No S3X, NO BF - Im Gay, Workaholic & Business Minded

[Property Consultant Bisoy]

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Hi Everyone,

Let me introduce myself, first things first: I'M GAY! Discreet, dili obvious ug serious ang dating.

Nagbuwag mi sa akong BF tungod kay murag sobra ra kaayo ka seryos among relationship, everyday mi magkuyog, even his family accepts our relationship. We can say, it's every gays dream to be accepted by a guy's family. Close ko sa iyang mom and siblings (buwag iyang parents). Wala'y 3rd party among pagbuwag, I clearly told him nga murag I miss doing the things I love to do when I was single. Sala pud cguro nako coz I pamper him so much, not financially but tenderly and we had a simple relationship, pirmi ra mi naa sa balay namo or sometimes sa ilaha. adto ra mi mall or internet cafes, then church and kuyog2x siya sa akong farm. No vices, no group laag...as in naa ra mi most of the time sa house.

I know na hurt nako siya coz wala siya'y sala, I just felt nga murag nag evolve ra among life sa usa'g-usa. Lupig pa ang magti-ayon.

Now that I'm back to singlehood, I'm doing all the stuff I love doing, mostly man gud puro negosyo ug work akong mga tripping, unlike other gays, puro bars, disco, rampa or one night stands!!!

since nagbuwag mi sa akong BF last January 2010, until now wala pa ko katilaw ug *** or even flirt2x lang sa mga guys...Straight forward man gud ko when it comes to dreams and ambitions. I'm happy coz day by day I make all my plans come true. I'm successful at work and in my businesses. I gained more friends, I meet all types of people and befriend them.

Friends mo ron sa akong XBF, naa na siya'y lain, GF na iyaha karon. ok ra pud nako atleast dili na siya suko nako nga nagbuwag mi. ang pinakasakit lang is until now iyang mama wala jud gidawat ang iyang GF, dili paadtoon sa ilaha ug cge lang gihapon ug dahom magkabalik mi sa akong XBF. It pinches my heart everytime his mom texts me saying she misses me.

I dunno ha, syempre tao ra pud ko, I sometimes feel in need of someone to hug or to hold, prangka pagkasulti I need to release my stress by having *** pud with a guy pero dili man pud ko anang one night stand woie. Siguro lisod jud pangitaon ang guy nga makasabot sa akong mga ambitions ug pagka workaholic, syempre gamay ra akong time for the relationship. But I'm still not giving up, Im just waiting for the right moment to meet that guy who will fulfill my needs and who will love me for loving what I do....

Your comments, suggestions or recommendations of a guy would be appreciated...

[DeathFox]

[Su-Hae]

its okay, you'll find a guy who will love u..but be sure that guy is not taking advantge of you!

[mystes]

murag sad kag babae jud.. kwangan nalang nmo ma tinuod jud na "fairy".
bitaw, i think ur work and ur life pressured u alot that u wanted samthing in return to let go of stress.

and u dont want to tangle with one night stand neither a skin to skin kontak for a week or 2s?
No fling as well right? No nothing.. that when u go home... u just watch TV after ur day of labor.
Whew! that can be stressing really..

But why not try to go to places. Travel cebu in a weekend or 2.
I think, *** is never an answered for ur wants.. coz if *** pa na.. ni buhat na jud ka ana..
Dili sad ka hilig nite life sa? so dili jud ka prone ug one nite stand for that matter.

AKO ma recommend lang sa?
Be with friends. Enjoy what you have right now.
Expose ur self to different people.
Mingle different personality.
Loosen up something. Pamper your self.
Be with nature. means - Go out!
have a weekend getaway.. hahahha
mao na ako buhaton sahay.
if im bored with life and work, study and work.
I go out with my self somewhere south
and have nature enveloped my system..

quiet fine for a girl like me.
haahaha

single ug nagpabilin single,
mystes

[jblim1980]

enjoy life to the fullest why were still alive..be with your friends or family,mingle with them or go to the beach or bsag asa nga hilig nimo...

[tamse]

hmm.. same here pero di ko gay ha..baje ko murag na workaholic ko ever since i started working karn kay nag tinapol na..mayra sad kay murag wa jud ko nalingaw sa ako life.. sometimes we must stop and enjoy life muna.... money is not the answer for everything..so, enjoy life!!! cheers!!

[maddox_pitt]

most of my classmates are discreet gays too and before i met them, i thought these kinds of relationships were impossible... pero now, my mind is more open to it and karon pako kakita ug gay relationship na ang duha kay professional, way huthutan ug kwarta and for sure they too are in love..
kaw ts, sayang you let go of your partner, nice sana... pero ok rana, you'll find the right guy for you soon.....
pero it's not advisable for you to go for one night stands...lab-i na dako na ang rate sa HIV/other STDs diri sa pinas...kuyaw....
divert your attention to something else na lang...

[mhaw]

og dli para imu dli jd, maka kita ra lagi ka samday!

[jowee-chan]

bitaw, kung ako ang naa sa imong position, magmahay jood ko kung nganu ako xang gbuwagan. its nice that you didnt feel any regrets. pero mao pood lage, nagpangita ka.

makakita ra ka yadz. aie lang ug kakapoi sa paghuwat. aie lang jood.

[emailroy2002]

hahaha hilak na or suka? or both? lol.