What do you think of nosy parents?

[the Messenger]

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Nosy parents just need something to do. Maybe they're bored at home and require some exciting diversions. Let them in on your secrets; seek their opinion in some of your decisions; delegate some responsibilities to them... They just want to still feel important and needed (because they really are).

[kwoshunli]

parents are supposed to be nosy it's irritating pero i think that's how they are, kung di sila nosy, kita pud luoy

[Snowfly]

upp ta so that others can react too...........

[Soul Doctor]

Most people (if not all) keep skeletons in their closets. What if you have parents that go hunting for those skeletons?

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Think about the kind of parents that go through your personal stuff like your cellphone's inbox and pictures.
Parents that snoop around your room when you're away.
Parents that look at your camera and the pictures you took.
Parents that go through your emails if ever you left your account open.
Parents that listen on the other line when you get a phone call.
Parents that browse your iPod's content.
Parents that open your notebooks and see your not-paying-attention-in-class drawings.
Parents that go through your box of mushy recollection letters and read them.
Parents that look inside the contents of your wallet, especially the pictures. And maybe, something else.

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Let me hear your thoughts.

privacy is just a small price to pay for their concern.

Im a father too, and i want to know whats going on with my kid.
I have a 15 year old daughter who is in 4th yr high school before.
One time my daughter goes to school at 6:00 am.
Her class is 7:00 so I was suspicious.
So i spy on her.
I opened her friendster account
and found out she's online during those time before classes just to send friendster messages to a prospecting boyfriend.
I copied all her messages and showed it to her.

This is the reason why parents do the things they do.
To keep from teenagers from being distracted with other things like boys and technology.

She almost failed on her subject because she lost interest in studies because of boyfriends.
It took a while till she stopped thinking about boys and got serious with school again.

I laid the rules straight to her.
If you have boyfriends then you will stop schooling.

[YJOB]

soul doctor is right.
it all boils down to GUIDANCE.
in our modern world, there are so many temptations.
nagkalat ang mga scandal, mga porn, mga uyab uyab.

bisan early high school years di na virgin.
kung dili nimo imonitor imo anak, mao na lang imo mahibaw-an nga nahagbong na diay ang grado, nimabdos na diay, nainvolve na diay ug crime tungod sa barkada nga di mao.

in other words, teenagers today really need guidance.

not to mention Bloods & Crips.

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by the way, if there is a very good parent-child communication/relationship wherein open kaayo ang bata sa iyang mga problema ug sa iyang activities, then the parents might not need to be too nosy at all.

[gcc4426]

maka-irita sahay.
i know nga 'para sa kaayuhan ra namo ni' ,pero mura na man sd kag matuok kung sobra na.

[Snowfly]

I hope other children young and old could get the message through these inputs.

No parents in the right mind will put their children in trouble. Whats best for the family is their concern.

[chill_angel25]

sometimes maka bwesit sa pamilya, samot na buntag sayo!!!

[chenggay!!!]

yeah it sucks especially when they read ur unread letters. it's like u no longer have space for privacy. it wasn't addressed to them why read it grrrr....so annoying

[gcc4426]

^ i can really relate to this bfore ko nagrebelde.

manghilabot ug dli ilaha, mkasapot mulang. hastang kada lakaw pangutan-on asa ka. ma duol o layo. mura mag ig lakaw nato pulos lng kabuang ra atong buhaton.

nya kung clay manglakaw mayg pagpahibaw...nga dli jd raba.


pero human atong nilayas ko, nka amgo ra sila nga i need privacy ug space. dli tawn ko mabuhi anang naay cge ga monitor sa akoa.