Sakit sa side sa bogo kay under cya always sa bright nga uyab
Sakit sa side sa bogo kay under cya always sa bright nga uyab
Bitaw, I guess mura dili kaaayo nako maayo pagkadeliver ang question...
Better siguro if anih toh:
Does intelligence really matter in a relationship?
Anyways, reality speaks manpud gud base sah ako na-observe. Kay ang ubang mga dili successful sah ila marriages kay tungod dili magka-meet ang tagsa-tagsa ka mga expectations ug lahi ang wavelengths sa mga pang-huna2x; manifested sa dili pareho nga mga priorities.
As in, I'm a living witness jud anih sah ako parents.
Thanks anyways sah inyo mga opinions, and pacenxia nah nih balot_sweet, wa jud nako tuyo-a, i mean, i didn't mean to sapotize you... huhuhu...
naa ba diay tawng bogo?...in which aspect man bogo?...as far as i know, there are 9 types of intelligence (just google it)...we may not be good at something but we might excel in other aspect...
pero it would be a match if u can find a partner who has the abilities that u don't have para makat-on sad ka...just like us...my bf is not good in math..(heheh...ogobz jud xa tawn anang butanga ako pa tutor niya math before pero in fairness bright pud xag english..hahahahah!...ako pod ogobz pod kog english...pero kat-on na lang pod kong eninglis eninglis niya...hahaha!...it doesnt matter if your bogo or bright...what's important in a relationship is "RESPECT"....tsaaa!...
ka weird sa topic, pero naa man sense in a way but dapat d na sya e ask actually.
for one thing, you have to be realistic. for example, you can't say na basta magkasinabot lang mo, d na mu matter ang intelligence. first part lang na d mu matter, k bag-o lang mo. pagdugay na mo and you are the intelligent one sa relationship, sapoton jud ka niya. esp if no matter how much you try to explain d jud ka gets. hay!
unless you yourself are willing to give a lot of time to teach her things.
but then wala man bogo na tao in fairness. stubborn people naa jud. sometimes maka say ka na bogo ang tao k d sya willing mag accept sang mga other things outside her/his comfort zone. or she/he just sticks to what she/he knows and what she/he wants to know.
it's always better to stick with your own ka level. it sounds discriminating in some ways, but then again most of the time for a relationship to work you gotta be on the same level. unless the other is willing to ALWAYS willing to be patient. high lighted jud ang always, k sa kadugayan ang always willing will turn out to be not willing at all. human reaction ra na.
i agree w/ wrap. Sayop lang pagka deliver ang question.
And whether you agree or not, you and your partner's level of understanding [of anything] is different. Naa jud mas maau ninyo at something and banga or di kamao at another.
Most people will agree when i say that intelligence is not really important in a relationship but it is definitely a PLUS.
On a lighter note, if ang buot pasabot ni TS kay kanang mga extremes like
a dumb cheerleader versus four-eyed nerd.... probably looks will be the deciding factor. hahaha
lisod kng bogo ang uyab..wa moi sotryahan nga tarong..dli kasabay ug current events ug uban pa..hehe mag tinutokay nlang cguro mo..ang advantage lang cguro noh ky ikaw perme daog sa inyo lalis ky bogo gd cya..hehe igo nalang cguro cya mu tando...
insecurity ani d jud malikayan lol d sad mo usahay mag ka sinabot pro dependi kinsay mapahi inobsanon ninyo...... sakto akung bisaya hahahah
whew! all i can say is, basta manag uyab dile jud permi iparis...
like poru mo bright! if poru mo bright mag sige lang sad noun mog lalis,
if poru rasad mo bogo dile sad mo maka sinabot...
but ang ako lang jud is, thats what feelings come in,
dile man tingali ka mo ingon sa nangoyab nimu nga oi d ko nimu kai bogo ka!
or ngano gud imong sugton if kabalo ka nga d ka ganahag bogo! diba?
in the 1st place, feelings man jud ta mo agad... before brain?
oh sige ibutang ta! "aw ayaw lang kai kawaton" ato lang i pahimotang...
nga bright ka sa imong uyab, but it doesnt mean nga bright ka in all
your life oi, bright ka kai scholar ka sa school... peru katong imong gitawag nga bogo
he might be good in something else! like his good in making you smile,
his good in making you feel special, his good in times of making you happy if your sad
his good in making you safe when your mad at your family!
his good in making love, and you don't have any experience!
well para naku mas nindut jud nang dile mo same level oi,
ana man jud nang relasyun, u give kung unsai kulang sa usa,
u fill in the blanks where the other one dont have, its what
they call give and take... diba? if bogo xa, teach him kung
unsa imong gusto niya! if he doesnt understand it, pasagdi,
og buwagi... og pangita og lain nga bagai nimu!
ana lang...
peace y'all!
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