need help with this

[affascinare16]

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hi, guys.. i have this stupid problem.. actually i don't really know how you call this.. am still new when it comes to relationships but there's this person whom i really like.. he's not that good looking, really but what i like about this person is that he can make me laugh without doing anything..and when he laughs, you could tell the whole world will laugh with him.. he always teases me and is always there when i needed help.. unfortunately, it's just it.. it can't go far or can't go to the next level. he made it very clear that he is not open to relationships right now..even though he doesn't know how i feel, it's clear that he is avoiding the fact that i might be attracted to him.. we are always together.. i see him most days of the week..now, i'm confused, should i continue liking him or should i just stop.. really, it just hurts knowing that he's not seeing me the way i see him..

[coco_psy-co]

cont. to b with him..if u say n u'l stop lyking him, then kelangan jud nmo mulayo..question s kya na ba nmo? and nganu mulayo ka if both of u are obviosly not sure of wat u feel..

i hav a feeling na giingon lng to nya ky basin maicp nmo n gnagamit nya inyo closness for sumthing more to come..suspcion lng hnoun nko..la mn gud ko kblo s hol detail..

just continue kung asa ka hapi..

[pablingz]

hi, guys.. i have this stupid problem.. actually i don't really know how you call this.. am still new when it comes to relationships but there's this person whom i really like.. he's not that good looking, really but what i like about this person is that he can make me laugh without doing anything..and when he laughs, you could tell the whole world will laugh with him.. he always teases me and is always there when i needed help.. unfortunately, it's just it.. it can't go far or can't go to the next level. he made it very clear that he is not open to relationships right now..even though he doesn't know how i feel, it's clear that he is avoiding the fact that i might be attracted to him.. we are always together.. i see him most days of the week..now, i'm confused, should i continue liking him or should i just stop.. really, it just hurts knowing that he's not seeing me the way i see him..

dont stop liking him girl coz the moment you do maguba tanan. what you can do is respect kung unsa iya desisyon, if di pa siya ganahan then ayaw lang sa pugsa. ang love kay pareha rana ug tanom, kinahanglan i-nurture para mo live longer. just be with him as a friend and enjoy his company. dili man jud kinahanglan mo level up ang relationship para mo show ug love. i understand girl kung unsa na love imu na feel karon but the thing is dili paman ready ang isa so respeto lang sa ta. eventually magkadevelopay ra nya mo duha. you didnt mention man sad if nganu dili siya open sa in-ana na relationship so we really dont know kung nganu. just be with him, just the way it is right now. ayaw ka feel ug sadness or feel down or maybe malain imu tagad niya, normal lang girl. i know lisud jud but kaya ra na nimu ui. ipa feel niya na special siya nimu BUT ayaw ipa obvious lang sa na you love him kay di pa raba siya ready.

[ayki]

just continue to be friends with him. basin dle pa siya open for a relationship kay basin bag-o pa sab siya na heartbroken... or maybe hadlok siya ug commitment.. but since he still hangs out with you and enjoy your company, that shows that he likes you but is just not brave enough to get into a relationship that will turn out to be like his last one. basin gusto siya dle mo duha ma hurt in the end kay murag double hit. if mag ka uyab man gani mo then mag bulag lang.. then it turns out to be a hurtful break-up...dle lang kay mawad-an siya ug uyab but a friend as well. maybe he is just not ready to take the risk.
then for your situation.. ayaw lang sa ug palabi ug like2. for now, kalma lang. ahahaha. sabta lang sa siya.. settle lang sa nga for now, friends lang sa jud ang inyo relationship.. maybe you'll get to the girlfriend/boyfriend relationship.. but ayaw lang sab pag dahum.

[camille_16]

if i were you,
continue lng...

BUT!
ayaw pagExpect of something else para dli ka masakitan..

anyway, pag-enjoy lng sa mga moments nga kuyog mo..

[tylerdurden]

ultimatum-ize him

tell him you like him and you want to be more than friends. if he can't give you that, you will then have to let him go. obviously, this will break the current stalemate. either you will become a couple or you will lose a friend. either way, the current situation is resolved.

like they say, if you love someone, set him free, if they come back again then it's meant to be. if not, well, how arrogant of you to think you can OWN someone!

[affascinare16]

cont. to b with him..if u say n u'l stop lyking him, then kelangan jud nmo mulayo..question s kya na ba nmo? and nganu mulayo ka if both of u are obviosly not sure of wat u feel..

i hav a feeling na giingon lng to nya ky basin maicp nmo n gnagamit nya inyo closness for sumthing more to come..suspcion lng hnoun nko..la mn gud ko kblo s hol detail..

just continue kung asa ka hapi..

i hope makaya pa nako nga magkuyog mi pirme nya d ma.obvious ang feeling.. i mean, lisod man jud itago, dba? mao sad na akong likayan.. d ko ganahan nga mausab iyang pagtan-aw nako..

[camille_16]

i hope makaya pa nako nga magkuyog mi pirme nya d ma.obvious ang feeling.. i mean, lisod man jud itago, dba? mao sad na akong likayan.. d ko ganahan nga mausab iyang pagtan-aw nako..

kung gusto jud ka nga li mausab ang iyang tagad towards nimo, then you should control yourself...

PS
dli nako kasend og PM nimo,
please delete some of your inbox or sent msgs..

[babypaupau]

i think he's gay or maybe a closet gay.

listen closely to you gay-dar, maybe then you will see the light.

[maddox_pitt]

pwede ba na? stop liking him? just my opinion, you just can't stop liking somebody or falling for somebody kay it comes down naturally dba?

pero, since you're good friends naman, uhmnn, you can still continue to enjoy his company...who knows where it might lead? basin niingon ra xa ato just to mislead u pero in the end kamo ghapon, dba? there are a lot of possibilities..what's impt now is you enjoy every minute you spend with him..