NO FEELINGS INVOLVED: Just HORSING AROUND or CHEATING?

[anjerika]

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everyone seems to be flaming, er, the topic. hehe


maybe we didn't get your point. but don't take it too much. hehehe.
at the end of this discussion, we will still be good people.


grabe nga brainstorming ni, ni storm jud ang utok sa mga tawo. hahahahahahahaha

[butong101]

Ang tubag ani I agi natog logic:


I am horsing around. -(True)
Horsing around is cheating. -(True)


Ergo, I am cheating.

[blaise]

pero ang gisulti ni bro kay ang horsing di man daw cheating. hahahahahaha

[Peenut]

Please read from the very beginning... I said i'm sick and tired of reading all other nonsense
threads (no offense to other thread starters)..

Can you browse my threads in the Relationship section?
I don't think it's nonsense.

[Amicus Curiae]

Can you browse my threads in the Relationship section?
I don't think it's nonsense.

Hehehe I said all other nonsense threads... not all other threads!
There is a qualifying word "nonsense", it would have been different if i only said
all other threads... If you think your thread is not one of those, why react?

Besides, it is subjective... what may be nonsense for me, may be sensible for
others... just like this thread, you may not agree with me... but i will not take
pains trying to convince all of you here about my opinion... as simple as that!

That's what i'm saying all along... technically, there is a difference between those
words and phrases we use... normally, we just take their ordinary meaning...
Peace!

[devilsburger]

mga palakero ning in.ani na klase sa tao..d makonte ug usa...

[yvonne6]

You may not agree with me guys... but it is my personal opinion that if there's no
feelings involved, it is plainly horsing around... technically, it cannot be considered
as cheating...

There is a hairline (slight) difference between horsing around and cheating...
Sleeping with another person other than your partner is not cheating per se.
A typical example is one-night-stand, where there's no feelings involved (usually).
On the other hand, cheating is habitual... both parties invest feelings and stuffs
which is unfair to one's original partner... Technically speaking, horsing around
is one at a time whereas cheating is two-timing...


Disclaimer:
I'm not trying to justify something here, so please don't take it against me...
Just sick and tired of reading nonsense thread, i'm only trying to start a sensible
and intellectual discussion... (no offense to other TS, peace) hehehe

does this mean that u can understand and take it if your wife or gf slept with another man here and there and comes to you saying, honey, its nothing, its just plain s.e.x.? please answer

[dongkoyski]

hahahaha.. Well, lessons are learned here bro... If you make a thread dont compare it to other thread.. Second, it's a bad idea to put remarks on other's thread just to make your thread discreet. And third, it's not just justifying, it could also be CLARIFYING... But then again, it seems in this thread all are against it and only you are with it bro... so, any ENLIGHTENMENT for us bro? peace...

[disomniac]

guYs keeP it coOL lang ta ha..... poiNts taKen??


cge no morE coLd waR hehhehe

share2 lang .... -=)

[sHenZee03]

I do agree with the point insinuated by the TS. It makes good sense. However, loyalty pertains to a strong emotional and physical devotion towards a person known as your lover. People commit to a relationship to be exclusive. I find it illogical and nonsensical for others who are in a relationship to indulge in one-night stands or hardcore cheating because if they wanted to spend time, may it be sexually, with other people while they're committed to someone, then might as well remain single while they do so. We commit to a particular person and build a relationship with him/her for reasons such as to be exclusive for each other. There is no point in being in a relationship while lusting for others. If that's how they give meaning to the word loyalty in a relationship, they must be reading a different kind of dictionary.