NO FEELINGS INVOLVED: Just HORSING AROUND or CHEATING?

[Amicus Curiae]

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You may not agree with me guys... but it is my personal opinion that if there's no
feelings involved, it is plainly horsing around... technically, it cannot be considered
as cheating...

There is a hairline (slight) difference between horsing around and cheating...
Sleeping with another person other than your partner is not cheating per se.
A typical example is one-night-stand, where there's no feelings involved (usually).
On the other hand, cheating is habitual... both parties invest feelings and stuffs
which is unfair to one's original partner... Technically speaking, horsing around
is one at a time whereas cheating is two-timing...


Disclaimer:
I'm not trying to justify something here, so please don't take it against me...
Just sick and tired of reading nonsense thread, i'm only trying to start a sensible
and intellectual discussion... (no offense to other TS, peace) hehehe

[annerhexian]

I never heard the term "horsing around".. but does it apply to everybody?
pang animal mani gd na act and did.. horsing around..3
he just wanna have a dig but no emotions but only in a lustful way..
mm and one nite stand can be a great sample to this..

great great for an open mind but what about a close body?

hmmm dili kaha alkansi ang babae ani? just a thoughts.

let sayone nite stand scenario)

MONDAY : CHIX in JULIANA(month of MAY).
SUNDAY: chix in sto. nino(month of December last year)
SAT: CHIX in Starbucks ( month of August last year)
**********************************************
let sayone nite stand scenario)

MONDAY : GUY in JULIANA(month of MAY).
SUNDAY: GUY in sto. nino(month of December last year)
SAT: GUY in Starbucks ( month of August last year)
********* ing ani imo gusto sa imo partner ug ikaw? waheheheh nahan ka ani na scenario?



HAHAHAHA! so is this horsing around? oh comeone
whats the different of the these three woman u got intimate for a reason of having S.eX.

what does it differs from cheating - from horsing around?
what does it differs to HUMAN act?
still it involved samthing intimate things it is just not a habit.. but we are involved to different people.


i think none at all... HAHAHAHA

still these consider CHEATING from a partner esp if u are committed..
wat do u think of ur partner, 4 mating purposes only?

pero let me fill in with ur thoughts.. maybe I will understand more

[tenzor73p]

Na ay point si TS heheh pero i dont totally agree with him unfair man pd sa part sa partener heheh pero if you do it for the sake of humanly needs which cannot be fulfilled by your partner hahah or lets just say your not satisfied at least you didnt leave your partner for that problem hehe

[kurdapia.nikki]

Whatever horsing meant. It's still cheating.
As simple as that. There's nothing to debate about
nor discuss any further. HAHAHA.

[butong101]

No matter how we would call it, cheating or just horsing around, in any event it is still unfair to the other partner..

[kurdapia.nikki]

No matter how we would call it, cheating or just horsing around, in any event it is still unfair to the other partner..

True True.
Whatever thing we do behind our partners which we know
would hurt their feelings, is CHEATING.
Some call it horsing, flirting, whatever. Still CHEATING.

[butong101]

Even though I feel that doing those stuffz isn't fair to the other partner, I still believed that one way or another those stufz are inevitable to the couples survival.. Kailangan man sd mg crush2x – flirt2x sa girl (kun kaya pagamit sa lain..hehe) para ma rekindle iyang feelings sa iya uyab / husband.. puol kaayo kun dili.. hehe and mostly ang problema sa uban taw, ila i-stop ila na feel mao nga dali ra kaayo sapoton.. ang ending cgeg away na hinoon.. nothing is wrong in liking someone else aside from the rightful partner.. hehe

[Amicus Curiae]

Whatever horsing meant. It's still cheating.
As simple as that. There's nothing to debate about
nor discuss any further. HAHAHA.

There's a lot to talk about actually... Horsing around is purely sexual infidelity
whereas cheating, generally, constitutes both sexual and romantic/emotional
infidelities. There's a big difference between the two.

Romantic/emotional infidelity occurs when the cheater is, so to speak, while still
in a relationship with his/her original partner plays beautiful music with a new
partner... FEELINGS is involved in this case. You are CHEATING because you
maintain another relationship with another partner.

On the other hand, feelings is inexistent in one-night-stands. Sometimes, when
people horse around they don't even reveal their true identities (names, address
and stuffs)... Its NOT CHEATING because you don't give a damn about the other
person other than getting laid...

As I said, horsing around is occasional and casual whereas cheating is habitual.

But wait... before you react, i know, in both cases, its wrong... but for purposes
of discussion, let's put it this way... Which is more hurting, your partner maintaining
another relationship with someone? Or your partner engaging someone else, just to
while away his/her time?

[butong101]

There's a lot to talk about actually... Horsing around is purely sexual infidelity
whereas cheating, generally, constitutes both sexual and romantic/emotional
infidelities. There's a big difference between the two.

Romantic/emotional infidelity occurs when the cheater is, so to speak, while still
in a relationship with his/her original partner plays beautiful music with a new
partner... FEELINGS is involved in this case. You are CHEATING because you
maintain another relationship with another partner.

On the other hand, feelings is inexistent in one-night-stands. Sometimes, when
people horse around they don't even reveal their true identities (names, address
and stuffs)... Its NOT CHEATING because you don't give a damn about the other
person other than getting laid...

As I said, horsing around is occasional and casual whereas cheating is habitual.

But wait... before you react, i know, in both cases, its wrong... but for purposes
of discussion, let's put it this way... Which is more hurting, your partner maintaining
another relationship with someone? Or your partner engaging someone else, just to
while away his/her time?

i prefer the latter brad..

[joeyx2000]

both are still called immorality.