Do Guys really have the patience to WAIT?

[okoy]

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time will come nga mapul-an pud mi ug huwat....

[KASAAC]

ako gi kilig sa imung uyab... swerte jud ka sis

[BackEdge]

This is not the question of DATES and PATIENCE but the question of YOUR WILLINGNESS, ARE YOU READY TO TIE THE KNOTS? IS HE THE ONE?.

As a result,you keep on postponing making alibis... Virtues like patience (guns'n-roses) are nice to ahve but GUYS and GALS are after all humans and have limitations in everything. Please dont wait for that moment,its better to be honest enough to say yes or no. That shows attitude as a person. You dont expect everybody just to node with your stories without getting hurt and asking the question of your sincerity and credibility as a person and as wife to be. Are you really worth that much for this waiting?..hehehe..hope so!

Pray for guidance and wisdom to understand, after all..everybody has to make decisions like this someday. I have made mine with no regrets. I am very happy with my personal life, career etc.

[vahnhelsing]

sa imo istilo... bang murag mahutdan pasensya ang guy....
guys can wait, we can pero ayaw palabi ug palaom kay sakitan sad mi ana...

[Hinara]

Like girls, guys can wait if it's true love, but in your situation, it's better to assess yourself first if you are willing to marry him, then if you really are, don't give him a wedding date which may give you a chance to change later. It doesn't sound good for him simply bec. it's one serious date-Wedding Date! You may change the date again, afraid he may change a future bride~ Seek God's will Stay in love!

[baning]

make up your mind unsa imo priorities and i lay out na niya... so he would know asa cya molugar... basin mag expect cya ug mau nya dili madayon... kdaghan na bya ni... basin ma puno na cya bah... pero hopefully everything ends well...

[RubySohoRedBalloons]

If sige lang jud ka ug change sa imung mind bout the date of your wedding, mas maayu imu lang sya ingnan na dili paka ready ug hulat lang when ko mu ingun kon pwedi na.. Ang problema if mapul-an sya hinuwat kay we dont/cant control time baya. Basin naay someone nga muabot like kato kang Bea John Llyod!Ahehehehe

[reginakrys]

I know It's my fault that I keep on changing the dates. When he asks me about marriage my mind will be blank for a couple of seconds. Mura bitaw ug MAGMINYO na jud diay ko?! Siguro ma shock lang ko.

sounds like dli pka 100% ready.. i think you should ask yourself if ganahan ug ready na ba jud ka mgminyo karn, at this point in your life.. basin nadala lng ka sa iyang proposal.. tungod kay love nimo cya, ni-yes lng ka pero dli pa jud diay ka ready mu-settle down..

it's unfair sad for him kay you always give him dates nga dli madaun.. he has been patient enough to tolerate 3(?) change of plans.. basin kadugayan maka-feel cya he's not that important to you, kay you keep on putting him off..

[elia]

thanks sa inyohang advice... I really want to marry him because I feel that he is the one. Naa lang jud koy important matters nga gi asikaso.

Last year I admit nga dili jud ko ready. I was once in a situation that I also said "yes" from a marriage proposal 4 years ago. Pero grabeh kaayo ko ning la-om (hope) adto nga guy but he ended up leaving me without any reasons. Siguro in a way nahadlok na ko mo commit ug balik because I am afraid nga mabiyaan napud ko kung mu la-om kog pagayo.

[killallpolitician]

Elia medyo tangaon pud ni imo uyab cge lang sabot nimo. Unya ikaw pud murag dili mankaau ka inlove sa imo bf, kung nagkasinabot mo ngano usab2x man ang imo schedule.

Dili paka ready day, enjoy sa sa-imo pagka-single.