For cheating guys

[Blackjellybean27]

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daghana issue na ang lalake maoy ga cheat ... why not also make an issue sa mga babae diha cge ga cheat or in other words cgeg bilangkad ni bisankinsang laki diha

bro, i did say na open sya to all...
both girl and guy cheaters
but mas dghan lang jud lalaki nag reply

[cute factory]

lisura jud diay likayan aning BIGA noh? tsk3. as much as possible if love nimu imung partner and imu siyang gi respeto you can take control of IT man jud.

never cheated but been cheated.

Correct!! You CAN resist temptation if you think strongly of your pinalangga nga asawa/uyab.. What if siya mubuhat ana nimo, unsa imo ma feel?

[cute factory]

ako answer sa imu question na "why does he choose to cheat on his gf gihapon?"... for me is not really a revenge but rather a defense mechanism. nakasuway naman gud siya na ni naay ni cheat niya so for him medyo wala na siyay salig sa mga taw. so mao na for him mas okay pa ang siya ang mo cheat nalang kaysa siya ang ma unhan and he has to go through all the pain again.
depende lang pud ni sa taw nuon.

true2x.. it's a form of defense mechanism jud.. Naka feel ko ana way back 1st yr college pako.. I've been cheated on.. Sakit au.. Then after pila ka balde hinilak, I vowed to myself na maypa ako nalang muuna og pahilak kesa ako napod pahilakon.. Serious au ko sa ko 1st and 2nd bf, nya pasakitan ra ko.. Ma.o to pag ika 3rd na, wa na.. Haha! Hantod after ni 3rd, never got serious na jd.. BUT now, minyo naman ko, karn pa ko serious balik sa akoa hubby..hehe

** Pero sa tinuod lang noh, wala baya japon ko salig sa akoa bana usahay.. Mahadlok ko mahappen nasad nga naa lain gurls.. Di na nako kaya masakitan pa.. Ma.o nang tawag nga trauma na sa serious relationships..pero saon ta man.. we have to be serious naman sad.. Gamble nalang jud ta ani.

[Blackjellybean27]

true2x.. it's a form of defense mechanism jud.. Naka feel ko ana way back 1st yr college pako.. I've been cheated on.. Sakit au.. Then after pila ka balde hinilak, I vowed to myself na maypa ako nalang muuna og pahilak kesa ako napod pahilakon.. Serious au ko sa ko 1st and 2nd bf, nya pasakitan ra ko.. Ma.o to pag ika 3rd na, wa na.. Haha! Hantod after ni 3rd, never got serious na jd.. BUT now, minyo naman ko, karn pa ko serious balik sa akoa hubby..hehe

** Pero sa tinuod lang noh, wala baya japon ko salig sa akoa bana usahay.. Mahadlok ko mahappen nasad nga naa lain gurls.. Di na nako kaya masakitan pa.. Ma.o nang tawag nga trauma na sa serious relationships..pero saon ta man.. we have to be serious naman sad.. Gamble nalang jud ta ani.

it's just normal na wla ka salig sis...
maau gani ka k at least you're sort of expecting something to happen..
in my case, never expected HIM to cheat on me, all of a sudden boom, naa na!
i thought i was the luckiest chick on earth k i thought he's not the type to cheat, sheeet, so wrong diay..

[Wolfchild]

There are NO reasons, JUST excuses. Seriously, if you're not happy in a relationship then leave, noone deserves to get cheated on. If you don't want something serious then stay single, don't go using the "good girls/guys", cause then you're just being a big "C" word!

[psyrille_alphatrix]

some guys, if naa lang jud opportunity mucheat, igrab man nila... even if we think naa na nila tanan, wife/gf... sometimes, novelty is really exciting... It is not a disorder to cheat... It is part of man's innate curiosity to want to know what it feels like... same goes to girls... naa siguro uban nga loyal jud (opinion lang ha) maybe it's because they are afraid of the consequences if ever mucheat sila... But cheating is still a choice, it does not happen by accident... so people who do it, they have different reasons, most importantly "personal reasons" that predisposed them to doing it...

[treize]

di man ko ka relate ani... wahehehe...

[jeanrash]

I admit I cheated ones in my life but It doesn't mean that I'm already out of love with my partner abcourse I love him.. but sometimes you can't resist and thats the way I let go of my frustration...

[Blackjellybean27]

Most replies tend to lean toward the fact that they will cheat if their partner lacks something, be it s3xual or emotional...
just wondering if it's some kind of immaturity not being able to deal with it at hand??
my partner is not perfect, he's far from it... but still i don't cheat on him...
there may be other guys who ask me out, but it's never hard to resist them.. i mean i can always say no...
maybe i just have an impenetrable wall

[love'em,hate'em]

i'm a certified cheater, pagka sakpan, my gf broke up with me, and it got me saying, "what was i thinking...!?"
basically here are a few things that got me into this mess:
1. peer pressure, hanging out with the guys and eventually taking a girl home from a bar
2. office temptations. sometimes some girls are flirting and i didnt dare to say NO.
3. peer pressure again. i had the chance to cheat only, only when i'm with my BOYs. so maybe, maybe girls be extra careful when ure bf asks for " a boys night-out"
but hey, this is from personal experience and i'm not speaking in behalf of the cheating public

PS: kung wala pamo masakpi hinay hinay nalang mo ug usab. i never recovered after my gf broke up with me. i lost a bunch of mutual friends too..