love can make the world go round jd, hahamakin lahat makuha ka lang...tinuod jd guro na...
it's not always money...but most cases ing-ana, esp if ang kabit kay bata pa kau para sa laki/babae...im talking about kabit pwede ma lalaki or ma babae ha...dili one sided lang...
i for one is a product of a broken family...my dad left my mom, me and my sis (i think 1992 or 1993)for another woman and sila jd nagdugay until namatay ako dad due to vehicular accident last oct 2005...ako dad kay walay stable na trabaho, and they have 5 children together...so i cant say that the other woman is after for my dad's money or whatever...i grew up with my mom so i really can't say that i miss him kay he wasnt there man gd when i was growing up...
but ever since that my dad left us, my mom never made us feel that kulang mi...she did almost everything she can to give us a decent(sometimes extravagant) lifestyle and napahuman mi niya ug skwela sa ako sis...
now, i have a family of my own and the best i can do is to make my marriage and my family work, whatever it takes, para walay regrets in the end IF ever dili happy ang ending, but i wont think about that...
to TS: everything happens for a reason...it would hurt you more cguro if your dad and mom are still together just for the sake of looking good to everyone's eyes, esp their children but reality is that cge lang sila ug away behind your back, to the point dili na magtapad ug sleep...dba mas lain man na?
what am trying to say is, don't totally put the blame on the homewrecker kay naguba imo family, your dad's got something to do with it too for letting this situation happen...open your mind lang pd...
i have a friend way back in college gani nga ing-ani ug set up iya mama and papa, still living in one house but iya papa sa sala na matulog, nya dili magtingog...he told me about it when i noticed ngano pirme iya papa naa sa sala matulog and dili mag tingog, labay2 lang(frequent visitor man ko sa ilaha sa una kay barkada man)...all i can say at that time is,
PWEDE DIAY NG ING-ANA?..ka weird but naanad ra sila...