BROKEN HEARTED me. Need A little help here!

[sushikandi]

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Lex, there is no perfect relationship. It takes the both of you to make your relationship work. Judging by your story, she is preoccupied with work, especially with the company she is in. But we don't know what's her side of story. Just give her time to think things through. I'm pretty sure she loves you still, dili mana dali ma wala.

I suggest you give her space. That way, the two of you will have time to grow as a person and not stuck with each other and eventually realize some things. Lex, you should come out of your shell. There is more to life that being a loner. Go out, have fun! You seem to be a very nice guy, enjoy life!

[Lex]

@sushikandi: yes you're right..it takes two to tango as they say..i know she is preoccupied with her work..i can understand that..but the question is why does she have to make a hasty decision of breaking up with me?-that I can not fully comprehend..

thanks for your advice..it means a lot..

[bhea]

pray lang jud lex na naay kay strength na makaya nimo ni nga trial... it's not easy though to deal with but bear in mind that it's not yet the end of everything... people just come and go to teach us lessons and leave memories in our hearts...THAT'S LIFE!

[Lex]

@bhea: yeah that's what life is all about...life is a circle so to speak...=)

[chenggay!!!]

salute ko nimu sa imu pagiging faithful sa imu gf kay u don't want what happened sa imu own family to happen to u. there are a few nalang nga men who think like u jud.

yup only time can heal the wounds. but the scar will still be there. learn from it nalang and always remember nga everything happens for a reason. God must be preparing someone better than her for u. look forward to that thought then.

[Lex]

@chenggay!!!:yes the pain she'd caused me cuts like a knife..the scar will always remain in my heart..but ive forgiven her..there's no need for bitterness nor grudge..

right now, I'll just concentrate on my career..later nlang ang relationship when I am ready to fall again..=)

[im_insensiTive]

just savor the moment and the feeling coz once its gone.. it'll never come back.. and u always learn something from it.. so the next time it happens u will know what to do..

[miakka070]

Yes, I must admit that naa pud ko negative na attitude.. Possessive daw ko and insecure, selfish, then dli ko mu trust dayun sa tanan nya gipangsulti, plus demanding daw ko, and dli daw ko kasabot sa iya situation; but you know, bsan ing.ani ako batasan, I have loved her the best way I could.

<>ka relate kaayu ko ani nga part..mkita kaau nko ako self sa iya tn-aw nimoh..yep..tnan tao naai negative mnjud.. Ge lang bro..cguro ni dstance sya nimo pra anam2 ang sakit kung for good nman jud na n-u pgbuwag. Chillax lang..hang-out wit ur friends. If need nimo ko help jus PM me..k? ayu2 brod..evrythin's gonna be fine.

[Lex]

@im_insensitive: yes im takin' it one step at a time...slowly but surely..=) yes ive learned a lot from this break up and ive learned a lot from you guys..

THANKS!!!

[Lex]

@miakka070: thanks a lot for your concern...i'll still carry on...life is too short for misery..