Do you agree with this?

[sassy_gurL]

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My mum told me man gud. If a girl is Tarong, she will say no if invited to the home.
No matter the intention. may it be goin there to watch a movie, do assignments, whatever it is. the answer must be. "No thanks"

bsin ing-ani sad ug kinaiya imong mum, taas nig standards imong mama.. but try to be open-minded lang bro, di lang man kay kana ra ang way to show how much you respect a woman..akong parents man gni malipay pa na muadto akong amigo sa amo aron mas ma-ila-ila nila.. kesa naman daw aha ko mag laag-laag, mas maayo pa daw nga sa balay nalang.

[annerhexian]

IF tarung jud ang girl..


THERE is always a A YES or NO.

an invitation of a home is alright labi na if projects jud..

but when a guy is asking some hanky panky thing na hasta imong otok dili mo uyon.
U can say "YES" or "NO" but not both of it.

i hope i can make sense.

[granz]

I think that, if you respect the opposite ***( which is ur crush or girlfriend/boyfriend) you should not invite him/her to your home to spend time (unless ur neighbours) .

- para sa ako ok raman cguro, depende kng unsay buhaton... pero f imong e based sa mga tan.aw sa taw, lain gd f ang babae ang mo adto sa haus sa lalaki... pero f importante gd kaayo or met d parents, den y not!... hehehehe

[simple_girl]

My mum told me man gud. If a girl is Tarong, she will say no if invited to the home.
No matter the intention. may it be goin there to watch a movie, do assignments, whatever it is. the answer must be. "No thanks"

So meaning ana sa imo invite just to test the girl if she is good? This is not right. Daw mura respetar ug invite.

Kung ganahan ka sa girl then mo ingon siya na mo adto siya sa inyo then meaning ana dili siya Tarong. then dili siya para nimo cause your mum told you so.

You will never know the person if dili nimo siya kuyogon sa mga close nimo. hehhee....

[robstaman]

ok ra nko muadto si girl sa balay ni boy basta na lain taw sa balay....

[gtx1]

Bro, it depends on your intention. Kung tarong ang girl, nya maka-sense cya na dili wholesome imo intention then she would say no. But otherwise, you can just hang-out with your gal, play couch potato and watch movies, stargazing, play console or pc games, do homeworks, or you can cook for her or vice versa and have a hearty meal, those kinds of stuff. Mas maayo gani inviton nimo cya when your parents are around.

[aozora]

in my opinion, it depends where you are coming at (your position) when you make an invite.

kung gf for many months na, i think it's okay to invite over sa house. you are not disrespectful in this case. but i prefer to wait for her to open it up or ask me.

kung crush (or someone you're in love pero dli pa kamo) then imo invite sa inyong house, you're RIGHT! that's you disrespecting. it reflects how decent you are. bisag unsa pana imong tuyo or tumong. you don't know her yet(she's a stranger) and you're just putting her in a difficult situation. but kung iyaha nga idea, why not?! basta lang maayo iyang intentions ug kana sad nga dli ka ma badshot.

if the stranger GIRL says YES to your invite, possible dli cya TARONG but why would she refuse an offer from someone like john loyd? hahaha... naa pud tarong nga matental noh?, just plain weak! but if john loyd is decent enough, he wouldn't think of inviting a stranger to his house.

Just to test her? either way it's your disadvantage. if she answers NO, she might be TARONG but you will be viewed as DLI TARONG.

Kung nahibaw-an nimo sa lain nga ni adto cya sa guy's house, it's just you being jealous!

the safest thing to do is not to invite but wait for her suggesting it. any violet reaction? hihihihi

BTW, sa lalaki ni nga perspective and i'm not generalizing.

[coco_psy-co]

personally, ako conservativ man ko [hehehe]..depende jud na s imo intention..depende sa reaction sa imo parents..u wudn't want ur loveone to be humiliated right?..lyk 4 xample, bago p inyo relatinship and gi-invyt nmo ang girl sa inyo unya di 2 ky la p kaila imo parents nya, mashock jud cla ui..samot ang ermats ky muingon daun na nga lay dlekadsa ang bae..wat i'm trying 2 say is invyting sum1 to ur home is SERIOUS..i men, seryoso n jud nang inyo, inyo parents aware na s inyo relationship..

if a man & a woman thinks that they'r mature enaf to comit to a relationship, then i think they must be smart enaf to accept d consequences of thier actions..

[Peenut]

Not in our genre.

[azyle]

depende ra jud na sa sitwasyon,

- if kamu dugay namu... of course dapat lang na ma get to know nimu ang family sa usa't usa. inviting the other person sa home would be OK and acceptable kung naa laing tao or naa bah family affair ( like bday NMU )

- if asa mu coming from... if nag gikan mo sa conservative na family, dili nalang dali-un daliun ug invite sa home. eat out sa with family. hinay hinay pajud... una, with siblings, then f go signal..... PARENTS dayun.