Pobre ra man mi sir, maam...

[classicrock]

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nindot ni kay mag pa buhi rata sa uyab if datu kaau sila.. Hahahaha.. Pro maningkamot pud ta oi nga mka trabaho para walay mang boyboy.. hehehe..

[beyee]

OT: love ur story snowfly

[maddox_pitt]

I cant wait till my husband could read this thread hehe....na kilig baya ko nga naka hinumdum!

Okay, I met my husband when I was still first yr.h.s.in an exclusive school for girls. He is a self supporting college student here in Cebu.

During vacation time he worked w/ his papa as a laborer w/ a P6/day salary at our farms irrigation system. My dad was a District Engr. in our province that time and mom is the principal at the elem. school. He courted me the old fashioned way,,,yan ang uso noon,,,,love letters, fruits or peanut kisses,flowers and harana at night.

I admired his sincerity and most of all his being a hardworker,,,,and I told him to follow his dreams and just come back when he is already prepared para walang masabi ang parents ko coz my family knew him in a different eye.... as barkadista, pala inum and bugoy bec. of their status in life.

Iya diay to nga gi timan an akong gi sulti. I Had lots of admirers then, but my goals are my priority. Wala na mi communication for 5 and a half yrs. after that,,,,but.......

One day, I received an overseas call from him that he is arriving and requested to meet him at the airport. Syempre, I was very excited. I was wearing my white uniform coz gikan ga duty, actually, wala nako maka ila niya coz he is very desente na jud,,,,then suddenly somebody hugged my back,,,ohhh God nag kurog kurog jud ko kay wala ko maka sabot sa akong feelings when I saw him again.....and dili man pud mi uyab baya.

When we were already at the car, he held my very cold hands and said,,,,," will you marry me? I wont take No for an answer".........Gosh!
.....and to make the long story short, I am happily married now to the best husband ive ever known, we got 3 professional children already and 1 still in 3rd yr.college, we both traveled around the world bec. of his job and a business too that can sustain all our needs and wants in life.
Am just sharing this to give some ideas/insights that - Our status in life pobre ka man or mayaman, is never a hindrance nor an assurance to reach our goals in life. How we take Life is often dictated by what priorities we have, and Life being so vast, offers everything!!!!

ka.cute sad ani mam hehe
mahinumdom man q sa akog ginikanan sad..
my mom came from a prominent family in our province.. her parents were district supervisors and had a vast land (hectares2x jud na basakan and fish pond.. even the land where the house of my grands stand is about more than 1000sq.m.) to support their big family...since my mom was the youngest girl her elder brothers and sisters were already professionals..nanay pari, lawyer, teachers etc.... while my dad was this poor kid who was partly raised by his great-aunt and was the "runner" in the house... boy jud xa sa iyang iyaan... niya mamaligya xa ug pagkaon inigbuntag...
sometimes, he and his barkadas would get inside my mom's compound to play basketball... yun pla he was eyeing on her na... pero that time he was no one...
years later my dad moved to manila (where my lola was) and became a working student... my mom also went to study in manila for her BS Chem..pero they never saw each other again until years later, my dad was already a civil and sanitary engr and my mom was already a doctor..
@ 1st gale di pa sad ganahan ang side sa akong mama kay my dad's family has this reputation na di maau..pero they ended up being married and having 2 kids...

[Snowfly]

^^ kanindot sa istorya ninyo maam.. pang-MMK.. salamat sa pag-share.

Thanks ethzneuron,,,,,,,I sometimes tease my kids nga akong ipadala sa MMK hahahaha

[Snowfly]

OT: love ur story snowfly

Thank you too beyee,,,,,, time is changing,,,,that's why I treasured the memory of it.

[tophat]

gidawat man ka bro..take that as a challenge. dont be intimidated. prove ur worth nila. gidawat ka nila kay they see you as worthy. good luck...imbitaha nya mi sa kasal bro ha...hehehe

[Snowfly]

ka.cute sad ani mam hehe
mahinumdom man q sa akog ginikanan sad..
my mom came from a prominent family in our province.. her parents were district supervisors and had a vast land (hectares2x jud na basakan and fish pond.. even the land where the house of my grands stand is about more than 1000sq.m.) to support their big family...since my mom was the youngest girl her elder brothers and sisters were already professionals..nanay pari, lawyer, teachers etc.... while my dad was this poor kid who was partly raised by his great-aunt and was the "runner" in the house... boy jud xa sa iyang iyaan... niya mamaligya xa ug pagkaon inigbuntag...
sometimes, he and his barkadas would get inside my mom's compound to play basketball... yun pla he was eyeing on her na... pero that time he was no one...
years later my dad moved to manila (where my lola was) and became a working student... my mom also went to study in manila for her BS Chem..pero they never saw each other again until years later, my dad was already a civil and sanitary engr and my mom was already a doctor..
@ 1st gale di pa sad ganahan ang side sa akong mama kay my dad's family has this reputation na di maau..pero they ended up being married and having 2 kids...

Nice story too maddox_pitt,,,,,,success stories like your parents and mine,,,,and others too are worth sharing,,,,for we shall never pass this way again.

[coco_psy-co]

time sa..seryos ni? i mean unsa nga relasyon seryos?

kung seryos, well..sa frndz try to blend in for som nghtouts..if it dosnt work, tell her..basin di iya frnz ky datu pero mkasbot..pro if otherwise, tell her the truth n dli ka comfortble with her frndz..im sure she'll understnd..sa status, this shouldn't b a prob pro sa panahon karn lahi na..consider it a challenge though..while having her at your side, work your life to succeed in any career you take..and start today, kay naa istorya nga "tom maybe your one day too late"

[Ginalyn]

guys, if you were on a situation where you get to meet somebody and became his/her boyfriend, and then time came when she/he gets to introduce you to her/his family.

pag sulod palang ninyo mansion ilaha, datu kaayo sila, nya ikaw pobre kaayo. will this be an obstruction to your plans for that person? labihan na kung ma hibaw-an sa iya parents na unsa ra ka?

naka uyab ko sauna, apo ug mayor dri sa usa city sa cebu. nya pobre ra man mi. i thought di na mi mag kita after na kibaw iya family. good thing gi dawat ra pud ko.
pero naa gyud nang feeling na insecure ka ba kay say nightouts, left out kaayo ka sa iya mga friends kay mga rich sila... and stuff...

ka experience ba mo ana? barugan or padayunon pa ba ninyo?

Socially, it is an uphill climb.

You look like a gold digger in the first glance.
Especially if you are better looking than the girl.

Examine your motives first and examine you self.
Are you up to the challenge?
Because you have a lot of things to do to prove your love to her.
and she may also have to prove her love to you
which might include great sacrifices on her part.

We are talking of years of struggling to get their acceptance.
Again can you handle the pressure?
Or you are foolish enough to think that you can do it with her without any form of problem.

[Snowfly]

gidawat man ka bro..take that as a challenge. dont be intimidated. prove ur worth nila. gidawat ka nila kay they see you as worthy. good luck...imbitaha nya mi sa kasal bro ha...hehehe

Apila pud ko ug invite ninyo ha if ever??hahaha

Tophat, thanks for the personal message.