will you leave him or not? Need advice..

[acecrystal]

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hala! self-pity on his part is apparent sis..but if his intentions are for you to think things more deeply, then that would be good... just be careful bcos those lines could sometimes mean " a man falls for another woman"..... just give him time,perhaps to see your worth again....

[aozora]

as the saying goes, you'll never know the value of a thing until you've lost it.

sakto ra ang iyang gibuhat. take it as a hard earned lesson for you from him. i commend your ex. he's a tough guy! i wish ingon ana tanan guys ug ako pud.

some would say nga dapat dli ka makigbuwag, but what's the sense kung ikaw ra? it really takes two to tango you know. let go for now girl and if i were you, i'll find another one to increase your chances of getting back. haha

[dOrangeNdPink]

keep urself occupied lang sa miss don't show him you want him back, he might think na you can't live without him, but do give hints that you still love him hold on for a short while and don't think about it... for now you can use this free time and space to think for yourself and at the same time observer him in a none stalking way XD heheheh

[monochromatic]

keep urself occupied lang sa miss don't show him you want him back, he might think na you can't live without him, but do give hints that you still love him hold on for a short while and don't think about it... for now you can use this free time and space to think for yourself and at the same time observer him in a none stalking way XD heheheh

i dont know what do to.
i want him back coz i know we still love each other.
lisud pa jd kaau kay classmate mi.

unfair pa jd kaau kay wala xa nkgbwag nko in person. sa text ra jd. I try to call him pero d jd motubag. Coz i know dli jd xa ka dare ug bwag nko kung mag.atubang mi.

I want him back kay sayang au amo pnagsamahan. I want to be with him since wala xay friends.

[oops20]

naa pa na chance sis kai classmate mo. don't lose hope. someday he'll realize. pero try to be better for the next chance.

[bolivar1985]

just ask him if mo surrender na siya,
i think tan-aw niya nimo kay imo lang siya gibinuangan, ikaw ra baya nag sulti mura raka wala sa 2years ninyo, kary makig buwag na siya diha pa ka naningkamot.

respect his decision...better yet,talk it personally.
from the start you should have shown him he is important to you.
sakto gyud gaba na ni.

[monochromatic]

naa pa na chance sis kai classmate mo. don't lose hope. someday he'll realize. pero try to be better for the next chance.

yeah. im still hoping nga mgblik pa mi.

[monochromatic]

just ask him if mo surrender na siya,
i think tan-aw niya nimo kay imo lang siya gibinuangan, ikaw ra baya nag sulti mura raka wala sa 2years ninyo, kary makig buwag na siya diha pa ka naningkamot.

respect his decision...better yet,talk it personally.
from the start you should have shown him he is important to you.
sakto gyud gaba na ni.

but the problem is dli xa mkgtalk sa ako, i tried calling him kay sa text ra mn mi ngbwag, dli jd ko nia 2bagon.

[sidlydon]

he has found another..............

[maddox_pitt]

Here's the story:

Im in a 3 years and 3 months relationship with him (alangan. hehe). First two years sa among relationship, mklaro jd nga inlove jd xa sa ako.a. He devoted his time to me, nagsacrifice pud cya para nko, he always send sweet messages even if wala koy load, sometimes iya ko paloadan para mgtext2 mi. Sometimes ra mn gud mi magtext2 since were classmates. Kapila na pud ko nakigbwag sa iya, nia d jd xa mosugot. Mkaingon jd ko nga inlove jd kaau xa sa ako ang ngpaka martyr jd xa. Nia ako? Wala lang. I mean nagsalig ba. Cge lang kog pasakit nia. I didnt realize his worth. I didnt show my love for him kay nagsalig lage.

Then ni abot sa point nga wala na jd xa kaagwanta sa ako, nkgbwag jd xa nia wala ko nsugot, that day na realize na nko iyang worth. (dugay kaau noh? abtan pag 2 years and pila ka months una ko nkarealize..).

From that day on, nabali na ang situation. Ako na pud ang cge'g gukod nia. Samtang cya? Wala lang. (nakabaws). Ma feel ghpon nko nga love ko nia coz e.show mn ghpon nia but dli na jd pareha sa una. (gaba na ni..)

Bsta bakasyon dli man mi magkta kay daghan mn xag buhaton sa ilaha kay cya my eldest and since puro cla laki ang mga buhaton sa balay ug sa tindahan nila naa niya. Sometimes, magguitar sad cya and maghimo ug mga electronics project for his guitar since engineering man mi.

Karon nga bakasyon, wa mi nagkta then wala pud mi ngtext2. Magtext man gani cya pero gm. Dli jd xa directly mgtext sa ako which is bad. Then ako, mo reply pd ko sa iya gm kay aron sad naa mi commu. Nia wala pud xa lami ktext murag y gana ba. So mao 2 galagot ko, wala na pd ko nitxt nia.

Nia kron ngtext2 mi, nia nangau xag sorry kay na left behind na daw ko. Nakonsensya daw xa. I ask him ngano iya ko g.ingon ana, then n.ana xa daghan lang jd daw xa gbuhat aron malingaw lang daw cya.

He keeps on saying sorry and love daw ghpon ko nia and mo ana xad cya nga wala jd daw xa au nga pagkauyab, maau lang daw cya sa saad, mas maau daw if byaan nko xa and mangita lang daw kog lain nga deserving sa ako. He also said nga he wants to begin a new life with me but mahadlok lang daw xa kay basin ma left behind na pud daw ko and d xa gnahan msakitan pud ko.

Actually, im his first girlfriend and he's also my first boyfriend.


Will i leave him or not? Please help. Im confused. I love him so much.


(Sorry, taas kaau nia mao ra diay na akong pangutana. )


Wala na jd ni. Buwag na mi. Just yesterday. I thought were okay, bt dli diay.

The Real Reason: (I just found out reason kay nisulti na jd xa. Mao jd diay ni ang reason. Iya lang g.himu excuse ang iyang lapses para dli daw ko maproblema.)

Naa xa dli gnahan nga batasan sa ako.
He want me to grow up and become a better person.

I want him back.
Pero if dli jd xa, dko mamugos.

if i were you...i'll still try to make it work