ok ra na..basta di lang ka niya gamiton as a panakip butas...
ok ra na..basta di lang ka niya gamiton as a panakip butas...
as i understand TS love mn nmo cya but youre just afraid to accept the fact that youre in love with her cz napasakitan ka nya way back. based sa imong tx2x nya i dont think binuang ra to imo or out of the blue reply, subconsciously, that is what's in your heart and mind.
for me TS para dli ka masakitan balik if ever she wants to have a relationship with you, ask her to heal her broken heart sa before jumping into another relationship at least para sure ka nga dli ka for rebound lng nya.. and look deeply in your heart if you are in love with her or not.. cast off all the pains that made you blinded with your true feeling towards her...
hhmmmmm nya nako mo comment kay murag na kilig ko sa hug moment nga na-a sya sa imong likod saying sorry hahahaha....
bro kong love nimo sya bro imo gyud dawatan iyang past..
stay as friends with her..ibaLik naLang kung unsa mo sauna as bestfriends.. and you said "gamay" naLang imo na-feeL para niya, if ever magparamdam xa nga ganahan xa nimo ayaw na patuLi kay gamay naman lang kaha..aheheh..bitaw for now waLa pa man xa nagsuLti unsa jud iya tuyo so bestfriends lang gihapon mo..ayaw pud xa i-reject ui kay to think waLa baya mo ga-ayaw, naa ra baya gap tungod ato nahitabo sauna.. =)
take it easy bro dar......
friend level lang sa mo karon.... you don't know, you will grow to like then love each other in the near future. ayaw pagdali, bata pa bitaw kaw unlike nako! bwahaha!
..ayaw lang pa dalos2x ha ..kay ni agi na bya kag tagam
mao ni nakalisud, kanang tinuoray nga gamahal nato, maoy dili nato gukdon kay assured man gud ta nga naa lang sila permi para nato. what if sayup atong pag tuo? naa ra na nimo bro. ang pag mahal always a risk man gyud na. i know its hard to believe her motives esp nga broken hearted siya. be there as a friend na lang sa niya and go from there. mabaw an ra man gyud na nimo ug unsay tinuod ba. pero ug ga doubt gyud ka, ayaw na lang. unfair for both of u ug sige lang ka huna2 nga basig dili tininuod iyaha, its unhealthy for the relationship. just give it a little more time
u know bro, its hard to accept a fault and say sorry.... u know her the most kay shes ur bestfriend, so if she accepted that it was her fault then maybe she truly is sorry. what she needs now is a friend and just because she turned down ur advances before, it doesnt mean na ur not friends anymore. she reached out to you, so she values ur friendship. its hard to find true friends in this day and age. whats complicated is that u have feelings for her... just be a friend for now... dont pressure her... just be there and listen... you may or may not end up together romantically but you get to keep your friendship and thats the important thing... Good luck bro...
hmm.. i can never tell you what her true intentions are, coz lain2x man jud huna2x ang mga tao.. i'm not claiming to be an expert or anything, but i tell you objectively what i see sa imong situation..
she's hurt because ngbuwag sila.. and you're not making things better by not being there for her as a friend.. remember, just because wala niya gi-accept imong love doesn't mean she wanted your friendship to end also.. you were the one nga ngpalayo.. you were the one who broke your friendship off..
but now kay ngmake na cyag effort to patch things up with you.. and yes, imohang kahimtang karn kay, let's say "situation critical".. naa jud chance nga ma-hurt jud ka.. that's why you're reluctant to be friends with her again.. but it's up to you to weigh things.. friendship vs. risk of getting hurt.. for me mas bug-at man jud ang friendship.. and so far she's not showing any inclination towards wanting you as a lover (or is she?).. hehe.. basta now it makes sense for you to be there as a friend.. and as time goes by, see where it goes.. and if i may suggest, ayaw lng sa pag-char2x kay vulnerable pa na cya at this stage.. and if ever gani mu-make cyag moves, discipline lng sa.. ayaw lang sa entertain kay mahimo jud kang rebound guy..
good luck bro, hope it works out well for both of you =)
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