"Ala-ot Ba, ang mahimong crying shoulder?"

[nHaRuToH_XXX]

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[quote=daMiro ronaB ]

@nolex..touch ko...and it is definitely true...

for me...ok ra na...mas nindot noon...

How about you have a special feelings for this person, and naatul pa jud na lonely ka or weak ka anang mga panahona...tendency mo feel jud ka or madevelop ka sa imo friend....(friend nga girl sa ako case...sa imo friend nga boy)

u have to think first if its either it will turn into bad or good kay lisod na kau....needs to be 80% brain and 10% heart...the reamaining 10% is for something else...heheeh

[splendid moonlight]

ala-ot siguro para sa uban because they are expecting something might bloom out of it. just try to be there as a friend; extend help without expecting anything in return. might be hard but TRY. don't be weakened by it. siya ang weak karon. ayaw pakig kompetensiya. in time you'll know if she merely sees you as a crying shoulder, or someone that she deeply wants to communicate her sorrows with. one who sincerely shows one's sorrow might be one who wants to show you other parts of herself as well (wholesome ni ha), and it's actually a good way to start to form a bond.

[nolex]

just be true to urself... say what you want say... tell her... there is no harm in trying man...=)

[daMiro ronaB]

@ lutheinne

Im not expecting more from it, i know...why she cried so much because love pa nia kaayo iya bF... ikaw bay dili madevelop nga gi-treat naka niya as part sa iya lyf, kada minuto txt....naunsa na cya...
And wats funny about this kay naa pud cya friend nga guy nga gi-bulagan sad...and then adto pud niya mangayo ug advise....dili man sad cya katambag kay weak man sad cya hehehehhee unhanay lng sila state sa ila sorrows.....

Ambrot lagi....mura nama ko kaduhang amahan ning manga-bayhana...nahimo noun mura baranggay hall ako mga shoulders hheheheheh..... Gud kay wala jud ko nitake advantage sa tym na weak sila...ako na lng gi-tago sa hilom...

[GOKOU]

oki ra nako kay ari man dagan ako mga friends pag naa sila probs... mura ako ila big bro pero mas bata pa ko nila hehehe

[splendid moonlight]

@damiro: and i thought people should be able to find strength with each other when they are all weak. knowing that you are not alone drives you to be stronger. now i don't see why she ran away from her guy friend when she's possibly the only one who can understand him better. she must really be in a bad state. treat her in a way that shows you know she is strong and can get over this. don't baby her. when she's strong again, she will have u to thank for.

[daMiro ronaB]

@ luth

what i did wrong was i paid to much attention for her, not knowing that theres a part of me na nag-want niya....huhuhuhuh

[jugs_06]

pagpabilin nga mahigugmaon anak kay maimo ra gihapon ang gingharian sa langit.....

alaot ang tawo nga wala makakita sa imong kaau..
alaot siya nga wala makita ang imong dakong gugma kaniya..
alaot siya nga wala tugbangi og gugma ang imong gugma pud kaniya.
og labaw sa tanan ikaw nga pahiranan sa iyang mga luha og sikmahanan sa iyang mga sip-on maoy magmadaogon sa katapusan kay ang Diyos naglantaw sa imong kaau kanunay....

bulahan ka anak nga adunay bulawanong kasing2x kay ang paraiso sa gugma maangkon ra gihapon nimo sa katapusan....


ipadayon lamang imong mga maayong buhat kay may gasa ikaw nga naghulat gikan sa langit...

bro noles, pari-unon man kaayo ka ani bai.. i thot ako ra..

serious ta ani kay serious bya ang thread starter (char):

ang akong take (char) ani noh kay mao ni:

kung himuon gni kag crying shoulder, ok rana bsta nars lang..hehe
btaw, wa man cgro sayup ana kng ma crying shoulder ka..
paila lang na nga maayo jd ka pgka chickboy hehehe
bsta ay lang butangig malisya gud.. ok rana..
tngali diay kamoy mgka dayun..
eh di naka bonus pka.. hehe

[daMiro ronaB]

@juggyrose


nindot ta lagi to kung nars pa hhehehe @ first bai...wala jud ko maanad anang gakos2x dayon hilak...kana na comforting tym naba....whats worst is i dont know how please her...labi kanang hilak nga murag maglisod ginhawa....huhuhuhu mao jud na ang pinaka lisod sa tanan kanang tyabaw dayon dakos.....I dont know if i was doin the right thing or what?...

[jugs_06]

*serious mode nko..


@bro dams: i understand your situation bai.. cz i for one was at the same situation you are in right now.. what's worst, i was VERY young then.. and the girl who asked for me help was too many years way ahead of me.. d jud sayon bai.. labi na mu hilak na jud og maayo like what you've said.. instead of you being strong, it could result in a situation where it's the other way around.. meaning, you try your best to be strong but you'll end up being in a weak state like what she's in..