MY FRIEND's DILEMMA: His 1st Love & Morality Issues

[annerhexian]

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I have this friend of mine whom he shared to me his dilemma on his first love and present situation he have.

During his higschool days, this friend of mine courted his first love.
He courted her for about 3 months plus till they become an official bf.gf relationship.
And after a week, they split out for a no valid reason and my friend got hurt in the process,
till ni grad ang girl.. na minyu ug HAPON and living a life in Japan.


Then last night daw, ni search iyang ex(gf nea pag hiskol) sa fb.
till nakit an niya akong friend sa fb and viola G add jud nea.
Nahibulong na lang akong friend kay naa ni chat niya as if they know each other for so long..till
pag tan aw nea sa pix.. sus ang iyang first love haunts him back.. and literally want him back as well.
Divorced naman ang first love nea. chat2 cla till ni ana ang first love niya na INLOVE pa cea sa akong friend.
Mouli ang girl para daw sa akong friend.Kay nag mahay ang babae na gibuhian nea akong friend sauna.

but my friend status is single but have a live in partner karon.
ANd my friend was tempted to tilaw sa girl pero way plano seryu so on.
Ok ra man sa first love niya(kato na girl naa sa japan) na ikaduha cea.
Asa ka ana? windang akong amigo oi! hahhaha Nahan cea sa girl pero not feelings but only in physical terms.
Love sa akong amigo ang present niya karon- katong live in partner niya pero
nahan cea motilaw sa iyang first love...


Now he seek some advices to me..!
you know, unsa ako g advice nea..
for me I cant tolerate my friends decision if and only if, makig roll to bed cea sa iyang first love.
Kinsa gd ko para mo ingon neag dili na in the first place.
HIS LEGALLY SINGLE. Yes committed cea pero single jud cea na laki, kay wala pa cea legally na kasal.
Objectively speaking,
My friend has freedom of choice to go get his first love for physical terms but in a discreet way..but make sure to itna walay feelings involved.. so there shud be a timeline for everything.
Once tasted, magpangita baya.Mao hinay hinay jud..
mao ana ko niya.. sguruon jud nea na if mo tilaw ceag lain putahi..
and consenting adult na siya og kato na girl..bsta honest lang jud cea sa girl katong first love nea unsay REAL CATCH.
din kahebalo cea sa consequences..
and as far as i know jud...
its a matter of choice.. and a matter of things...
Morality issues? why fuss it to my friend when in fact his SINGLE.
EMOTIONALLY ISSUES? well, cea na mag igo ana.
KARMA issues? well, do u believe un it?



hahaha, if ur in my shoe as an advisor.. for sure. daghn mo patay sa akong paga likoy ug otok.
pero mao na akong na hunahuna an..

If youre the guy... the first love.....the live in partner... and as me.. unsa inyung buhaton be?

[cptn_star]

single lagi imo frnd pero taken man....still not an excuse to make TILAW....hastilan...

[annerhexian]

its not an excuse.. this is basing reality and human's nature as a boy..

ikaw bay ingnon sa babae(katong first love nmo na..)

niingon nga nagmahay sya nya gusto makigbalik sa akong migo bhala na naa toy live in partner katong sokoya..

nea, dont tell.. u still live on a saintLy life?

[friedrich]

naa na man diay cya ka live-in and love pa jd niya. ngano mutilaw pa man ug lain. better tell your friend to check his conscience first for the answer of his dilemma.

PS. ask him this too: unsa kaha iya buhaton and ma-feel if makahibaw cya nga ang iya ka live-in karon ky gitilawan sa lain lalaki right at this very moment, let's just say sa ex pod sa iyang live in partner?.

PPS. karma? even if he doesn't believe, better be afraid of it. It hurts big time, i think.

[bastywarts]

unsa mana nga gesture oy..no offense ha..2 words..plain stupid.

the fact nga naa cyay ka live in partner,nganu makig tilaw paman cya ug lain??huna hunaa gud..ganahan ba xa iyang ka live in partner makig tilaw sad ug lain??unfair kaayu sa part sa girl oy..ang karma raba 10 folds jud na inig balik,mutuo jud ko ani..

resulta ani,kay makibaw.an nuon na sah ka live in partner,then buwag cla..sayang..kay love man kaha niya ang girl..tsk2x

imu jud ning friend??ahhhuuuuuuuuuuuuuummmmmmmmmm..hehehe..or ikaw?haha

[the Messenger]

There's definitely neither "love" nor "morality" involved there. Please tell your friend to use his head and not his balls. Sheesh.

[cptn_star]

its not an excuse.. this is basing reality and human's nature as a boy..

ikaw bay ingnon sa babae(katong first love nmo na..)

niingon nga nagmahay sya nya gusto makigbalik sa akong migo bhala na naa toy live in partner katong sokoya..

nea, dont tell.. u still live on a saintLy life?

kng mao na, magpili siya asa siya modapig...dili mahimo nang tilawan...kng tilaw ra iya gusto uwag na'y tawag ana, dili first love...

[akosabni]

boo.hata ang unsay a.ngay buhaton

no regrets ....

[annerhexian]

kng mao na, magpili siya asa siya modapig...dili mahimo nang tilawan...kng tilaw ra iya gusto uwag na'y tawag ana, dili first love...

mao bitaw ni ana ko in physical term ra cea.
meaning,makig hilawas ra cea sa eyang first love.
Hay.. its was used.. "I was used to fall for that person"
see? USED.. meaning.. sauna ra..

sowi if i used first love.. i dont know the name of the girl..


DILI na niya lab ang girl brad.. and never was as of today momentum..

[heavenknws]

boo.hata ang unsay a.ngay buhaton

no regrets ....

hahah mao jud buhaton ang angay buhaton.......go for it ang babaye naman kahay nihagad..... tagae lang ug usa ka gabie payts na na