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[zzexniwp312]

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Doc ako amigo mag pa tambag daw.. hehe if pwede??..

ani man gud iya probz daw..


he has this girl nga kaduha nag two time pero iya gihapon ge dawat kay kay Love lge iya sad ge pangutana nga
what if mo cheat napud ka??.. nya ni ana man ang girl nga Past is past daw dili na to mabuhat
kay mahadlok daw xa mwala niya ang akong amigo.. love daw kaayo niya akong amigo sya ang pinakadugay, sya daw ang first kiss sa girl..

then time comes nga mag outing ang girl kuyog iya mga ka batch sauna pag HS nya na hadlok sya
pakuyogon ni kay tood naa iyang Ex sa girl ngad2..

unsa daw ang angay niya buhaton angay ba sya mag worried??

[DocLove]

Doc ako amigo mag pa tambag daw.. hehe if pwede??..

ani man gud iya probz daw..


he has this girl nga kaduha nag two time pero iya gihapon ge dawat kay kay Love lge iya sad ge pangutana nga
what if mo cheat napud ka??.. nya ni ana man ang girl nga Past is past daw dili na to mabuhat
kay mahadlok daw xa mwala niya ang akong amigo.. love daw kaayo niya akong amigo sya ang pinakadugay, sya daw ang first kiss sa girl..

then time comes nga mag outing ang girl kuyog iya mga ka batch sauna pag HS nya na hadlok sya
pakuyogon ni kay tood naa iyang Ex sa girl ngad2..

unsa daw ang angay niya buhaton angay ba sya mag worried??

Sorry for the late reply. Somehow bro love man pud siguro sa girl ang imong friend kay nganong makig-uli man gyud sya nga pwede man sya mouban na lang ngadto sa guy, di ba? Then ingna imong frined that he doesn't have to worry kahit na sumama ang GF nya sa mga batchmates nya. Kapag nagloko ang girl eh pasalamat pa ang friend mo na habang maaga ay nakilala nya na ang totoong kulay ng GF nya, di ba? Sige, set her free, sabi nga nila if she comes back eh di sayo sya.

[DocLove]

Seems like nobody has a problem with their relationships nowadays. Anybody would like to share?

[beyee]

I have one...

How can you convince someone who is so hung up on his/her ex to move on and forget about him/her... and better he/she transfers the affection to you?

[Blackjellybean27]

Me likey this thread!

Was reading on your topic about cheating... specifically this one: "if a person feels either consciously or subconsciously that they are not nice enough to deserve such a wonderful person in their life as you, and feels unworthy of all the good things the relationship provides, or that life offers in general, the underlying response to that feeling can be cheating and the destruction of healthy relationships."

is it really true? i mean, somehow i agree.. but i dont know if i should fool myself into believing that maybe he's just feeling unworthy of me. plus, he knows how much i am into him (meaning in love! hehe)... i know he's not "physically" cheating on me... what i mean is, the only time we're apart is when he goes off to work. so it would be impossible for him to cheat on me with another woman, not unless he skips work (but i don't think that would be possible as well, 'cause he's not the type to skip work for that kind of thing...) but he's texting women and chatting with women online, which i told him is cheating for me... recently, i also found out that he actually searched on google "s3x eyeball in cebu".. what gives? i honestly KNOW (caps lock un ha) that i don't have any shortcomings. he is loved, he is cared for, his physical needs are fulfilled (and satisfied of course!i have to include that 'cause it's an impt aspect in this question) etc etc etc. He's also got the tendency to "play when the cat is away"... I am selosa, but I don't choke him. meaning, my pagka selosa is just right, just the usual limitations like dont text other women unless they're business related, work related, friends (real friends ha) of course...
Do you think it's true that he's just feeling unworthy of me? That he needs some other woman to assure him that he's as desirable to others as he is to me... Would it be so kapal of me to think like that? This problem is like an off and on thing. Like it goes off for a while, then comes back again. I really don't understand him, and I am really sick and tired of talking to him about this, coz it's like balik2x again. same problem, same thing happening. I can't leave him, and won't leave him because of something as little as that. So help, doclove! I don't really know what to do at this point.

[aozora]

Blackjellybean27, pardon me sharing my thoughts about your dilemma. And also to DocLove kay he created this thread. (by any means i'm not hijacking this thread, doc. hihihi)

I was reading the entries of DocLove a while ago, and this line of his struck me too and I believe this is true (at least for me nga naka experience in real life sa ingon ani nga situation),
"if a person feels either consciously or subconsciously that they are not nice enough to deserve such a wonderful person in their life as you, and feels unworthy of all the good things the relationship provides, or that life offers in general, the underlying response to that feeling can be cheating and the destruction of healthy relationships."

The girl I've dated said this during in one of our dates, "lucky daw ang girl nga akong ma uyab or ma asawa". For me, that was a very BIG clue (she just subconsciously talked) about her interest towards me. Then I realized that she felt guilty because I did all good things to her but she could not respond or reciprocate with them. (why is that possible? see bottom line) That was fist unexplainable to me but not anymore.

Somehow, cheating can be attributed to the (cheating) person's feelings of guilt and having a weak (character).

Guilt, like the girl in my case, a feeling that she is not deserving by which she subconsciously tells me. (or maybe consciously but it was just me who is not paying attention)

WEAK, in a sense that your partner couldn't tell you the truth upfront, afraid that the truth could hurt your feelings and could eventually loose you (including all the support and caring you're giving). (lain pud to ang WEAK nga easily gets tempted.)

As a result, your partner will cheat and will not tell you that he is in love or having an affair with someone. You're just the last one to know.

To bottom line everything, your partner really does not love you if he/she cheats.


But let's wait for DocLove's prescription.

[Blackjellybean27]

Thanks for your advice bro. I appreciate it. I'll wait pod for doclove. murag busy ang life sa doctor. hehe.

[nissanpatrol]

any update on this thread doc love?