Lastly, if I were you, I'll save myself future heartaches and time wasting. Ako pa nimo kay mangita ko lain.

[wise_zech]

hay mao ni pait gipa-asa unya sa kataposan wala diay to....

[darsmith13]

.. ikaw ray timbang ana na situation bai. ikaw man naka ila sa iya.

.. but if i were in your shoes .. na if iya ko e.treat na mura ug panakip butas permi, ako na lang cya ing.non na .. stop wasting your time with other men, i'm here, i've always been here for you, stay with me and i can assure you that i can make you happy, but if you'll still go and find other men, then i guess this is goodbye for us, coz i cant stand seeing you always getting hurt ... ako sad e.exercise ako right na maka dungog cya sa ako feelings para sa iya .... but that's me, hehehehe... in the end, ikaw ra gihapon decide ana.

i dont have the guts to say those things to her, although nindot imo advise, the problem is me, d na nako kaya isulti niya.. because i know things will be awkward after i say those words, hehehe

hhmmmmm nya nako mo comment kay murag na kilig ko sa hug moment nga na-a sya sa imong likod saying sorry hahahaha....

bro kong love nimo sya bro imo gyud dawatan iyang past..

so far, it was the longest minute of my life..

[darsmith13]

give her another chance Dar..

sakit man su.. hehehe..

take it easy bro dar......

friend level lang sa mo karon.... you don't know, you will grow to like then love each other in the near future. ayaw pagdali, bata pa bitaw kaw unlike nako! bwahaha!

btw bro, wa jud ko gadali mao btaw 4ever single ko hehehe.. ok raman unta friendship, pero i know my feelings for her will eventually be the same as before in the long run, so sakit gihapon ang outcome..

u know bro, its hard to accept a fault and say sorry.... u know her the most kay shes ur bestfriend, so if she accepted that it was her fault then maybe she truly is sorry. what she needs now is a friend and just because she turned down ur advances before, it doesnt mean na ur not friends anymore. she reached out to you, so she values ur friendship. its hard to find true friends in this day and age. whats complicated is that u have feelings for her... just be a friend for now... dont pressure her... just be there and listen... you may or may not end up together romantically but you get to keep your friendship and thats the important thing... Good luck bro...

mao jud ni naa sa akong huna2x, but u know what?, i pictured myself listening to her while she is sharing her problems.. ang musulod ra sa ako hunahuna pirmi kay "i should have prevented this from happening" or "it would have been different if she had chosen me".. thanks bro

hmm.. i can never tell you what her true intentions are, coz lain2x man jud huna2x ang mga tao.. i'm not claiming to be an expert or anything, but i tell you objectively what i see sa imong situation..

she's hurt because ngbuwag sila.. and you're not making things better by not being there for her as a friend.. remember, just because wala niya gi-accept imong love doesn't mean she wanted your friendship to end also.. you were the one nga ngpalayo.. you were the one who broke your friendship off..

but now kay ngmake na cyag effort to patch things up with you.. and yes, imohang kahimtang karn kay, let's say "situation critical".. naa jud chance nga ma-hurt jud ka.. that's why you're reluctant to be friends with her again.. but it's up to you to weigh things.. friendship vs. risk of getting hurt.. for me mas bug-at man jud ang friendship.. and so far she's not showing any inclination towards wanting you as a lover (or is she?).. hehe.. basta now it makes sense for you to be there as a friend.. and as time goes by, see where it goes.. and if i may suggest, ayaw lng sa pag-char2x kay vulnerable pa na cya at this stage.. and if ever gani mu-make cyag moves, discipline lng sa.. ayaw lang sa entertain kay mahimo jud kang rebound guy..

good luck bro, hope it works out well for both of you =)

spot on, situation critical, every move i make now will make a significant impact on the future, mao btaw d jud q ganahan magpa dalos2x.. thank you for patiently replying

dawata bro nya buntisi dayun para sure na imo na gyud cya hehehhehee

im considering this..

First of all, you have to realize that you've been rejected by her months ago. What more do you want?

Don't you know that When a girl (with low self esteem) experience a break up or rejection, what cures her is attention. Luckily she has you posing as a friend and at the same time lover, a perfect source of what she needs.

You've been doing fine lately without her but what you're doing now (communicating) with her will be your latest end.

Lastly, if I were you, I'll save myself future heartaches and time wasting. Ako pa nimo kay mangita ko lain.

ouch, the ugly truth sir..



TO ALL:
thank you sa mga replies...

ni txt ko niya ganiha...

i said "chuva(not her real name ha), regarding ur last txt.. there will always be a BIG slot for u in my heart, but under renovation lang karon so dili pa pwede i occupy, sorry for being bitter to you these past few months, please erase my messages immediately"

daghan pa kaau mi mga message pero kapoy post.. hahaha... basta mao na akong first message.. based sa iyang mga reply, aw murag nanginahanglan jud xa ug amigo.. bahalag sakit, thats what friends are for man kuno ingon ako isa ka amiga.. here i go again..

[hamtaro12]

nah.......................

[tongyong]

wew...nindot lage ni nga story....mura man og handumanan sa usa awit...tew dew dew dew tew dew dew dew

[iMnOtUrSuPeRwOmAn]

ako nlng hug nmo sa likod migo den my message wud be "come here, u need a hug..." pro atik ra...

seriously,we are always taught to forgive so i wud suggest to forgive her...but this time set limitations...u can still be platonic frends but do not entertain any circumstance or feelings beyond that yet...