for me being friends wid an ex is not a problem.. but as long as im sure na naka move on na mi both... so usually it wud take years pa ugsa pa.. yes im in good terms with my exs and same pod si hubby nako with his ex.. and it would depend pod sa ex, kay so far swerte lang mi kay naka move on na tanan so if mag kasugat or mag IM the usual kumustahan lang den wa na daun...