how to prepare yourself?

[urysei]

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how to prepare yourself if it is obvious that your relationship with your boyfriend is going to fall apart?

Of course you love him so much and been together for 3 years.

honestly there is no such thing as preparation for me,,,,,,
i could say so because i am on that chapter of the relationship right now..... he told me that the spark is gone, and why should i push knowing he does not have feelings for me anymore, i just suddenly felt that he became cold. it was and it is sad unfortunately i was so bad. i begged and knelt down and bargained to keep what ever we have. i even negotiated that it is ok for me for him to have someone else aside from me just so he won't leave me. i know i did not do the smart decision but it is what i think is better to make myself feel ok. it is really hard to prepare for a disaster like this, it is never easy. i don't know why but it really is one of the hardest thing to learn in life. this is not my first time but it always seems to the first one and i never get to learn this trick in this game called LOVE......

[disomniac]

there is no such trick but only magic and deceptions..

TS; moreover acceptance is the key right?.. so to make the long painful process of moving on and getting over short..

i would advised U to just try to cherish what U had,all those good memories and now is the right time to start...painful as it is, but that is reality.. as what they said there is no better preparation..

dli ra ikaw ang naka agi ana sis daghan na ta but then why man kaya nila kaya namo nya dli na nunnimo kayA??..

dont let it destroy urself but instead , make it a worthy experience... for that better someone in the future... -=)

[edliZjOhn]

ill probably...sit and then think for that day and make myself ready...bahalag lisod...haysT!

[jowee-chan]

try to make the relationship work and active and alive again..