NO MORE JEALOUSY (am i still in love?)

[iput_aspell_onya]

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i don't know if most of you have experienced this but i have really come to the point right now when i no longer got jealous with my boyfriend like i never really cared that much if who's with him if he's going out as long as he would just let me know that he'll be going out,
i dont care if he's flirting with other girls coz i know he wont take them seriously
if i saw him having comments with other girls in fb/fs, i had a little doubt but not to the point that im going to ask and argue with him,
i dont' know if i have build my trust on him already or maybe im falling out of love with him,
this is totally a different feeling unlike before we always end up quarreling because of jealousy and i cant help it because i love him..

i admit we've got issues before (infidelity and others) but we were able to resolve and fixed things out) and after that things for us we're going out smoothly
he's kinda change now, he cares a lot to me and sometimes he could sense that im cold to him
i dont' text him and call him that much now, he's always the one who made the effort
like i dont really miss him that much,
ive got other crushes and fantasize on dating on some other guyz but conscience would struck me coz i still respect him...i just really don't know what's happening with me....

[dropdeadgorgeous]

i no longer got jealous with my boyfriend like i never really cared that much if who's with him if he's going out as long as he would just let me know that he'll be going out,
i dont care if he's flirting with other girls coz i know he wont take them seriously
if i saw him having comments with other girls in fb/fs, i had a little doubt but not to the point that im going to ask and argue with him,

had the same experience... in my case, i don't easily get jealous which is not my usual self during my previous relationship... with my BF now, mas siya pa ang cge monitor nqoe, masuko if dili qoe motext and all... to me, it means i've become more mature now not to be easily jealous in little things like sa comments and stuff sa FS and FB...

its not that i'm falling out of love, it's just im giving him my trust it's up to him how he would live it! nara niya if magbinuang xa, basta nisalig qoe niya and that's it! in my case, nagtinarung manxad qoe niya...

[annerhexian]

hmmm wala ka namugnaw miss?
kana gd ice burg ang intensity.
pero sa commitment issue - aw wala jud issue..
committed man ka..
mora mn gd kag namugnaw jud...

signos nana?

ako mag selos jd ko.. hahhahaha!
my bad... pero dili nako ipakita

walk out queen or just HILOM or pahipi mode.

[ryeaka]

congratulations sis! hihi... bitaw, nice na... signs of maturity and confidence... i am never the jealous type... i trust my partner ako pa gani moingon laag sad oi... coz i know if magbinuang man xa, it will never be my loss but his...

[dropdeadgorgeous]

congratulations sis! hihi... bitaw, nice na... signs of maturity and confidence... i am never the jealous type... i trust my partner ako pa gani moingon laag sad oi... coz i know if magbinuang man xa, it will never be my loss but his...

i second the motion...

[azyle]

not being jealous dos not mean that you are not inlove or bugnaw na.

it just means na... you now are better in trusting your partner and secure ka sa standing sa inyo relationship. I am selosa, but sa lugar lang. bati man pud na nga tuk-on nimu or closely monitored
kaayo. I would let my partner grow... paeta pud.

well, just continue to trust him and yourself para healthy ang relationship...

[ryeaka]

@dropdeadgorgeous, thanks sis....

bitaw sad, lain man sad gud kung imo tuk-on... mas mogara man sila... pasagdahan gud... hihi

[iput_aspell_onya]

had the same experience... in my case, i don't easily get jealous which is not my usual self during my previous relationship... with my BF now, mas siya pa ang cge monitor nqoe, masuko if dili qoe motext and all... to me, it means i've become more mature now not to be easily jealous in little things like sa comments and stuff sa FS and FB...

its not that i'm falling out of love, it's just im giving him my trust it's up to him how he would live it! nara niya if magbinuang xa, basta nisalig qoe niya and that's it! in my case, nagtinarung manxad qoe niya...

heheh...we have the same mindset now na, bahalag magbinuang xa, basta salig ko niya and if ever binuang xa , aw sakit xa pero dli nako mangigi niya..im willing to let go..unlike before na grabeh ka possesive..heheh gamay bikil asus away jud mao ng tanan comments niya sa FS before kato uso pa hurot niya ug delete..hehehe...

ana man jud ko mainluv gud mao nag wonder ko, and then dli nasad ko mingawon kaayo if for 1 week dli me magkita kai parehas nman me work, ok ra ko text lang d na perahas saona...mao na sahay makaask ko, wa ba kaha me napul-e, pero f napul-an me, y cant we let each other go man pod, and then kanang feeling nga ok ra ko maglaag more often together wth friends than with him
honestly mas ma enjoy nako sa laag with a group of friends
mura man ako mindset ron single kow
but he's always here man pod paramdam prmi...to remind me always

maybe ur ryt sis, this is just a sign of maturity na guro

[iput_aspell_onya]

hmmm wala ka namugnaw miss?
kana gd ice burg ang intensity.
pero sa commitment issue - aw wala jud issue..
committed man ka..
mora mn gd kag namugnaw jud...

signos nana?

ako mag selos jd ko.. hahhahaha!
my bad... pero dili nako ipakita

walk out queen or just HILOM or pahipi mode.

mao sad na ako nabantayan sa ako self
mura kog namugnaw na, like i dont even think of him more often
pero still happy man sad ko at times when were together
his presence still means a lot pero unlike gyud before na grabeh ang intesity sa feeling
na ur always excited to see him

maselos man ko sis but not to the point na things will turn out to a blast
wa lang theres a twinge of jealousy but kebz nalang
d nako ma highblood unlike before na pakita jud nako niya nga gesapot ko
ratatat dayon ang show...
ahahahahahhaahahah!

[iput_aspell_onya]

not being jealous dos not mean that you are not inlove or bugnaw na.

it just means na... you now are better in trusting your partner and secure ka sa standing sa inyo relationship. I am selosa, but sa lugar lang. bati man pud na nga tuk-on nimu or closely monitored
kaayo. I would let my partner grow... paeta pud.

well, just continue to trust him and yourself para healthy ang relationship...

thanks sis, that's the point pod
i have realized also lately that a relationship is much prone to break up f cge selos selos
coz now na we no longer have intense jealousy issues, no arguments
there are no worries na, no attempts of breaking up..hehehe...

i hope this is a sign of a healthy relationship