Ka relate mo ani? d nako ni kaya

[xiaomai]

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Mabuhat ninyo nga mopada ug suwat sa inyong rival or ang g cheatan sa imung uyab or sa bana?

id like to share this letter to you guys that iv found online. Lisud kaau ni for me, but if this has happened to you would u write it down and sent it to that rival? what do you think? unsa kahay impact ani sa imu rival? makapasakit kaha ka? daog na kaha ka ani or wala rani para nila?

here's the letter...

Dear Vivian,

Well, it’s been a while since we have had any contact. I know you thought you would never hear from me again. However, I feel you should know what has been nagging at me the last couple of years.

When I found out my husband had cheated on me, I was devastated. But now, a couple of years later, I realize his affair with you was probably the best thing that could have ever happened to our marriage.

The entire nine months we spent waiting to find out the results of the DNA test were nine months we spent repairing our broken relationship. He tried harder, I tried harder, and we realized our love was more dominant than anything else.

That is something you underestimated about marriage: love.

Yeah, he made a mistake with you. In hindsight, though, I don’t really think it was a mistake. I think the infidelity was meant to happen. My husband had to see for himself in the most extreme way that our marriage could be saved, that we are meant to be together, and that love conquers all.

Since then, we have been happier than we have been for a very long time. He feels he will never be able to properly pay for his sin, but I know he already has. For a time, watching him wallow in his own guilt made me feel better. It was perfect retribution for him.

I don’t blame you any more than I blame him. It takes two people to cheat and you were both at fault. You used him; you used him until you discovered he didn’t have the kind of money you thought he had. Then, you harassed me, when I did nothing to you. Still after all that, I am only grateful for the way things turned out.

The reason I am writing this to you is to tell you something what you probably need to hear: he cared about you. You made him laugh and smile when I could not.

So, I wanted to say thank you. Thank you so much for saving our marriage. I don’t think it would have survived without you.

Sincerely,
Jessica Waverly

PS: I’m truly happy that you found out quickly who your little girl’s father is.


comment pls

[heavenknws]

nice ..... busa yaw jud pag pasaway mhine

[im_ur_girl1984]

im a lover not a fighter man xiao.. di ko nahan mangita ug away, di sad ko nahan awayon ko..

silent treatment ra ako.. nuon naa may karma.. so magbasol ra kadugayan ang guy sa iya mistakes..

nice.. i think my mother did the same sa kabit sa ako papa sauna.. pero la lang nkabuntis ako papa.. i hope..hehhehe

[Moongoddess28]

nice. =)
pero tnan homewrecker s akong mga relationships,
ky karma mn daun instantly. HAHAHA

[xiaomai]

ako noh, im just glad that this girl wrote this letter.

Thank you for letting the world know that a relationship CAN survive cheating, and that the two of you can grow even stronger because of it, not despite it.

i hope my mom can read this so if there is really another.. she can learn one or two things from it. dakilang martyr si mama gud

thanks for sharing mhine, chelle and moongoddess

[xiaomai]

nice. =)
pero tnan homewrecker s akong mga relationships,
ky karma mn daun instantly. HAHAHA

maypa ka.. karma is a b**** bya..

ako snail mail kaau mo reply ang karma sa mga nag cheat sa ako.. i want it instant like text

[xiaomai]

im a lover not a fighter man xiao.. di ko nahan mangita ug away, di sad ko nahan awayon ko..

silent treatment ra ako.. nuon naa may karma.. so magbasol ra kadugayan ang guy sa iya mistakes..

nice.. i think my mother did the same sa kabit sa ako papa sauna.. pero la lang nkabuntis ako papa.. i hope..hehhehe

thanks for sharing chelle, it must have been tough for u to entail ur parents story

[ryeaka]

ambot lang noh... kay ako dad sauna grabe man mangabit... mga girls sad mag-una gud... witness jud mi sa akong sister sa tanan... akong mom martyr kau... gi-away lage but gitulon ra japon tanan... mao na sa akong marriage karon, usa ra jud akong rule: PAG MASAKPAN NAKO MANGABIT AKONG BANA WA NA JUD SECOND CHANCES... i know di man ko kastorya ug patapos but mao na sa akoa karon... byaan jud nako... and di na jud siya kita sa iya mga anak nya...

[TEDA]

WTH!? pwede ni icopy paste pra sooner mgamit nko? haahahaha
if ako ang kabit gtagaan ani, dli jud ko mglagot sa babay/lalaki.
ako na nuon xla amigahon ug amiguhon
if ako ang asawa sa laki, relieve jud kau ni
kai at least khibaw njd tawn ang kabit kung gunxa nia ang marriage

[lowel]

nice one...payter kau ang girl...